Im new....I keep seeing that I must be screened what is that? back ground check?....we meet in person first? or something else. Would like to know ....thanks

There is often an appointment request form.  The form contains questions that you must answer and they vary from lady-to-lady.  The questions are intended to provide information that the lady can use to verify that you are the person you say you are.  

For newbies, some ladies require that the gent join an independent prescreening service such as; datecheck, p411 or RS2K.

Hope this helps!!!