If i'm going to see a lady that's into DFK and BBBJ for the first time; and I am NOT into fluid exchanges so no kissing, DATY, or BBBJ should i tell her in advance?
I don't want to seem rude if she opens the door and tries to kiss me (as per her reviews).
There are so many providers that have been reviewed on Ter that don't DFK, BBBJ, or do Daty; if you really want to avoid this kind of situation altogether.
I am pretty sure if you talk to her over the phone before the appointment she would be more than willing to accommodate your request. Also, just because those services are offered doesn't mean you have to partake in them.
Yes -- tell her in advance of the activities you aren't interested in doing. There would be nothing so ego crushing as a suitor turning his head away when I'm trying to plant one on him. I'd worry I hadn't brushed well enough!
A lot of ladies (including myself) won't reply much to statements that involve sexually-oriented activities, so state firmly what you aren't interested in, but don't expect a drawn out discussion. 
I am a mature affectionate very kissable lady. If you are a gentlemen who is not kissable and affectionate yourself we may not be suited for one another.
I myself would want to know and would not see you. I am exactly what you read in my reviews and more. I'm sure many ladies feel the same.
Do get VIP and do your research...Many ladies do offer what your looking for and others will not mind doing as you wish.
Kisses Haley
A date without DFK DATY BBBJ etc. is like a day without sunsnine.
Thank You
XLIII = 4
Dude....no DFK,DATY,BBBJ.....may as well stay at home and use your hand!....Not condemning you...
BUT...you sure are missing out on some of the GOOD stuff!...just my $.02 worth!
I am sure you will find a lot of ladies will be just fine with that! Reviews don't always portray the Ladies preferences correctly.
It would be wise to tell her in advance, you want your experience to be fantastic, and if your not honest with what you want or not want, it could get a bit cold..so tell her, we want to know!
Jay
I don't expect someone I'm paying to fuck to want to kiss me passionately, and deeply as if I'm their lover. It's ridiculous. I DO expect them to fuck ,and suck like a machine.
And I DO expect to be treated like a human being not a piece of machinery. If a girl advertises she is a GFE than you shouldn't contact her in the first place. There are enough girls with the, "get on, get off, get out attitude". Go make an appontment with them. Even though it's a service I still get to choose the kind of people I want to be with. And someone with your attitude isn't one of them. Thankfully, I'd bet an hours donation that I wouldn't be your choice either.
Newbies, this is NOT the way to win ATF (all time favorite) status among a lot of providers.
Anneke
Wow. I bet you have all the ladies oozing over you everywhere you go..lol
I just love it when someone comes into a conversation BUT doesnt have the balls to use a "real" handle.
If your gonna be a man, be a man. Hiding behind an alias is most immature!
Like they say, "if the shoe fit's"..and I must say, you wear it well.
Get a backbone or STFU.
I'm reasonably sure that you can find the exact machine to suit you needs. It's really quite sad that you'll never experience the feelings that the rest of us do.
I was going to say, I wish he would use his real name so I could make a note not to see him. Then I realized he would never see me anyway! lol If a man doesn't want to DFK, carress etc he might as well move on. IMHO the GFE is for BOTH of us. The day I become a piece of meat to be used and degraded is the day I quit.
FTR - Based on this bozo's posts on the boards, I'm thinking he's got some intimacy issues...
Kari~~
Yes I agree GFE (Glorious Followme Extravaganza)is huge no, no it is G I A N T !
I RAVENously seek a snuggly and cuddly lil sweetie
and you know I am RIGHT.
Thank You
XLIII = 4
-- Modified on 10/14/2008 6:58:13 AM
If you amortize the cost, its actually cheaper than a provider! Plus, no annoying conversation. She's the only girl who's truly available 24/7, up all nite 4 U!
I prefer the real thing, kissing and everything.
I hope you wre taking aim at John, and not me.
waiting for you to call. Who would want to be with you?
I guess that is why they say different strokes for different folks!
PSE services as there is generally no kissing involved. Then when they are ready to head south, request that she use a cover.
Some GFE providers need the DFK to get aroused themselves. I, personally, love making out on the couch, kissing, before adjourning to the other room. That is why I offer GFE. Other ladies do not enjoy this.
Better to find a provider who offers what you are looking for, rather than to try and ask a provider to change their behavior.
Lets face it, the reviews are specific.. do they allow kissing, do they offer BBBJ, do they allow DATY. Do your homework in advance and find someone more suited to your needs.
-- Modified on 10/17/2008 6:03:35 PM