Should I be honest and tell it like it is.(I had to wash my hands TWICE to get the stench off). Or should I omit that nasty little detail? I'm not a cruel person, but does TRUTH or HONESTY win out here??? I'm sure I'll get some interesting answers.
My two cents is....always be honest especially with reviews or the reviews are meaningless.
Be honest, not nasty. Keep it objective. We'd all benefit from reading the straight forward review.
You should absolutly be honest in the review , as the other Gentlemen have stated. Now you may get a bit of Flack from some of the Ladys most ardent admirers(shills)...you know the"she was always as fresh as a daisy when I saw her" stuff, but that goes with the territory.
I believe if anything is worthwhile noting, it should be told truthfully. Like others said, just be objective and no need to embellish. As we all know ymmv.
guys will jump down my throat when the review gets published. This gal is VERY well known and many of the guys on this board are de facto shills for her. She's a nice girl and very chatty and gives a mean blow job, but on this particular day it seemed like something crawled up her snatch and died.
Im probrably going to get ripped apart for posting my opinion on this but you did ask for everyones input. So here goes.
I think you should OMIT it from your review.
I definately agree with everyone about honesty in reviews and at first I thought, it should be in your review. But now that it has been posted all over the boards, I think it would be kinda harsh at this point. Here's why..
Your last few posts
"I had to wash my hands twice to get the stench off"
"She smelled like a fleet of shrimp boats"
"Her kitty smells like cat food"
"She WRETCHED of a Korean fish market"
You mentioned in this post that you are not a cruel person. Im sure youre not. But reading what you posted could be taken otherwise. Just imagine what she will feel like if she reads or hears about these comments not knowing you experienced this during your date. Im sure our providers have had this experience before. But I know for sure that they wouldnt hesitate in telling us to freshen up before the session continued. That said, when she showed disappointment, when you wouldnt continue that task at hand, I think you shouldve explained to her why at that moment. You mentioned that you didnt want to embarass her. But posting these remarks and having everyone wonder who she is then writing it in your review of her, would not only embarass her but would hurt her as well. I dont mean it would hurt her bussiness (I dont base my decision on one 1 or 2 bad reviews out of many YMMV) but her feelings. I know its our responsibility to be honest in our reviews no matter what. But in this case, after all thats been said, I think it would be better to personally give her your review by way of phone or email.
I love this site and I admire all of our members and providers. So please keep in mind that this post was not ment to offend you or to discard your experience. It is just *MY* personal opinion.
Happy Holidays to everybody
Nceguy07
Somebody already mentioned that a yeast infection is not that uncommon...or maybe she had some gourmet blue castle belly bombers the night before....
Since she is a well reviewed lady and you had fun despite
the "stench"....and she was NICE....OMIT!
and another thing...
It's Christmas!
Cheers!
No seriously. I have been down there with a mirror, scoping out, taste testing....sheesh. I give a mean BJ, even though I love red wine, should I switch to white now? Shoot...My reviews match those scores. Oh well, if it is, well...sorry? I mean what else can I say? If it is someone else then can you just blame me instead? As much as you guys say YMMV, I doubt that she could recover in one day/hour or whatever time you spent with her. It would take a slew of reviews to down play that one, it would take months. Unless you saw off colored ooze or a nasty sore, don't you think you should back channel this stuff? There is all sorts of stuff that never ends up in reviews. I tell people to back channel all the time. You will be suprised what you find out. Okay, I am going back to my yoga, mirrors, vaginal Listerine...lol....gonna force my client coming in the next 30 min to taste test my f-ing PEPSI and my COCA-COLA! Lol.....
Netty,
Your posts are always fun to read. I cant wait for you to be back in NY!! I just happen to have a fantasy involving yoga, mirrors and vaginal Listerine!! Not to mention I love Pepsi and Coca-cola ;}
Ng
Everyone is entitled to a BAAAD day! Be discreet. Try to be tactful if you do devulge the info in a review but I would suggest backchanneling or PMing the information.
Remember, we are talking about a person's livelihood.
Ody
I would PM the provider and see how she responds. This is her livelyhood. My friend posted some bogus reviews using my ID because I save my PW and it caused quite a commotion. If this happened to her often, we would know by her reviews. Since she is popular, we will find what you write. Her regulars may think twice and she may be passed over by others.
Or if it was productive. It just kind of hit me for a minute that sometimes cervical cancer can produce some wierd stuff, I really think you should tell her regardless, it is her health. OK who wants SUSHI?
Would compliment your moist, pink kitty.
I know I would want to know, as would others.
Just be delicate when pointing it out.
Now just suppose, this provider had the same problem last week with a client, and that client didn't post a review to be nice. Now you just went, and experienced your problem. You post. The first now does the same, because of your post. How does that make you feel? That's right, my friend, you should post. That is the whole purpose of this board. We all have to look out for each other. In the end, it only makes the providers better providers with higher standards.