Hellonall,
I'm brand new to the hobby and have no one in my life that I can talk to about this.
I recently got out of a three year relationship. I needed comfort so have already seen two providers and am seeing my third tonight.
I don't know how to feel or know what I am seeking from providers or you guys. Just wanted to see how everyone is. Thanks.
Some people will argue that fucking hookers is a "poor substitute" for a real relationship, but IMO it's a pretty damn good substitute if you ask me. lol
BTW there is a "newbie board" AKA "FAQ for newbies" where you can go to help figure the do's and don'ts and how to navigate this place. There is a lot of banter that goes on on this board, some good natured, some not so good natured, but it's better than trying to talk to "Friends" who will never "get it" lol
serious relationships are a poor substitute for hobbying.
Besides that he in my opinion has a great handle on things, gets straight to the point, and is always honest. Happy Hobbying
At first, it was just a "bucket list" item. Was in the midst of a divorce and living on my own. Decided while I was in Vegas to celebrate a life milestone that I "check the box". Didn't have a clue about this world at all. It took seeing a number of ladies and experiencing all the negatives (up sell, bait and switch, etc) before I encountered the one lady who changed my perspective. It was because of her that I now knew what worked for me. So it was just a matter of experiences.
The one item that I will caution you about is keeping your emotions in check. It is a dangerous thing to become emotionally attached to a provider. This is especially true in your current state.