thanks for stating that. i've seen posts about bad clients, but never headlined like that b/4, where the race is stated. i think you are absolutely right, he's givin MEN a bad name.
Several months ago there were reports of a black fellow who visits women, declares he's a cop, handcuffs the woman, takes advantage of her and robs her.
I am hearing second hand reports that either he is still out there or a copycat is using his modus operandi.
Ladies, please be careful. SCREEN! SCREEN! SCREEN!
I wish your well,
Othello
your concern.
I while back a lady communicated his name and info to me, which in turn I fowarded to some of the ladies in this community.
Ladues, if you would like detailed info on the man in question feel free to call me.
Play safe,
XOXO
GINA
I heard also (second hand, and we all know how that goes) that something similar happened to one of the Brazillian girls in NYC, the guy got a bit rough with her and being that she doesn't speak very good English she initially thought he was role playing or something. When she got the vibe it was real, she jumped up, did a flip and kicked him in the nuts (she was a gymnist in her younger youth) she ran aross the hall to one of her other Brazillian friends (there's a bunch of them in one building working indie I hear) screaming and knocking on the door. He ran out did strike her in the face (thankfully she was not injured) and then ran off. His m.o. was that he asked her to take a bath and that he just wanted to watch. A few days later the same guy showed up at the first girls friend across the hall, after the friend heard the request for a bath just like he initially asked the first girl, she ran out the apt to her friend (the first one it happened to) Now the group is afraid to see men of color simply because this is the only identifying feature they have. I know for a fact that Brazillian women tend to date men of color in their personal lives so it is not a rasist thing, it is fear. It's a shame all because of one or two men, that they are ruining things for many others.
I have recieved e-mails asking if I personally see men of color, I appologize that they feel they must ask this and respond all I care about is that you smell nice, are on time, and treat me with respect, the same I'd ask of a green or purple person.
Samantha Summers of NY
He's giving men -- black, white, etc. -- a bad name. Proper screening is the only to avoid guys like this. Bad acts by clients are committed by men of all races, so simply screening out whole races of men would mean a provider would need to retire.
thanks for stating that. i've seen posts about bad clients, but never headlined like that b/4, where the race is stated. i think you are absolutely right, he's givin MEN a bad name.
I am simply alerting everyone that I am hearing reports. All that I can do is admonish others of a possible risk.
If one of my favorites tells me that some "carnal cretin" is out there assaulting ladies, I advise her to convey the information to others and I pass it along myself. Sometimes the perpetrator is black, sometimes he is white. We are a clandestine community that has to monitor itself. Diligence supports survival but does not assure it.
If the rest of the world would emulate the level of tolerance and acceptance exhibited among our little group, it would truly be a better place!
Best regards, stay safe
Othello
i am sure that if you said "bad client" or "giving men a bad name" you still would have gotten our attention. but, thanks for the info.