...to a younger provider that the reason I was electing not to see her was because she offered translated French (she was a vetted provider with a number of reviews and I'm a long time client with reviews, referrals, etc.). She asked "What's that?" and I told her CBJ.
All of this was via private messaging on a local PNW board where I've been a member for years, so I felt safe in that instance of communicating to a provider about services. Open email? No reviews of her? No board presence? No way.Is there a good way to ask a provider if she provides specific services prior to meeting? Obviously directly asking something like "do you do anal" is incredibly dumb and not something you should do, but are there any good ways to find out if something specific is offered if it's hard to tell based on reviews?
There is plenty of info online
Many providers will ignore or even block callers who ask about services including using acronyms to ask.
Honestly what is the difference between, "Do you do bare back blow jobs" and "Do you do BBBJ?"
That is the quickest way to not get a response from me is to email me and include acronyms.
I would suggest the OP get VIP if he does not have it and read the reviews and profile.
If you ask the majority of ladies anything sexual or acronyms be prepared for radio silence.
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Honestly what is the difference between, "Do you do bare back blow jobs" and "Do you do BBBJ?"
about any specific sexual activity.
If the reviews do not have enough detail for you, you should PM the reviewers and see if they will give you more details.
...won't get cut off. Some providers are OK with it and some are not. Thing is you don't know which is which until you bring it up and then you find out the hard way if she isn't. Then if she is inclined to she may tell others what you did and then you're on their "Don't See" list too. Remember LE will want her to say something they can use against her. If you ask she may assume you are LE attempting to catch her. Frankly if she does talk about services with you she may be LE or just not very discrete which isn't good for you either. Some here will tell you it's OK to talk about services as long as you don't mention money. It doesn't matter if it's really OK it matters if she thinks it's OK or not. If not, like I said before she will cut you off and there goes your opportunity with her.
The best practice in this case is don't ask. Read reviews, read web sites, read blog, read whatever you can by/about the provider to find your answers. PM her recent reviewers see what they can tell you. Be prepared for no response from the reviewers. Some may not be able to access PM's and some may not want to respond. You just have to do everything you can and then decide if you want to give it a try.
I think that if what your requesting is a fetish or something not commonly practiced, I would be ok with a gent saying something like, "EM there is something I'm interested in trying with you and would like to know if you would be interested in finding more out about that. If so, follow the link I provided below that depicts my fantasy."
I'm a visual person what can I say 
Kisses,
EM
Would you be OK with this if you hadn't seen him before?
you find any questionable or conflicting info, you can PM several reviewers for assistance.
It's been mentioned before that when an individual with no or very little review history sends a PM to others, that it goes unanswered. Not very many are willing to provide an answer to an unknown and for good reason.
The other item to remember is that not everyone keeps VIP status. When you send a PM, you have no way of knowing whether the other person can read it or if they can't. Ladies who have reviews, don't have this issue obviously.
I agree that asking about services is generally a no-no, but what about things that you know are provided based on websites and reviews but require prep time/advanced notice such as greek? If it is not discussed in advance, it likely won't be able to happen (or you will in retrospect wish it didn't happen).
Typically this would be a good question to ask after screening and along the lines of "I'd like to ask about something but not sure if I should talk about it"...Let her take the lead. Honestly it's just courtesy to ask about something like Greek instead of springing it on her at the appointment. I'm a YMMV Greek provider who has to be in the mood and wouldn't want anyone booking with me for that reason and not telling me that's what he wants when I don't feel like doing it at that time.
and give it a cute title such as an "island upgrade", or similar term.
In that case, it's OK to just tell them when you make your appointment that you are interested in that option, and she ought to be ready to go when you meet.
Island upgrade but don't mention greek?! Lmao. Oh geeze. These are just getting silly now.
The glaring contraction in his advice did sound a little silly, didn't it? lol
I know what it is lmao. It's still also stupid lol..
Pretty much everything you are looking for are on the reviews. I don't even respond to emails that have ANY of that type of questions. Deleted!
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...to a younger provider that the reason I was electing not to see her was because she offered translated French (she was a vetted provider with a number of reviews and I'm a long time client with reviews, referrals, etc.). She asked "What's that?" and I told her CBJ.
All of this was via private messaging on a local PNW board where I've been a member for years, so I felt safe in that instance of communicating to a provider about services. Open email? No reviews of her? No board presence? No way.
Do your homework...and be prepared to be shunned by many ladies if you ask too much about services and menus. Big turn off