I recently visited Vanessa at "Intimateindulgence" and, as usual, showered before our session-- which was terrific, as usual (see review, December 2000). Afterwards, she mentioned that a majority of men do not bother to shower or even wash their hands before a session. Frankly, I found that astonishing. I mean, I just can't imagine getting in bed with a dirty body, or why any provider would want to give me quality service if I were dirty. So to all the guys who complain about not getting GFE, I have one question: Were you clean?  Did you present yourself in a way that would make someone want to get close to? If not, then maybe YOU are the person who needs to clean up his act.