If any of you can make sense out of this, please do because this is wicked confusing. Ok here is the deal...
Make an appointment with a very well reviewed and decently well known provider. Probably read almost all the reviews just to make sure two things I wanted were available.
After the research I figure, ok I am ready to make an appointment. The day comes for our meeting and I get there. After the usual "hi, how are yous" I decide to get to the business and explain this is the two things I am looking for. She then says "no" to the first request. Ok, bummer but I asked how about the second thing? Again "no." I am a little taken back and said "you have pages of reviews saying you provide these items specifically." She then says "Oh yeah that. I had some problems with that and those things aren't true."
At this point I am more confused than anything thinking maybe I read the wrong profile or maybe I misread the reviews?
The next day, I log on to TER and pull the profile again just to see if I am insane or not. Sure enough there are probably 100 reviews saying the two items I am looking for are certainly provided. And....a new review was just posted that day and the author claimed to have received both items that I requested and was shot down for.
I was nothing but polite and respectful as possible to this provider and she was very courteaous and apologetic to me.
That's the story - Weird? You bet. But I can't help think either there is a serious flaw in the review system or she just didn't like me. Perhaps provider's should in some way be responsbile for the accuracy of their reviews?
Who knows...
certain services to guys they aren't attracted to.
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many you didnt use enough soap that day
That's happened a few times to me--a guy asking about certain activities as we're chatting on the couch. It's a very uncomfortable situation and there's no way I would admit to doing those things for fear of LE. In fact, I've told these guys my reviews were untrue (thinking that LE would give up and leave).
Best to keep your questions to yourself. As the session progresses and you both are comfortable with each other, go ahead and start to position your body or hers for the activities you like.
If she truly doesn't do a certain activityt, she'll tell you no then.
best advice yet!
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If you were fully verified with a well know provider there should have been NO reason for her to think you were LE. I feel you had every right to ask and she had every right to say no. But, I disagree again with the chemistry thing. I don't have great chemistry with every gent who walks throught the door but I offer a service and it's well known what that service is, via reviews, etc. Barring poor hygiene or rude, disrespectful behavior, I am going to give my gentleman the best I can. That was why he came to see me in the first place. Just MY two cents.
Sincerely,
Anneke
Thanks all for the advice. Some of you are funny and really bring some great humor to the boards. We may never know. I know it's not hygene or rudeness. Perhaps I was too forward with my asking, perhaps it was an off day for the provider. Live and learn. Thanks all.