Hey guys, looking to get into the hobby here in Rhode Island. Only used a provider once before and that was while I was in Montreal before i knew sites like TER existed. Any tips aside from being hygenic, polite and professional? The only time i har an experience with a provider was great but over 10 years ago and was an outcall. Im imagining it could be difficult to see girls without references. Just looking for pointers and suggestions.
My suggestion would be to join p411. It is super simple and you're ticket to the areas top providers. 💋
So before I can give 300 for an hours worth of companionship I have to spend $150 to be apart of this site. I know this is an expensive hobby but wow. Lol
And I don't even like wearing panties. So, I feel your pain 😔
TER keeps both providers and hobbyists safe through the review and whitelist verification system, exponentially decreasing your risk, despite the fact that the government doesn't want any of us to be safe. Also, although I have no data on this, I believe that you are far, far less likely to accidentally patronize an escort who is being trafficked by finding us through TER. So welcome to responsible hobbying!
On another note, I just found a nifty website for hobbyists that might be particularly helpful for newbies: COSWAC (link below).
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Interesting site. Some of the myths they list are so over the top and implausible that I'm shocked anyone would believe any of them.
Then I look at the news and think, "Oh right..."
"Im imagining it could be difficult to see girls without references. Just looking for pointers and suggestions."
It's not difficult if you are not picky about who you see. If you are okay with taking that gamble, go for it.
An extra 150 to become part of a well known, reputable hobby website means better screening on both ends and providers who have also invested a little extra to ensure the best possible experience (pics, reviews, p41verification, websites, not LE, etc).
P411 is a solid & well worth investment. I joined and while I didn't love the screening process, I will NEVER see someone without references. There are other ways to get references (e.g get whitelisted here, give out personal info) but for me personally, a p411 member with 'okay's' gives me more peace of mind than someone with a LinkedIn account or agency reference. Some girls won't see you without a few 'okay's' and some will.
Totally worth it. Go do it now!
I have never used P411....because I don't think it is secure......but it certainly would make appointments easier.