Well she could be harmed or robbed so it's a lot of trust to let someone in your home. The fact is both providers and clients are at risk...and screening is a way to assure that nothing will go array and both client and provider are calm and relaxed. I use to rent at a spa so screening wasn't my concern with cameras and a buzz in door. But if clients prefer privacy and a heighten intimate session screening is a must. Also if a provider is on Eros or full time blackmail wouldn't make any sense....it would ruin her business
Why are guys so afraid of screening? I mean I have had good times without but I've been a lucky girl and don't take it lightly. Since I've moved into my own incall I'm more vigilante with screening but the majority of potential clients are reluctant to screen, also newbies unwillingness to provide info to book a session. Advice?
Especially if you have a permanent incall. You can ask for whatever details you need, but I can refuse to give them, or offer an alternative. A definite hard stop for me is a picture of a DL, but it rarely even gets that far. This is where P411 has helped me with screening. If you are not on there, then you need to get a provider reference, and if the guy refuses, move on.
In regard to Newbies, some of the Tinder generation believes it's enough to send a text saying 'let's fuck.' Decent references are built over time and they may not be willing to put in the effort. If you have decent references, you don't have to be afraid of screening.
So for me my fears are around exposure ... sending Info that could be forwarded or worse yet posted to social media ... I have seen exchanges between provider and client posted to Twitter foe example
Frankly it's something I am wrestling with right now...
We are just doing it for our safety. I delete that stuff as soon as I get the info I need to feel confident.
If you really want to see the girl, you'll do as she asks... We are worth it.
You know I think of it as a business so I would never want to put a client in danger of exposure because I want to maintain clientele. There's a lot of apprehension between client and provider and I feel like if the gap is mended screening won't be an issue.
whenever clients prefer not to email me their LinkedIn Profile (or other social media acct),
I will ask to see some ID in person upon arrival
It usually works!
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