just like in a 2-call system. I give her the room number and the lobby layout so she can come right up.
Once I had to meet a lady on floor 9 because it was the highest floor where key access was not needed. I was waiting on 9 the elevator door opened, saw she was alone, and got into the elevator, slid in the key and up we went. Had someone else been on the elevator, she would have gotten off as if that was her destination and we would have caught the next elevator to go up to my room.
If I am hosting an outcall, is it better etiquette to meet my date in the hotel lobby or just wait for her in my room?
I would much prefer to be able to just go on up to the room. I ask for the layout of the lobby so that I can just walk in and into the elevators without having to pause or look lost.
I remember meeting a friend who was in town, and I waited in the lobby for him to come down so that we could go out for dinner... The whole time I was there...(which felt like eternity, but was really only maybe 2 minutes) the 2 people at front desk were eye-balling me and shooting me looks. Im not sure if its because Im a provider that it made me feel extra uncomfortable, but I just could not wait for him to get downstairs so that we could leave. Id rather not have any lobby time at all.
I usually do not have any problem just going straight to the gentleman's room.
If its a provider with no reviews and you are TOFFT - meeting in the lobby might be the better idea since if she turns out to be soemthing you weren't expecting she has no way of knowing which room you are in or trying to rob you since you are both out in the open.
Also some providers dont mind meeting at the hotel bar for a quick drink if you perfer to do that.
As an outcall only provider I have done it both ways.Sometimes,I go right up to the room and sometimes I have the gents meet me in the lobby.If you are staying at a hotel that requires a key card for the elevator or security then you would need to come down.If the hotel you are staying at has none of these things going right up to the room should not be an issue.Many times I meet gents in the lobby and have a drink at the bar before going up together.Do what works for you.
I don't think it's a good idea for either party to have to 'hang out' in the lobby for any length of time. If it's a big hotel with a bar, that's different. If one party has to wait downstairs, maybe wait outside like you're waiting for a cab.
Personally, unless a key card is required, I'd prefer to go right up. One time, I had a date before a MnG where only the top floors required a key for the elevators, of which there were 2 sets of them. She told me on the phone to go to the highest floor that didn't need a key, and she would come down there and meet me. Then we would use her key for the other elevator to get to her floor. Worked perfect. That is one way of eliminating either party having to come to the lobby, or wait in the lobby, for them to come down.
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I recently did an outcall at my hotel. Nice day so I say outside the hotel reading the newspaper, waiting for my companion. When she arrived, we recognized each other immediately, walked through the lobby to the elevator together chatting, quite naturally and normally. No raised eyebrows, no looks. Remember, as long as both people are not dressed to attract attention, the other people in the lobby don't know what we know and have no reason to be suspicious.
I would say that sometimes if it is a major hotel with a busy bar and it is not in a town where you might run into people you know, the meeting at the bar is usually a good idea because on a first meeting it gives the parties a chance to feel safe and comfortable. I think that such meetings have always worked out well for me. Sometimes, you just want to meet the provider in a public environment before being one on one. I feel it is an extra safety precaution that can be of use for both parties. Moreover, people meet at hotel bars all the time. No big deal.
When I do outcalls, some hotels, such as the one's with big, busy lobbies, I have no problem just heading upstairs to the gentleman's room. Other hotels, with smaller lobbies, or if I know the front desk staff to be nosy, I will have the gentlemen meet me at one of the side doors. I actually do this quite frequently & have only had one guy that refused to come down(even though it was midnight & the lobby was locked for the night, lol).
As far as meeting in the lobby, I would not advise it, as that can draw attention & if the two of you do not time yourselves perfectly, someone will be standing around waiting on the others arrival.
I will not be seen with more than one person in the same hotel per stay, so they come to my room. Many ladies do this for comfort reasons I guess, but if a guy is not screened to your comfort level by that time, I would not suggest meeting him at all. A public meeting does not mean a damn thing as he won't kill you right there lol.
but there is one who told me that she "feels funny" walking around the hotel corridors by herself (She is an UTR gal.), so I meet her in the lobby and we walk together.
I don't think there is a problem either way so long as you are discreet.
Generally, she comes to your room.
just like in a 2-call system. I give her the room number and the lobby layout so she can come right up.
Once I had to meet a lady on floor 9 because it was the highest floor where key access was not needed. I was waiting on 9 the elevator door opened, saw she was alone, and got into the elevator, slid in the key and up we went. Had someone else been on the elevator, she would have gotten off as if that was her destination and we would have caught the next elevator to go up to my room.