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nervous newbie outcall local...confused_smile
Ramblin25 3305 reads
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Thought I might find some advice on this topic in the newbie manual...maybe I'm just a little paranoid.

All things being equal is it better to find a no-tell location that just has you fill out a form (without checking your actual id) so as to dust off your trail, or, am I better off going to a more standard place and register with proper id?

Are there area specific boards that I can refer to as far as no-tells go? What if I fill out a form with an imaginative id and the clerk turns around and asks me for a license???

As far as a more standard motel goes, if I check in as a single, are they watching their cameras for female guests?

Sorry for the newbie jitters, but I feel that my locale warrants them.

Any and all constructive comments will be very much appreciated.

Ramblin

anon76588491289 reads

I rarely go the outcall route unless I'm traveling on biz, and my company is picking up my hotel accommodations. Ladies are also more comfortable with incall. (They don't have to worry about someone hiding in the closet, under the bed, or running video.)  They're more at ease on their own "turf".

johnhuntback1415 reads

In my honest opinion, the kinds of places you're talking about would probably be in the shadier areas of a city or town that I personally try to avoid. You might risk a lot more than you might think than by going to a reputable hotel and registering normally. (Unless, of course, you're with the CIA and are meeting an enemy agent). Plus, I'm a VIP member of a certain hotel chain and rack up points every time I stay. But that's just me.
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Ramblin251379 reads

Yeah, I'm leaning in that direction. Thanks for the advice. She's very well reviewed, but it's still a little nerve racking with your name on the room.

I guess this is what Ante Up is all about?

Ramblin

First of all, most "no tell" places are dumps in questionable neighborhoods.. No self-respecting provider is going to see you in a room that rents by the hour or risk her own safety getting to you.

Hotels are in the business of renting rooms. As long as you keep a low profile and your visitor conducts herself in a discrete manor you should not have to worry about attracting attention.

If you are trying to cover your tracks where a spouse is concerned I would suggest you pay cash for the room.  Keep in mind however that many places will ask you to put down a credit card as security against incidental expenses or damage to the room. As long as you don't incur any expenses beyond your room rental the card will  not be charged.  Beware of using a debit card for this as most hotels will put a "hold" on some of your funds that may not disappear for a few days.

In call or out call the same rules apply, stick with well reviewed and established ladies and always think with the big head.

Ramblin251765 reads

Thanks Boston,

I'm not hiding from anybody.
I'm not even married. I guess with the current climate here a tad south of you I'm just trying to keep a very low profile. A very low profile...

Thanks for the input,
Very much appreciated,
(gonna have to get a VIP so I can start pming)

Go Pats!

You have recieved good advice. If you are not even worried about an SO then you have no problems, dude.. Just go to a hotel, check in and act normal. There is nothing wrong with checking into a hotel and having a woman come and visit with you or spend the night, does not mean she is a provider at all.

Now, if you get some unreviewed provider and she shows up looking like a hooker off of the street corner, then you may have a problem...LOL

1) Motels generally rent by the room, not the number of occupants.  I wouldn't expect a problem, unless you show up with an unpaid guest at the "free" breakfast buffet.

2) Millions of people have people meet them in their motel/hotel room every day, some even of the opposite sex.  So long as everyone acts with discretion, there should be no problem.

3) Illicit sex happens ALL THE TIME at every motel/hotel, and usually it is not of the paid variety.  Any CCTV recording of your encounter with a provider would likely be lost in the forest of affairs, rendezvous with secretaries, co-workers, neighbors, best friend's wife, best friend's daughter, etc.  If the front desk called the cops every time they suspected hanky panky, they'd risk alienating/inconveniencing "innocent" customers,not very good for business, and the police would soon stop answering their calls.

-- Modified on 8/1/2008 11:28:50 PM

Ramblin251597 reads

Thanks for all the responses. You guys are awesome.

Jazz32, that was one hell of a 123 punch.

Time to have some fun...



shudaknownbetter1323 reads

If you're concerned about renting the room, have her rent it & reimburse her.  There was a great thread not long ago with the misadventures of leaving the lady with a room in your name!
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