Before I met a lady on CL, I found there were two reviews on TER. Those were very good reviews.
SO, I decided to meet her.
I met her, and gave my money....and she said to me that she did not kiss and not touch my pic without a condom (even excluding BJ)either and I could not touch her pussy either......
I wanted to ask my money back and leave there, but since I did not know whether it was possible to do that I followed her asking...it was not good....
Before starting any session, if I do not agree with her asking can I ask a lady to give me back my money?
Sure you can. I don't know how successful you would be though. How long did you stay with her?
Most providers charge by the hour. If you stayed and fucked you get nothing back.
Yes, you can probably ask, but I don't think you'll get very far. Until you have a little more time under your belt, so to speak, you should probably stick with ladies who have more than two reviews. There are some terrific ladies out there who will see newbies. You might also consider joining one of the verification sites like Date-Check or Preferred411.
Don't give up. it gets better. Good luck.
to ask what her rules are before the appt. LET ME WARN YOU...NOT ALL LADIES WILL ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS. However, I have enough confidence in my screening that if I feel comfortable enough meeting you then I wouldn't mind answering your questions on limits....provided you don't get too explicit.
A good way to go about doing this is by asking the lady if she minds if you ask her a few questions about the session/meeting. Usually, if she has any limits on what she will answer, she will let you know.
Now, going forward, write a review and tell people what really happens.
I have to presume the other two reviews were most likely phony.
Did the other reviewers have other reviews? It is often an indication of phony reviews if they did not.
Then give the donation.
Some providers require you do it before. But if you feel uncomfortable doing that just explain to them whats happened to you in the past.
And you will be shown the door. Any provider who listens to that story deserves to be robbed...sorry but I will only do that after I have seen someone a while and if I need recourse I have the necessary info to get my money.
This community is about giving so please help out. Write a review and mention the services you did get and mention those that might be on the profile that where not offered. By the way you are VIP?
I hope you checked to see that the reviewers of this lady had been longstanding TER members with more reviews under their belt than this provider.
Something tells me you didn't do all your homework. Next time do better research and read the juicy details first. Thats what VIP is all about.
Kisses Haley
I thought that there ALSO were good providers on CL if they have good reviews.
Now, I think that the two reviews on TER is something phony. Both of two reviewers gave her 8 and 8, general details wre also very good..Besides both of two reviews SUDDENLY appeared on this board in this month.
Today, I checked her past ad in CL. She did not mention that she had a review on TER.
From this month, she started to say that she can show her reviews on TER to guys.
I should have met a lday who had at least 5 reviews.
Well, I did not write my review about this girl, but I will report a problem.
My FIANL learning is that the best way to meet a good lady is to avoid CL..
If you could only read the general details, it sounds like you don't have a VIP membership. I would suggest that you buy one. There is a lot more than just the general details to consider when you're looking for a good lady to spend your time with and spend your money on. VIP is only $20 per month, not to mention that when you write the review, you will get an additional 15 days for free.
Give a little, take a little!!!
Good luck.
CL was your first mistake, and you can ask her for the moon, that doesn't necessarly means your going to get anything back, if you DID do your homework and PM the hobbyist she claims she saw and they gave you the thumbs up and you got this treatment, then i strongly suggest you write a review on her and explain what happened, and i would suggest if SHE is reading this, as one provider to another, CHANGE YOUR PROFILE!!! so this doesn't happen again!
Good Luck
Jay
Good luck on getting your donation back... a very few might but most, once given, it's gone! Most won't discuss the rules, before the donation... it is the point of risk!
You definately NEED VIP. You need to know the details, enough to know what services she really offers. The cost of VIP is far less than the cost of one poor date & wasted opportunity.
Used to be a gentleman would leave the donation on the dresser as he dressed... a couple of my Fav ladies still operate this way. (It's much harder to get busted this way... 
It seems almost all ladies want donation up front... you can't blame them. Too many have been ripped off...
skb
you will no longer have this problem. Don't go by the profile, it is established by the first reviewer and may not be indicative of a lady's current performance.
Did the reviews mention that she did not kiss? That everything was covered?
Secondly, who reviewed her? Were the reviewers gentlemen who had reviewed other ladies? Or, were they 'one time reviewers."
I ask these questions because there is the potential that these reviews were posted solely for the purpose of being able to advertise on TER and may not be 'real reviews.' Sadly, sometimes it happens.
If this is not the case, and there was no mention of her allowing what you prefer, then its your own fault for assuming. If the opposite is the case, you can always ask for your money and leave. I can't guarantee that she won't argue about it. But, you are certainly welcome to ask.
If you stayed, do write a review. Let others know that you were unhappy, especially if prior reviews were inaccurate.