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ScarlettMooon 7313 reads
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I know I can tell you that, my biggest reason for "covers" is safety. You can contract STD's orally. Especially things you cant see. You even up the anty if you do bbbj then kiss then you DATY, you can pass an STD. Alot of people do not know that.

As wonderful as those things are to expierance on the hobbyists side, you also share in the level of risk with the provider.

Check out a local clinic online and ask about what can be transmitted ORally......you will suprised and saddened a bit.

But unfortunatley in this day and age, alot of providers have to worry about this so seriously.

Yes, it does take the fun out of things...but there is stilanl much fun to be had. We as providers want to make sure we are both safe, thats when the most fun can be had! Also we want you to come back , and we want to protect you, ourselves and possibly and most likely your spouse who is totally unaware.

We try to be safe and fair, but still every provider is different , I can only speak for myself as far as why I choose to be extra safe.
Take care

bostoneater12047 reads

hey there.  I've noticed that some providers worry about safety more than others, when it comes to bbbj, or even CIM.

Would any providers like to comment on that, as to why they spit or swallow, while others don't allow it ?

Also, are there any providers who give a discount if all I want to do is DATY ?  I love DATY and would be happy to do that all day long.  ; )~

thanks,
A

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Rickbethel9981 reads

The vast majority of providers are being paid for their time, and what you do with it is up to you. In other words, no discount if all you want to do is DATY.

On the other hand, if you can DATY all day long, you would be welcomed as a regular client, I suspect, and could look forward to qualifying for a "regular client discount."

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ElvishArtisan8154 reads

I've had some providers (all in AMP or agency settings) want to charge extra for giving you the priviledge of dining down below.  I've never seen a quality indie do that, though -- mostly, it's whatever floats your boat [within her basic limits] for the set donation.

Cheers!

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ScarlettMooon7314 reads

I know I can tell you that, my biggest reason for "covers" is safety. You can contract STD's orally. Especially things you cant see. You even up the anty if you do bbbj then kiss then you DATY, you can pass an STD. Alot of people do not know that.

As wonderful as those things are to expierance on the hobbyists side, you also share in the level of risk with the provider.

Check out a local clinic online and ask about what can be transmitted ORally......you will suprised and saddened a bit.

But unfortunatley in this day and age, alot of providers have to worry about this so seriously.

Yes, it does take the fun out of things...but there is stilanl much fun to be had. We as providers want to make sure we are both safe, thats when the most fun can be had! Also we want you to come back , and we want to protect you, ourselves and possibly and most likely your spouse who is totally unaware.

We try to be safe and fair, but still every provider is different , I can only speak for myself as far as why I choose to be extra safe.
Take care

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bostoneater10415 reads

thank you, Scarlett

if you ever make it to Boston, let me know  ;  ;)

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ScarlettMooon6896 reads

I sent you a PM.... I love Boston and appreciate your Respect for my choices.

Thank you
Scarlett

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