Called an agency who always did well by me. Requested Ms. X per the agency owners suggestion after my last great session.
"Sorry, Ms X not available but Ms Y is just as good - you will love her".
Now Ms Y has no reviews. I later learn that this is her first week. This was not a take it for the team. This was trusting someone who I thought I could trust.
Ms Y is a nervous wreck, but calms down and becomes Ms Chatter box. She's older than they say (she admits it). She had a great photographer take those pictures. I might give her a 6.
She is totally unsure of what to do even asking if she should follow a script, ie.. bbj, cowgirl, mish, doggie, round two and all this in between her life story detailing every day since she left her mother's womb.
You ever just want to get up and say, "sweetie go back to the day job and find a husband cause I'm out of here".
Well I did and she coaxed me back. Then just as she's getting me back to attention. "Please dont write a review. Not a good one or a bad one. I wont be doing this long"
I never said anything about a review
She wanted to please. She wanted to be GFE. But she talks so much, she couldn't be anyones girlfriend.
Decided to finish off and visited Greece which suddenly appeared on the menu as I played and she did not protest. She really got into. She offered a BBJ for round two but I had it.
The agency called as the hour ended. I spoke to her trying to be polite. "Please write her a good review they asked"
I guess if I had a paperbag or if I was writing a review on the last three minutes, she might get 9. But my head is aching so bad, deduct 3 points for the Advil.
What would you do? Write a review? She's just starting and she may need time to adapt. Kill the agency? Probably, but they might dump her. Bottom line, she was a sweet gal, but not cut out for this business, at least not yet?
Looking forward to your posts. Sorry I used an Alias. If I posted as me then the identity of the agency and even the gal would be fairly easy to guess.
From what you say, she tried very hard. I guess I'd skip the review. I've done that in one or two situations where I just felt I couldn't possibly fully explain the situation and the lady had done her best. As for the agency, that's another matter. They really should make it up to you with some consideration, or even a freebie, on another lady.
is to keep your fellow hobbyist's informed by giving truthful yet diplomatic reports both thru posting and reviews. It is not your responsibility to protect the agency or the provider. Otherwise the rest of us will have to endure similar situations. I feel the agency owner deceived you for the almighty dollar and this should be exposed. ("You'll love her")I have had similar situations with one agency in particular and probably know the female owner who miguided you. This is not acceptable. "Making it up to you" doesn't help correct the situation unless all your looking for is a freebie.
If you went to a restaurant that had lousy food and the service sucked you'd advise your friends not to go there. This is an analagous situation. You wasted your time and money and just like any other business she should be held accountable. How would you ever trust her again?? No ifs, ands or buts !!!! You'll be doing everyone a favor by reporting it truthfully.
The analogy to a restaurant makes sense. If I went into a restaurant and it was the waiter's first day on the job, I might look at his service through a different lens. Unless he were real bad, I would let things slide and I wouldn't complain. Writing a 6 / 6 review for first or perhaps second review is almost like getting someone fired though.
a good relationship with the agency explain the situation to the agency and skip the review. IMHO
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If you would have liked to had a review available to you, then
you should write the review. And write the kind of review that you would have liked to have read.
We all take different approaches. I might have called the agency right from the beginning and stated either she wasn't right for you or asked for extra time on them for her to calm down so she could get comfortable. Since your session got a lot better at the end, more warm up time before the clock started may have resulted in a good session for the whole one hour. Her first few appointments will determine whether or not she can handle escorting. So, she looked to you for compassion and it seemed that she rewarded it with greek and BBBJ. I'd still discuss with agency your expectation from them as it seems you are a good client of theirs without getting the woman in trouble. Her fate as an escort will be determined by her and whatever support she receives from agency.
Everbody forgets that we all were nervous on our "fist date"...........oh, the memories!
AMEN Brother! Off the record, how about a disastrous session with no touch, no kiss and what time is it? In all due respedts to the poster...........give the chick a break. As far as the agency goes, they are trying to keep you happy and certainly want your business. So, all in all, it's a nice country after all.
so forgiving if you had an analagous situation arise with your other business dealings. I assume that some of you are successful business men and I can't imagine you got there with such a laid back attitude. I don't understand why you have such a double standard. If you got screwed in your other business dealings I would think that you would make sure you did what you had to do to make sure it never happened again. IMHO this is no different. You were promised and expected one thing and got something completely different. If you were dealing with another male would you be so understanding? I don't think so.
A little different situation here though. He called and REQUESTED so and so and was told she was NOT AVAILABLE. Right then and there he had a choice to call back some other time or choose to see the recommended choice. It is hard to compare a "business dealing" to an erotic encounter IMHO. The male / female thing is really not the issue here either......hey, you take your chances with any of this first time stuff and it sounds to me that it wasn't all that bad, considering it could have been an upsell, no-show, or a B&S for all that matter.
Okay, let's work with this restaurant analogy. You go to your favorite restaurant. The waiter recognizes you and greets you. You order your favorite dish, a nice juicy porterhouse, but he tells you they have run out and tells you, "try the New York Strip, you'll love it!" He neglected to mention that the restaurant just started ordering the NY Strip from SYSCO because he figured you really would like it. The steak was decent but not up to standard and the waiter brought it back twice for you so the chef could get it at just the right status (Medium-medium well). Do you get a Zagat survey and trash the place or do you call the manager and say "you know, this experience didn't meet my expectations." How you would handle that situation is how to handle this one. I'll leave it at that.
Like a quality restaurant, a quality agency would welcome the chance to make it up to you. Why burn bridges? Talk to them first.
Just MHO,
thirsty
I had never dealt with them but gave them the benefit of doubt and worked through their reconcilliation system. My loss was made whole and I moved on. I dealt with the company the first time because of the good things that I had heard about it, and their efforts to make right their mistake proved that I made the right choice.
I think it is important to talk to the agency. They want to know because they value repeat business.
I don't think they tried to screw you (no pun intended) by suggesting this lady. I'm sure they thought she would be good.
However, write a fair (not mean) review. After all, that is what TER is about.
Have to agree, can't punish a gal who gives Greek !!
I would love to meet this girl, I consider myself a great teacher and fresh meat. YES Please post
She almost assuredly will try as hard with the next customer. As for the agency, call them and explain the the lady was a wonderful person and tried hard, but was not what you were looking for. The gentle constructive criticism will allow the lady to get better at what she does and would allow the agency to know that it steered you wrong. I have had many middling sessions where the lady gave her all, in such cases I do not write a review. Interestingly, one of my middling sessions was with a GFE that other guys rated 9 and 10 for looks and 9 and 10 for performance. Her looks did not impress me and her performance was even less impressive, but she tried hard so I passed on a review.
f*cked up. "Ms Y is just as good-you will love her". A blatant lie that the owner never should have told you since it was the providers first week. There was no basis for saying this other than not to lose a paying customer for the day.
"She offerd a BBJ for round two but I had it". Unlike what others are interpreting, you apparently did not get a BBBJ.
Then to add insult to injury she asks you not to write a bad review and the ownwer asks you to please write her a good review. How about if you do us all a favor and write an honest truthful review !!!
If you add the fact that if you don't write this review along with the fact (as stated in a new post above) that TER often doesn't approve reviews for being inconsistent with other good reviews, then what the hell are we left with here? A bunch of trumped up reviews that are censored by the staff and reviews not written by hobbyists for fear of hurting someones's feelings. That's real helpful.
I am here to avoid ripoffs and upsellers, the lady is question was neither. She offered a second cup, starting with a BBBJ but the gentleman declined, I must add of his own free will. There are many here that share your viewpoint, they appear to be the most willing to post and state their views about everything from an issue like this, to whether TER encourages trumped up reviews, to why some ladies choose to charge more than those gentlemen are willing to pay. Their viewpoints, like yours, are just some of the possibilities that could be seen here if everyone took the time to write one. While the gentleman that started this thread did not get the value that he was looking for, he also was not cheated, in my opinion. He indicated that he has a long standing relationship with the agency, he can use that to properly address the problem that he had. Doing a review on the lady is no more likely to cause her to improve than him clearly explaining to the agency why the lady was a disappointment to him. You apparently believe in reviews and are willing to make harsh statements. I would assume that you have reviews and also a username that is not the alias that you are apparently using. If you are going to make a statement, always do so posting under your username, that is the only manly option short of using your "real" name.