they aren't a good value. I see many providers that are ex-strippers and unfailingly they all say stripping is more demeaning than being a provider. (Having to suck up and be phony in order to get an extra dollar in the garter belt). NY strip clubs are expensive, but much better than the ridiculous rules they have over in NJ. You can see more skin on a beach in NJ than you can in a "go-go" club in NJ. One can spend a grand at a place like Scores so providers offer a better value. My suggestion is get a provider who is an ex-stripper. We have no shortage of ex-stripper providers here in NYC.
For years I have had an almost religious objection to strip clubs, esp in NY. IMO, they are incredibly expensive with no real reward and a lot of high-end cockteasing. Also, a well-known provider once told me that, as a general rule, strippers are more manipulative and selfish than providers, basically because they make extra $$$ by jerking guys around instead of . . . . Seems right to me. Granted, the new places boast high-end restaurants and there are rumors of double-secret hideaways beyond the VIP room. But it's easy to blow hundreds if not thousands of dollars in one night at this sort of game -- why is that a good thing?
Maybe what I'm missing is that Junior and others like to hang out, get wasted and look at spectacular women without even trying to get laid. In which case maybe strip clubs aren't the best venue for the newly sober (like me).
Thoughts?
they aren't a good value. I see many providers that are ex-strippers and unfailingly they all say stripping is more demeaning than being a provider. (Having to suck up and be phony in order to get an extra dollar in the garter belt). NY strip clubs are expensive, but much better than the ridiculous rules they have over in NJ. You can see more skin on a beach in NJ than you can in a "go-go" club in NJ. One can spend a grand at a place like Scores so providers offer a better value. My suggestion is get a provider who is an ex-stripper. We have no shortage of ex-stripper providers here in NYC.
would love an ex-stripper to give me a lap dance that goes the extra mile 
that's always been a huge fantasy of mine!
You have to put in your time but once you do and you become a regular it's much less a rip off.
I myself have experienced several fine relationshipe with different dancers or bartenders. If you go anywhere and throw around enough $$$ all sorts of women are interested in you : )
I like Jersey better for that because you can get with much less $$$$ then at Scores or Hustler Club where you can easily go thru a grand an hour.
Anytime you want to take a trip out to Jersey Moment let me know.....I'll get you fond of go-go bars.....and you can have all the club soda you want!!
its about fun. You can increase your odds by knowing how to play the game. Knowing bartenders, bouncers and managers gives you an edge. Knowing a ripoff as soon as she sits on your lap is another. If I go to a new club, I'll always ask for the manager introduce myself and ask him if he can steer me in the right direction. Offer to buy him a drink, make him at ease with you and he'll share. If he gave you something worthwhile make sure you drop $100 on him, next time you go back, he'll really fill you in, they do remember you
I agree that strip clubs are full of women trying their best to get the most and give the least. But before I found TER I went to strip clubs and propositioned several of the girls.
I hit pay dirt with one--a beautiful and voluptuous young thing--and eventually she became my mistress. Unfortunately, the relationship has been tempestuous--maybe because of the circumstances under which I met her.
But I don't regret what I did. It is only now that I wonder whether a relationship with anyone--be she wife, SO or mistress--is worth the heartache that dealing with equally beautiful and wonderfully built providers avoids.