Should I get tested I mean both providers I've been with both were clean, but I just wanted to ask If it would be offensive to test myself for reasons of my own personal safety given I did DATY with both. Or am I just worrying for nothing.

It doesn't hurt to test regardless of what anyone else thinks.

I personally test on a regular basis thru planned parenthood.  They are discrete and easy for me to schedule with, plus I know sitting around in their waiting room, I know that no one is sitting there wondering what I am there for since they cover anything and everything related to the female reproductive system.

But, don't say anything to the providers, just do it on your own.  No one needs to know but you.  As has been said many times by me and many others, you are probably safer with a provider than a girl you might pick up in a bar.

Swim

Thank you I guess it's more my neurosis or my hypochondria than anything its nothing against providers. It's just I like to be in control of as many variables as possible. I guess that's what I get for being a science major. I know I'm less likely with providers given it is part of their livelihood, but I guess I always believe the notion that one can never be to careful.

swim is correct..you feel safer with these girls than in the civie world..there it is like playing russian roulette..you never know whats in the chamber..you have only been with two so far..you have yet to get to the deep water and leave that worrisome wading pool..it takes time but will eventually learn you will learn how to swim..[pun intended]..

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......every three months.  I would suggest that every gentleman in this "hobby" get tested regularly.  Not all ladies are like the one's that posted thus far.  Offensive?  Your health, like our's is paramount.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly