In New York, there is no thing as "no fault" divorce, but abandonment, which includes the refusal to give sex to the partner, is a ground. (Yes, all you wags who say that they get no sex from their spouses have a ground for divorce). In a recent case, there was a dispute between husband and wife as to whether they had had sex in the prior year. The husband introduces evidence from his urologist that he was given a sample of 10 Viagra pills, and only 8 were left in the bottle. The Court sees this as enough corroboration of his story that they had had sex to deny the divorce.
The wife foolishly testified that the husband had no other reason to take the Viagra. Little did she know that he might be a member here, or have other extrcurricular interests. LOL
It's like trying to get drunk on non-alcoholic beer... IT'S FUTILE!
Part of the fulfillment comes from the "naughty factor" and that just can't be had in the sanctity of the marital bed!
(Say what you want, but if you are married and on this website, then you validate my claim!)
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The only reason for sex in marrage is for reproductive purposes... Save the hot raunchy up the ass sexual extremes for someone who you don't have respect in the morning! (I'd never treat the mother of my children with the same disreguard as it take for me to satisfy my sexual demons!)
at least as great a fuck as 99% of the providers out there. And it was real. And if your treatise on sex in marriage that equates sex with a lack of respect was written with sincerity, then you are one pathetic sick fuck. Get some help.
You just suffer from lack of comparative experences. Marrage may be the backbone of our society, but it's sexually boring. As boring as listening to some guy brag about sex with his wife on a hobbiest website. It's about as exciting as watching a guy enter a Toyota Prius in a Nascar event!
Most divorces in NY are essentially "no-fault" divorces. The laws regarding grounds for divorce are the same, but they really aren't followed.
How many people who are served with divorce papers really end up trying to fight legally to stay married? The grounds for divorce are usually just a formality to comply with the law as written but the courts never really get into whose fault was it.
The most commonly used grounds for divorce is "constructive abandonment" which can include refusal to have sex. All the other grounds are more difficult to use as they require a different threshold of evidence to apply. Constructive abandonment can be established easily by both parties testifying to the fact that there has been no sex for one year and both parties were physically able, and there was no reasonable cause for one party to deny sex to the other.