If a provider does not list it on her ad/site, what is the standard protocol? I don't want to sound like a LE person or something, but still want to be clear. Thanks for the input.
I also have the same question. Even through email I do not know what to say. I emailed a provider yesterday and wrote "May I get your GFE rates for half-hour and full-hour" and I still haven't gotten a reply.
Why she wouldn't put it in her website is silly! if this girl thinks that NOT putting prices there immunes her from LE she's wrong! I never ever discuss prices on the phone nor do i do it in email unless there is going to be a multi hour date or overnite which i happen to have alot of lately and once an email repore is established, we talk about pricing there but only when the comfort level is attained and it's for a multi hour date.
Jay
If she doesn't provide her rate information in her ads or on her website, I suggest you move on. Refusing to provide that information basically forces you to have to ask, and in doing so you have to incriminate yourself. At best, this is not a good business practice, at worst, you may not be contacting someone that is going to give you the kind of fun you were looking for.
Yesterday I was emailing a lady trying to set something up.She does not have a website, and is only on two local escort websites. When it came to the cost, I simply asked her during an email exchange, how many roses she wanted me to bring if we met. Another time, a provider told me how many chocolate chip cookies to bring. However, I have reviews, and have been white listed, so I don't know if this made a difference, since you are a newbie. Good luck
If your a newbie and all else fails check her profile...Most of the time it is accurate but not always... check her website and ads first..
Do be sure your seeing a well reviewed provider if this is your first time...
You can mention I saw your rate on your TER profile... If there is a problem she will mention it
Kisses Haley
once i had a problem with contradictory information about rates on different websites. so i simply stated over the phone what each website said and asked which website did she think was more accurate.
I think I had to much coffee this morning. How could I miss your envelope.
Please forgive me
Kisses Haley
very helpful, ty
and you really do have to ask. I usually say something to the effect of
shall I consider the information as presented on TER to be up to date?
Ladies usually take the hint and may direct you to the page that is current.
Some escort malls grab ladies ads and post them, keeping out of date ones on their sites. And TER is often out of date with respect to rates for ladies who have been listed for a long time....
I've noticed even on EROS there are no links to websites and no rate posted for some ladies. First rule "if not well reviewed on TER; stay away"
I just found this out the other day when i was talking to another provider. This girl posts on HX and here, She explained to me that the men on HX (humaniplex) are always looking to make a deal on a girls price to the point of wanting it for $0... SOOOO,to keep the clientel still coming to her because she does this to survive, she has 2 prices..one for the cheapies on HX and one for the Gentlemen on TER who respect the ladies here, but she went on to say that on a few occasions men on here run over to there and try to book her which i think is wrong, but it's the nature of the beast i guess. For me? My prices are the same on any site i advertise on, i don't compromise what i feel my self worth or my time is. But that's me, and thats the way i run my business. The explainatin above is one example for the different pricing.
Jay
find the same TV at a different store for $100's less.
how I found them. First of all it lets them know which marketing tools are working for them.
But also, if their ad (if that is how I found them) does not either contain their rate for their time or a link to a website to find that information, I ask where I might find that information.
Specifically I ask them to direct me to where I can find it "since I hate to ask you directly".
This approach has never resulted in a terminated conversation or unreplied email. Never discuss services or ask about GFE vs non-GFE.
If you don't know from reading reviews or other research what your time with this provider will be like then you are not really ready to book or discuss a rate, right? There is no need to be specific like asking for GFE or FS or any specific act or scenario.
If you have something specific in mind, like a role play scenario or something, then when you speak with a lady, tell her a bit about yourself. Use this as a way to read between the lines for what you are after. Do not then ask for a fee for that scenario.
Simply ask her if she shares similar interests with her friends. Once settled, and you know you want to see her you can ask how much an hour (or 4 hours) or her time is.
Never link a fee to a service.