Relatively brand new to the hobby, I finally realize you dont always get what you pay for. Fake photos and misrepresentation is the reason why I post. You may think you're getting a Cadillac, but you end up test driving a Chevy. As much as I want to bad-talk the agency, I feel as though I am the one responsible and I must take it on the chin and maintain my class. Has this ever happened to anyone else? If so what action did you choose to take?

Most likely your best, and probably only recourse is to write a review.

I am still interested in knowing why you believe that it is your fault.

I tend to stay low-key and I feel that writing a review would just stir up drama. I believe it is partly my fault because I hadn't went to the lengths of doing any research beforehand. Once again, I am a rookie trying to learn from the vets, how to play a game that isnt always going to be fair.

It depends...on how things were represented in the ad and what the photos look like - it's known that both providers and agencies will often use older photos or photos where the girl is thinner or even airbrushing them (sometimes to the point where it's obvious it's been airbrushed)

you fail to mention what kind of homework you did - did you read reviews?  were there many or was she new with zero or one review?  did you contact any of the other people on the board prior to seeing this provider?

most likely not your fault...my hypothesis is there was some misrepresentation going on but in the absence of knowing what you expected based on what you knew going in, it's impossible to speculate how much misrepresentation there was

heinous

So, now take the lesson to heart, get back up on the horse and ride.

Come on mdr, if you've spent anytime reading the newbie board, then you know how important research is. If you toftt with any agency girl speak to the agency, provided you've used them before and considered a good client. This isn't brain surgery, if it was, I'd be in deep dodo. Know take mrfisher's advice and ride.

The actual person who showed up at my location(a low 7) was a far cry from the one displayed in the photos(a high 9). It wasn't personally her fault so I didnt want to turn her away. I went into it without doing research, I just assumed that the photos justified the applicable rate. It just made sense. But hey, you live and learn. As a man, I make my own choices, good or bad. So I feel whatever happens as a result, I brought it upon myself. But thanks for the insight.

They got me once, but they'll never get me again. Thanks man

Yes, you need VIP.  It costs way less than even one spoiled date.  Reading back on the newbie board (is free) and the Newbie FAQ (link in red at the top of this board) is a great way to build your knowledge.  
You must use all the tools, read the reviews, check the previous reviewers (multiple reviews also), check her web site, view her ads.  We all see things a little differently but the investment of time pays off in the end.
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Yep....been there, done that.  Agency sent a completely different person.  She was not at all my type and (to me) was very unattractive and overweight.  I felt bad for her though as she'd gone to a lot of trouble to get there and probably had no idea that I had requested someone specific. Bottom line; we talked for a while, I compensated her for her time and bid her a cordial farewell.  I did nothing else about it.

by rewarding bad behavior, you are tacitly encouraging that same behavior. If every man refused to see a woman who was not the woman pictured, eventually B&S would cease to be a problem. Unfortunately most guys do the same as you and go ahead with the appointment anyhow.

I TOFFT on a regular basis, and I have had some heinous creatures show up at my doorstep. I have no problems turning them away without offering a single red cent, and I would suggest that all other hobbyists do the same.



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That's very brave of you to TOFFT on a regular basis.  What were the most negative consequences you've encountered, if any, as a result of turning away the visitors?

Thanks.

I once booked a late night appointment through an agency, actually two girls as I had a friend who wanted to play as well.

The girls arrived separately and I gave my buddy the choice of whether he wanted the first girl or wait for the second. Well the first girl was a cute little ebony spinner and he opted for her.

The second woman arrived a few minutes later and because my buddy was still in the front room with his girl, I invited the second girl into the house without even taking a look at her.

When I got her back into my bedroom and had the opportunity to turn the lights on, she put new meaning into the term "I was really scared" lol. I told her she had to leave and offered her twenty bucks for gas as I had already let her into my house. She tried to refuse the gas money and attempted to hold out for the full appointment fee. I told her that whether or not she took the twenty bucks, she WAS leaving, and her only choice was leaving vertical or horizontal.lol Truth be told, I am not sure if I could have got her out of my house if she had put up a struggle, as I said "I was really scared" lmao

Long story short. She left(without my twenty bucks), my buddy had a great time, and I cussed out the agency and made sure the community was made aware of just how bad that agency was.

BTW this happened many years ago. I don't recommend that anyone be as cavalier as me, unless you have nothing to lose, IOW single, self employed, no way to threaten or black mail you. That doesn't apply to too many of us here.

You don't have to bad talk them to expose them. And an agency did this? That sucks