Just wondering if anybody does this. Not someone whom you have seen multiple times, but like once or so.

I've done it but it's not worth the stress.

i do it all the time..that way i can introduce her to all my curious neighbors who peek out their windows and tell my family members who drop in unexpectedly that i met her in the church choir..

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Wrong on so many levels.  Do you really want her to know where you live.  Do you have an SO?  Think about the possible things that can go wrong and you have your answer

over a number of visits to the provider's incall.

A couple years ago a guy had a provider over to his house. She had visited before and everything went well. Not this time.

They were in the hot tub on his deck when he heard something inside that got his attention. The provider tried to distract him which made him more suspicious so he went to check it out. Sure enough there was a guy in the house going through his stuff. When he confronted the intruder he got a bunch of stitches from being pistol whipped in the head before the provider and her partner took off in a hurry.

The culprits were convicted of a couple felonies, but the story hit the local media and sometimes included his real name. Not good.

There are so many things that can go wrong, as has been already mentioned.  It is never a good idea to have a provider come to your home for the first encounter.  If I could do that, which I can't, the only way I would is if I had seen her many times at her incall and established a high level of trust.  If you do have a sig other, it's never a good idea to have a provider come to your home.  Trust me, from what I have read, your SO will know there was a strange woman in the house, and you will not have a clue how she knows, but she does.....

Don't do it.....

Swim

My first experience hobbying was with a well reviewed provider coming to my home. Hindsight being what it is i would have probably went a different way. I live in a semi secluded home and am married, my wife was away for the night. I was so nervous about meeting and trying this that it seemed the best fit. Its been awhile since and the lady was a sweet heart so I got lucky. I can see how the risks are very great if you have a so and its not worth it.
     With a top notch, well reviewed provider it will probably be fine, but is it worth the risk?

It is not worth the risk. Most (99.5%) are  not trustworthy