I am seriously on the fence as to whether or not I'd like to continue offering this service. I really love it and I know it drives men wild, but the risk factor makes me uneasy. I was hoping to talk to some other girls about BBBJ, specifically.
I wish I could post this on the providers only board but I don't have enough TER reviews yet. please, girls, my questions are invasive, but please lend me a big hand and PM me your answers - they are for me only! I am trying to get as much feedback as I can. i want to hear from a lot of girls to help make a decision based on what those around me are doing.
anyway, here are my queries about bbbj:
- do you offer this service
- if so, how long have you been doing it and have you ever contracted anything?
- also if yes, do you allow CIM? if so, do you swallow or spit?
- again, if your answer was yes.. how long have you been offering this service?
AND most importantly, if your answer is no, you don't do BBBJs at all, do CBJs seem to suffice? do you offer other services in lieu of BBBJ, and if so, what are they?
thanks so much for any help you can provide, girls. i really appreciate it.
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Too bad I can't read the answers.
Need to take note here guys!! Her is a Lady that really wants to do the right thing and wants to really do the right thing. Just my take on it. Pretty cool!!!
This really sucks, because I absolutely love giving BBBJ.. but as a nursing mother & fluid bonded lover of two men, I can't help but be worried about the risk...
as you see best, Katie. The only bad part is you will have to realize that you won't get as much business, and your reviews will reflect the activities offered. If you feel that the risks are too high, then that's a decision that only you can make.
You are correct as far as board hobbyists go, but there is big world out there of thousands of men who will see her and who will respect her reasons for not wanting to do this if she decides not to. TER is but a small portion of the community. I know because I see the other type of client and do very well.
..means that I am having unprotected sexual interactions with these people. We've ALL been tested (me, my mates, and their other mates, and their other mates' other mates) for every STI under the sun and all came up 100% clean... and I want to keep it that way.
I like to get health information from a doctor, not a hobbyist. I learned a lot from this site. There is a search feature also. I hope this helps.
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... b/c how many of those in the study which created the statistics are providers some of whom perform BBBJs on a regular basis with several partners? So, while I appreciate your feedback, I HAVE done research on what medical professionals say the risk is and still find it unsatisfactory, so I am going to girls who are in the same situation I am. I like to be well rounded. 
Apparently you didn't bother to look at the information I suggested, I think it would have given you a lot of peace of mind. I know it certainly has helped me enjoy myself, with much less anxiety.
Additional thoughts...Whatever decided, don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Think most guys would sense and would prefer you enjoy get together as much as they if not more.
Hi - hope you don't mind a consumer's 2c worth -
I have never ever in my life cum with a condom on. I take responsibility for this - I am older and spent at least the first half of my sexually active life without the use of condoms. I'd just as soon a lady did not even bother to try a cbj with me. That being said, if a lady is warm and sensual, greets me like she's really glad I'm there, makes me feel like a million bucks, enjoys my erotic attentions including being kissed all over and of course daty, whispers in my ear now and then and pays me an occasional compliment, and is reliable with communication and keeping commitments, I will gladly make do with a really good HJ with lots of spit, maybe allowing a facial or cumming on her chest. Do what you think is best for your wellbeing - anyone who would try to influence you otherwise, is not acting in your interest. Cheers - Gregory
I myself enjoy and do all the time. I have my best orgasms during and swallowed for many years.
I now do the oldfashioned run and spit routine.
You asked how many years and with that I will ask how old you are? It has been at least that long. I have never had a problem!
I do use an oral cleansing antiseptic that your dentist would recommend after oral surgery. You can pick it up at any pharmacy. It has 10% peroxide in it and I use it religiously.
Just because I haven't had a problem doesn't mean I won't or that you won't. You must do what makes you feel comfortable and safe.
If a gentlemen has something and doesn't know or isn't honest you could walk away with his problem. Whether you are a $60 blowpop girl or a $500 provider the risk is still the same. Gentlemen from every walk of life experiment and many BMWs and Mercedes are confiscated every year during streetwalker stings.
Hope what I have to say helps and do your own reasearch.
Kisses Haley
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Also, do you know the name of this antiseptic? I must get some!
I have to agree with Gregory12- However much I enjoy a BBBJ, I would rather have a great experience the entire time instead of those fleeting minutes.
I find the anticipation of the meeting, the excitement of the meeting and the eroticism is more than satisfying.
I would rather be in the company of a woman who is comfortable in what she is doing rather than see her fake enjoyment.
my .02
G
Yes, many men do not contact me. I'm ok with that as I consider myself a true companion, I have no interest in meeting men who are seeking my company for a particular service. I very much adore the men who consider MY safety as well as their own, and who respects the choices I make around that.
I do know a provider who twice contacted oral gonnhorea (sp?) from clients. I suspect that many ladies do not ask their doctors for throat cultures with their exams to check for this type of thing.
I don't care how many how often, the risk is unacceptable to me... especially with the rising incidence of drug resistant disease and the seeming link to throat cancer.
You are asking good questions and whatever you decide, my best wishes for your health, happiness and prosperity.
xoxo,
Sola
I hear you lady!