I found a well reviewed provider I like, but phone does not pick up and no response to texts. Her cityvibe site says “get screened” then call, but there’s no reference to P411 or how to get screened. How do I connect?
Second question is donation amount, find a lot of providers that say $250-$260 per hour, but is that just where it begins? After I get there is it going to be much higher if I want all services advertised?
check that provider in question has p411, TER, enough reviews, social media & is actually active not just an account that last post was 6 months ago.
google the phone number, email, name and see what you can find.
If they don’t, MOVE ON. If they have ter reviews, read the juicy details and you’ll know the services offered. Of course you have to be a vip memeber to access the juicy details. And it’s well worthwhile to pay for VIP.
I found a well reviewed provider I like, but phone does not pick up and no response to texts. Her cityvibe site says “get screened” then call, but there’s no reference to P411 or how to get screened. How do I connect?
Second question is donation amount, find a lot of providers that say $250-$260 per hour, but is that just where it begins? After I get there is it going to be much higher if I want all services advertised?
If not, then that shouldn't be problem.
You might want to PM some of her reviewers if you can to ask them what they did to satisfy her screening requirements.
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Assuming the reviews are recent, she might just be on vacation, heading home for Thanksgiving, taking a break ... I don't know ... I've got nothin' here ...
Thanks for the input.
I've been trying to contact this provider over a three week period without being annoying. The provider has excellent and recent reviews, 4 or 5 reviews in November. On the Cityvibe website, the provider often shows as "available now", but does not respond. On Cityvibe, provider says "get screened, then call my assistant, but no information on how to get screened. Can't find provider on P411.
If you are unable to get an answer via phone or text, do NOT blow her phone up or you most likely will NEVER hear from here. I do have one suggestion that may work. If she is reviewed on TER she will have at least "limited VIP" here that will allow here to send and receive PM's. I would try sending her a final message via PM stating "I don't mean to be a pest, but I have been unable to reach you through other methods and I'd really like to see you" or some such message conveying the same thoughts.
The thing you do not want to do is look either desperate or "stalkerish" she could either be having some issues right now that she may or may not reveal to you at a later date, or she might just be flaky. Either way, you need to send her one final request and then let it go. She will either respond or she won't.
You are only looking for a date for a fixed period of time... this isn't Match . com I'm not sayng to forget her, but it's time to get perspective. I suggest scheduling a date with someone who's available. Newbie friendly. Besides, Newbies tend to make mistakes or things that could be done better... best to do so with Ms Good Enough, not Ms First Choice. After you have a few successful dates, circle back & try again.
Well, I finally got a disappointing text response. She asked for screening info which included my age and other providers I had seen, this is my first time and I’m 66, so I may have struck out on both counts. Really had my mouth watering for this one, but will have to move on.
Thanks for your responses.
Most providers would rather see a guy who is 66 than a guy who is 26.
Age doesn't matter dude. On the contrary, I've looked at plenty of provider websites and many of the experienced ones won't see guys that are under 30 years old because of their immature behavior. If you can get it up, and you can pay, than you can get yourself a young girl who'll let you have some fun with her. There's a good chance she just wants to make sure you aren't some 20-something that's going to cause trouble for her, that's all.
The reference check is a bigger issue. You're gonna have to look for a girl that don't both doesn't ask for references but is also willing to provide one. The standard amount of references providers generally ask for is two. You're going to have to do some digging and find a provider that'll be willing to see you without that, or alternatively you might have to give her ALOT of information about yourself, including work info. Maybe paying for a P411 account might be useful in establishing yourself as a safe client.
Explain the situation to the provider first, give her your TER handle, you might be able to set something up anyway.
Dude, P-411 is a must do! That and TER is all you`ll need. Search for "Newbie Friendly" girls. You don`t need to see the girl of your dreams the first couple of times. Consider this a "Training Camp" for now until you get your sea legs under you. It`s queasy the first couple of times but then it gets REAL EASY. I went thru this exact experience a year ago and now I`m 180* from there and lovin' it. The attitude adjustment you will experience is a true natural high like no other.
After a few dates your self confidence will soar and will carry over into real life. What you will learn in the hobby is amazing. You'll scratch you head wondering why you didn`t do this sooner!
Seeing seniors is to them preferable to 20/30 yr old millennial brats who don`t have their shit together like we do. Being a senior is a plus, trust me.
After several trysts you`ll probably come up with one or two ATFs that you really connect with and you`ll love it. Almost like having a real GF without the baggage. I`ve had twenty or so sessions since jumping in a year ago and have two ATFs that I see repeatedly, then I see a new one every third time in the rotation. This formula works great for me though YMMV. Practice dude, practice. This hobby is the best therapy ever. No meds or psychologists are better.
Keep reading the posts on the 60 and over, Newbie and GDBs. There is a wealth of really good info there.
Hope this helped, PM me if I can further assist.
Good luck.
Jeff
If you find yourself fixating on a provider that you must have ... that's a red flag about your emotional state. We all have preferences but if they become obsessive it means we're going to start making bad decisions and coming off as needy or stalkerish -- without realizing it.
Just impose a strict discipline on yourself -- if there is someone you'd like to see, try no more than 2-3 times to connect. After that, hard as it may seem to be, cross her off the list.