He can't he's under age 21 and most hotels (at least the good ones) won't let someone check in unless they are 21 and over.
Is it crazy to have a provider come to your home for an outcall?
already know her pretty good and know that she is someone you can trust around your stuff.
I've never had an escort come to my house, but I have gone to their house before, but only with girls that I already knew VERY well and had already spent some significant time with.
the previous post hit on one of the key points. How well do you know her. Here are some other things to consider. First and foremost, do you live with an SO or wife. Women seem to have a sixth sense, if another lady has been visiting. Stray hair, scent of perfume, etc. Do you have nosey neighbors? Is she well reviewed. Will she attract attention, by dressing in poor taste, instead of a lady. Does she have a TER board presence. I've only had one provider to my home, it was over a year and a number of dates til I invited her over. She still comes over to this day, and it's been 4 years now.
Ideally I perfer that he live alone or his wife be gone on a trip somewhere.
Her just being at work and due back by a certain time isn't going to cut it for me.
Anyway, there are risks for us ladies as well as there are for you guys. Yes you could get a psycho who wants to case your house and see what she can come back and steal later or if you piss her off enough, maybe she will return while you're gone and introduce herself to your family, etc - thats why its suggested that you only see ladies who are well reviewed and that you trust.
on the flip side, as a provider we don't know that you don't have someone else in the house, maybe you've invited a couple of buddies over and we're in for alot more than we bargained for and a whole mess of other situations that can be bad for a lady to be walking in on unawares.
There are certain neighborhoods I will not accept an outcall to or if I arrive and I dont like the look of the area, I cancel.
Its all a matter of trust and doing your research before sharing such personal info with someone.
I always have ladies do outcalls to my home - never an issue.
That said, I'm single, live alone, and in a gated community.
If you do, give her a tour of the home at the beginning - girls are really at risk for hidden agendas in a mans home. Let her get comortable that there are no other people in the house and that you don't have a dungeon where "it puts the lotion on its skin".
It's nice to be able to "set the mood" in your own home. I've had more than one provider say "you have such a nice place to hang out in" and of course, you don't have the hassle of cleaning up and getting back home like you do at an incall. As with all things, YMMV.
If you're single, live in an apartment or something, then why not. But if you're married or have a nice home full of expensive items, I'd say no freakin' way. I have this dilemma...I'd rather do outcalls but then there's the added expense of a hotel if I do that. Add's another $100 to the date.
If you are married or have a live-in SO, def not. As has been said, women have an uncanny ability to know if another woman has been around. Also no if you have not seen her several times previously and feel comfortable around her.
If you are single, no SO, live alone, and have seen her several times, it's probably ok to have her over. However, keep your neighbors in mind. Nosy neighbors can be a problem. When she arrives, she should be conservatively dressed, she can always change into something sexy in the house.
Personally, I prefer to go to her anyway. I think providers are more comfortable in familiar surroundings than in a stranger's house. Correct me if I'm wrong ladies.
Swim
It depends, without knowing the circumstances of your situation.
If you're married and your spouse is at home, then yes, you'd be crazy to have a paid escort come over for an outcall.
Otherwise, everything should be OK provided you SCREENED the paid escort to make sure that she's not crazy or homicidal.
I don't ever go to a personal home, nor will I ever have anyone at mine for calls. It is too risky, not discreet at all and I don't much care for the excuses people use when doing it. You can trace a license plate in less than an hour just by knowing one person in the right office. You can also go to the mortgage dept. in the courthouse and find out who lives where. Protect what you value most, and use a hotel.
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I agree with Naomi. Most of the men I see are married men who are in a very long-term relationship with their wife or SO. I see most in a hotel, but I do see some men in their homes. But I don't care to go there if the SO is due back later in the day or it the gent has nosy nieghbors.
If you are married, please let me (or your friendly neighborhood provider) know. Whether I see you in your home or at a hotel, I take great measures to keep my married gents out of trouble. If I don't, then you can't come to see me.
I don't smoke or drink. EVER. So with the exception of my pussy juice, you will never smell or taste like me. I also leave no lipstick on your collar, no trace of perfume on your clothes, no rogue sequins hiding in your pocket, and no hickies or scratch marks on your body. Your secret is safe with me.
I like to tell people that I specialize in "leave no trace" entertaining. LOL
Marie in Asheville
those found on TER, are great people. However, there are some bottom feeders who you don't want anywhere near your residence, even if you are not married. Think about the worse thing that can happen if an undesireable knows where you live.
is due back and when. Duh...how many horror stories have you heard about the wife setting the guy up by saying she is going out of town for the weekend? My friend learned her lesson just this past week ha ha. Wife walked in on them doing doggie. She said she watched them fight for 20 minutes and was half naked because she did not want to move to find her clothes. No thanks...money is not worth my sanity or going to jail because of some angry wife.
I do enough to wives by screwing their husbands...I won't disrespect them more by doing it in their own bed...pretty messed up for a guy to do it too, but I digress.
Home would definitely be a no no, but I am considering to bring a provider to my college dorm. I don't think there will be any consequences for that.. I wouldn't be able to risk bring her to my home, ESPECIALLY if I am married.
now you want to bring one to the dorm? NO! You got money kid, get a room at the Four Seasons lol!
He can't he's under age 21 and most hotels (at least the good ones) won't let someone check in unless they are 21 and over.