I'm new to this, and was under the impression the hourly rate included fs. I had a provider insist any additional services other than her coming to my room required further donation. She had no reviews, so I know I made a mistake not booking a well reviewed provider. Any advice for future encounters would be greatly appreciated.
That's the only real way to avoid these crap shoots.
Do make sure you review her to help others avoid the pitfall you fell into.
Xoxo 💃👄👄
Suggest that you go through the following thread that provides info on a newbie's steps to hobbying
https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie-33/my-experience-so-far-hope-it-helps-166948.
Many reviews are fake. I have a few on my profile i let slide off my radar just out of lack of patience to argue about them *shrug*
Also, considering that menus and rates are subject to change- you cant always rely on reviews for a real idea on a current experience.
Recently, due to my pregnancy and my civvie relationship- i dont provide bbjs or kissing just because i respect my relationship. However, i have reviews that discuss bbj- which ive never enjoyed doing- and now have a legitimate reason not to offer. Kissing ive never done Deeply or "French" because many clients just dont know how to- and i have pretty shitty respiratory health and giving me so much as a cold can land me in the ER attatched to oxygen.
So, best bet- imho- is to check Social Medias, such as twitter, and some girls have invested a personal or semi personal website which lays out their menu. I'm pretty lenient, after screening i send a list of what isnt okay, and then give u the option to place your deposit.
Its just about your preference.
Before contacting a provider, research her. Look at her reviews (if she has any), and if you are new, don't see someone that doesn't have reviews. Look at her website, google her pics, her phone number, use tineye to check her pics. In other words, find out everything you can about her from where ever you can. There are other review sites out there, but I can't name them due to TER rules. PM guys in your area that have reviewed her if need be.
Read the self help center, link is in first post on this board and in upper right corner of this page. If you have questions, come back here and ask.
LLAP,
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I'm new to this, and was under the impression the hourly rate included fs. I had a provider insist any additional services other than her coming to my room required further donation. She had no reviews, so I know I made a mistake not booking a well reviewed provider. Any advice for future encounters would be greatly appreciated.
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Experienced clients (e.g., with a history of reviews) who find themselves in that situation -- yes, the little head sometimes wins out over the big head -- know that they are in a no-win situation and will often just cut their losses. They refuse to pay more and just take what they get for the base rate: lousy massage, chit chat, whatever. They know that +$ to go from massage to nekkid massage then becomes +$ for kissing and +$ for touching and +$ for CBJ and so on, every 10 minutes, ad infinitum.
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Most of the time (as can be confirmed by reviews that do not complain about upselling), the posted rate for reputable Providers is all inclusive. As others have said, stick with well reviewed Providers to avoid upsell.
to read the details in the reviews. You can not go by the provider's profile since that is established by the first reviewer and sometimes not update for accuracy. Provider menus change, they get older, sometimes body type changes, etc. You need to READ the juicy details to get an idea of the type of session you will be a part of. YMMV always applies.
Act like a gentleman, display exceptional hygiene, etc.