The reason is because I was, and still am to an extent, shy around women. I haven't even kissed a girl.
My question is, does anybody know of any escort in the DC area (preferably Northern VA) that would be really nice about "showing me the ropes" so to speak? Also, preferably around $250.
There are more than a few 0f us whose first time was with an escort.
The newbie board isn't the place to ask for specific recommendation. This question is better suited for the DC board!!!
Cool. I'll post this there, then. Thanks.
This is cute if you were her I'd take ya lol
hard to take advice from an Irish Bartender, but an escort isn't the way to pop your cherry.
This is one time to wait it out, and find the right gal.
i don't see a problem, as long as he does not fall instantly in love with her the second he has the big O, i don't see a problem. Alot of guys first time is not some big emotional special event, its the first girl that will sleep with them period. I cant even remember the girls name in my case and honestly not sorry at all. Yes i know its not romantic but my point is , i think as long the provider is someone who will handle him the right way its a better choice than alot of guys make their first time
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I felt that way for the longest time & was "waiting for the right girl".
Problem was the longer I waited, the less confident I became. I started to have "performance anxiety" ie my inexperience made me afraid that it would show on my first attempt & that I would be embarrassed.
Long story short, I finally went the provider route. It was the best decision I made. And the event was a fond one.
I did do a lot of research & went with a provider that was attractive & very well-reviewed. That took out the variables that could potentially make for a less that memorable experience.
So my advice is the Nike motto: JUST DO IT!
That's EXACTLY how I am now. I've waited so long that now the longer I wait the less confident I am, and the more embarrassed I'd be if I waited for the right girl.
Honestly, I couldn't phrase it any better than you just did.
The best advice I can offer is do your research, go with a well-reviewed lady, & don’t let a monetary factor deter your selection.
Another recommendation is to take it a step at a time. You can find a provider that offers 30 minute sessions (basically a BJ) & that will “break you in”.
Once you get your feet wet, you'll feel liberated. Good luck!