Ladies I am trying to figure out how to contact other ladies for reference checks. I click their profile but no numbers or ads come up so I sent a few PM's and no replies. I know for me I respond quickly both to text and pm so I try to do both when contacting ladies.
Is it tougher to get ladies to respond here on TER? Thank youJessicaJordan
It seems that most require the client to send over the contact info for providers they've seen in the past, so they're not trying to dig it up by themselves.
If this isn't what you're into, and you'd like to source the info yourself it's probably easier than you'd think. If the TER profile doesn't have a number listed, then you can a) Use email or if they don't have that b) find an ad and hopefully locate a number/email that way. If you can find an ad with pictures, you can reverse google image search it to see where else it shows up online, which will likely lead you to their other ads.
Obviously when contacting them you should be providing your TER ID so they can verify you. I'm not sure what other protocol exists there, but potentially you have good numbers and their references are just being spooked.
You seem impatient. Then everyone here except Sauce will fuck with you, and of course me, because I'm always a straight shooter.
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Newbies are here for help, not wise ass remarks that are NOT helpful.
The OP's problem is not impatience, but most likely her problem is being given "fake references" as BPS opined.
I will echo his advice, if a guy is giving references that are difficult or impossible to verify, he is most likely doing so on purpose. "Just in case" these guys are innocent and not trying to scam you, I would suggest a polite response to them stating that you are unable to verify their references due to no contact info and politely inform them you will be unable to book with them without references you can actually reach.
and CDL. PLEASE, there are several boards where wise ass remarks are appropriate, and I am as big a wise ass as you will find on those boards, but this is NOT the place to be fucking with people as they are new and actually need our help. To put it in normal GaGambler terms, "Quit being a fucking douche bag" PLEASE. lol
...this board isn't the place for it.
...ads or phone numbers, they're giving you bullshit references of providers who are no longer working. That's why the providers aren't replying to your PMs - they're gone.
Those guys are trying to see you WITHOUT references at all. Ignore them if you see they give you phony references. Don't bother PM'ing a provider with no active ads (not scraper sites), no phone number/email and no reviews for more than one year.
who do not come on this site regularly so they might not even see your pm right away.Or it could be they are no longer active.
On a providers profile here there is usually links to ads such as Eros,P411,and other sites along with their websites.
On her profile here some ladies are email only there is no phone number listed so you need to email for a reference.
That is if the provider you are reaching out to is provider friendly.
I would ask the guy to send you the contact info for his references and then google that info to verify that indeed it is the correct contact info.If still no answer then you will have touse alternate methods besides references to verify him.
Good luck to you.
Ladies I am trying to figure out how to contact other ladies for reference checks. I click their profile but no numbers or ads come up so I sent a few PM's and no replies. I know for me I respond quickly both to text and pm so I try to do both when contacting ladies.
Is it tougher to get ladies to respond here on TER?
Thank you
JessicaJordan