Its a shame to judge the many by the few.
As a low level active poster on not only the NY but also the General Discussions Board I can see why a lot of providers are leery. There is a lot of No nonsense talk that tells it straight and there is a lot of calling out of people who make statements they can't back up. Since the providers are here for business, mostly, and increasing their visibility/brand, any kind of calling out of BS is seen as an attack. Likewise, there are sharpies who know the biz inside and out butting up against Joe Public and Jane Pubic. Its not rixket science people. Its p4p entertainment. Lets all just chillax.
so i find this girl on Eros and contact her... cant find any reviews figuring maybe under an old name or another site etc. so i contact her and she wants P411 references that not only see the Okays but contacts by email the other girls.
finds out i am cool, but i can't find any reviews, asking are there any P411 or TER guys i could contact for a reference for her. well with that she emails me a very indignant email saying she doesn't need to see me and doesn't have guy references because she "doesn't see TER guys or men like that" in other words she doesn't want the truth out there. i did finally find very old posts about the truth about her that would have saved me the trouble in the first place.
bottom line - thank goodness for TER !! the Internet's most important site ..........although it has cost me $200K LOL
Many ladies are getting off TER. I think it's the general discussion board that makes the men on here super unattractive and unappealing.
When I get contacted from a man on TER I always look to see how active he is on TER but more specifically the discussion boards.
I never worry about a bad review lol but I understand the want for reviews especially for higher priced ladies like myself. You want some what of a guarantee and I'm glad you avoided a bad situation.
finds out i am cool, but i can't find any reviews, asking are there any P411 or TER guys i could contact for a reference for her. well with that she emails me a very indignant email saying she doesn't need to see me and doesn't have guy references because she "doesn't see TER guys or men like that" in other words she doesn't want the truth out there. i did finally find very old posts about the truth about her that would have saved me the trouble in the first place.
bottom line - thank goodness for TER !! the Internet's most important site ..........although it has cost me $200K LOL
Its a shame to judge the many by the few.
As a low level active poster on not only the NY but also the General Discussions Board I can see why a lot of providers are leery. There is a lot of No nonsense talk that tells it straight and there is a lot of calling out of people who make statements they can't back up. Since the providers are here for business, mostly, and increasing their visibility/brand, any kind of calling out of BS is seen as an attack. Likewise, there are sharpies who know the biz inside and out butting up against Joe Public and Jane Pubic. Its not rixket science people. Its p4p entertainment. Lets all just chillax.
I am certain that any woman who doesn't like GaGambler is not going to be a good fit with the "real" me either. I don't get along with uber-sensitive people on the internet OR IRL either. So if it keeps me from seeing women with whom I would not be compatible with in the first place, I call that a win/win for both of us.