Is it correct to assume that if a lady posts an ad (for clients) on TER that she is legitimate simply because she has access to TER?
I recently responded to a TER ad for a drop dead gorgeous lady. She has a fantastic website with professional photos and all. But she has no reviews and according to her assistant, whom I've corresponded with, she is "new to the business." The assistant has a p411 account. The provider does not. The lady seems too good to be true, so I thought I would ask. To the experienced providers out there, what do you think? Would you go through with the appointment? Or is it better to be safe than sorry? Sorry if I am asking a question that's been discussed before.BTW , I never "assume" anything about a provider I'm seeing for then first time even if she has reviews.
Since you used an alias that indicates you might be in Chicago, you should have no problem finding a well reviewed provider who will see newbs.
Is it correct to assume that if a lady posts an ad (for clients) on TER that she is legitimate simply because she has access to TER?
I recently responded to a TER ad for a drop dead gorgeous lady. She has a fantastic website with professional photos and all. But she has no reviews and according to her assistant, whom I've corresponded with, she is "new to the business." The assistant has a p411 account. The provider does not. The lady seems too good to be true, so I thought I would ask. To the experienced providers out there, what do you think? Would you go through with the appointment? Or is it better to be safe than sorry?
Sorry if I am asking a question that's been discussed before.
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While the vast majority of ladies who do past ads here are legit, every now and again you will find someone who isn't.
Now, you mention she uses an assistant who is on P411, that helps alleviate my concern. Are you using P411 to arrange the appointment? I know I would.
You're taking a risk with any "new" provider if she doesn't have reviews. It all comes down to if you think she's worth it, if not wait and see if someone else TOFTT.
Be diligent with anyone whether they have P411 or TER before you do your research first. As an example, a blonde provider who goes by Alexis L. frequently in DC/NYC posted on Eros all the time "I'm so and so and I provide PSE/GFE and so on and here's my TER, I have great reviews etc" and nothing of the sorts was included on their TER profile. I contacted her and her rate was $500 per hour, 1 pop, CBJ only.
Is it correct to assume that if a lady posts an ad (for clients) on TER that she is legitimate simply because she has access to TER?
I recently responded to a TER ad for a drop dead gorgeous lady. She has a fantastic website with professional photos and all. But she has no reviews and according to her assistant, whom I've corresponded with, she is "new to the business." The assistant has a p411 account. The provider does not. The lady seems too good to be true, so I thought I would ask. To the experienced providers out there, what do you think? Would you go through with the appointment? Or is it better to be safe than sorry?
Sorry if I am asking a question that's been discussed before.
I "might" take a chance on an unreviewed provider with an assistant who is a known quantity, but that's me and I have been at this since before there even was an internet.
The good news is, she is almost certainly not LE, the bad news is, you don't know ANYTHING else about her. Sorry, but if she is legit, I am sure she will get some reviews in short order, and then you can feel safe to book a session with her.
One quick question, is the assistant also a provider, or just a booking agent? If she is a provider herself, and she has reviews that are good, I "might" ask the assistant if I can expect a similar experience to what she herself provides, but that's something that a newbie should probably NOT be doing.
Have you ever come across an assistant for an agency who was also a provider? Seems kind of contradictory to me. An "assistant" is there to "assist" the provider in making appointments, not taking them for herself
Sometimes the booker is the actual owner, some owners are also hookers themselves, who pull double duty by scheduling appointment for other girls while also taking appointments herself
I think you are getting hung up on the word "assistant" when the proper word might be more along the lines of "scheduler"
Right on, just seems odd to me is all
Not likely she's LE or a rip-off artist, but you never know. The greater concern is that she might be a crap provider or simply not offer what you're looking for.
I have the same newbie jitters... My strategy since I don't have p411 yet is as follows . ( I just need one more referance)
Must have P411 that is valid ... I get the benefit of the doubt that she would be LE if she had p411
Must have recent reviews... I then check the reviewers to validate that they have white listings from known providers
Then I check the net for the phone number or email address to see if that raises any flags.
That's my approach... feedback appreciated
... "I get the benefit of the doubt that she would NOT be LE if she had p411"?
And about your checking on reviewers' white lists... keep in mind that reviewers may choose to not show their white lists all the time. Also, some reviewers don't put much emphasis on white lists (they may prefer P411 OKs). Thus an absence of white lists will tell you nothing about whether a reviewer is "valid". I go by the reviewer's review history, not whether he/she has white lists.
And don't forget to check the photos also, using google image search or other such tools.
I have the same newbie jitters... My strategy since I don't have p411 yet is as follows . ( I just need one more referance)
Must have P411 that is valid ... I get the benefit of the doubt that she would be LE if she had p411
Must have recent reviews... I then check the reviewers to validate that they have white listings from known providers
Then I check the net for the phone number or email address to see if that raises any flags.
That's my approach... feedback appreciated
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Just like fbi & LE are on these boards posing as clients (with reviews), same with "ladies".
Always good research, online print, reviews, social media and screen!
Wait what.. now you have me freaking g out... are you sYing LE post fake reviews and have bald P411 accounts?