Yep, there was a new review posted the morning after she NCNS'd me. I know that doesn't mean it was the same time, but suspect that was the ultimate issue. Would be nice if you didn't have this problem when you stuck with well-reviewed providers.
Thought I'd try someone new after a couple of ATF's weren't available. A provider I had corresponded with before wasn't initially available either, so I picked someone I knew was near the area I would be staying in, with multiple reviews.
She agreed, and we set up an appointment 5 days or so ahead of time. Verified location and time the day before--I was a bit nervous as I had noted a past reviewer had a NCNS on the day arranged as well. She said yes, we were still on for the next day. Provider had e-mail or phone to contact me.
Time came, despite reaching out for any info on whether she was going to make it or not--no e-mails, no phone calls...several days later, still nothing.
#308485--might suggest not putting too much stock into her reliability.
Without going into details, I don't visit that area often, this was a rare event with some arrangements made at my expense.
I've learned--unfortunately--with a few exceptions, I have learned to have a low level of trust even of well reviewed but new to me providers, so I did have some other options in the area I am sure I would have enjoyed, but couldn't reach anyone that worked out. Several--understandably--wanted a bit more time for verification (or special verification I am not normally comfortable with) given it was such short notice.
I'm sorry to hear your dilemma, I'm also dealing with same problem this weekend and it's also a well reviewed provider that I've seen many times. It seems to be reoccurring problem I guess as the saying goes follow the money and you'll probably figure out why you were thrown under the escort bus. Although I'm sure it happens equally to providers. It all boils down to something you can't buy and can't learn, and that's called class either you got or you don't.
Yep, there was a new review posted the morning after she NCNS'd me. I know that doesn't mean it was the same time, but suspect that was the ultimate issue. Would be nice if you didn't have this problem when you stuck with well-reviewed providers.
Yeah, your propensity for pursuit of average may have persuaded her you were not a good pair.
Maybe if we are lucky the new website will no longer allow alias trolls!
... it isn't a coincidence that her best friend (HH) was a former drama queen. Birds of feather flock together.
Hubert Humphrey?
Interesting that somehow you know who her bestie is. Doesn't seem to be stated on her web page, so must only be in the dossier you're keeping. Where there is one dossier, there are many.
we talked and talked all through the evening. The following day I realized I had missed several attempts from her to contact me on a hobby account, but I hadn't been paying attention. She wanted to offer me a make up date at no cost because we didn't get enough fucking. I will take that sort of drama all day.
There are good and bad experiences. More of mine have been good than bad, and more of the people I have met have been honest, kind and horny than whatever the opposite is. Keep calm and hobby on.
Personally, I wish we could adsumsparkle...
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It's so classless & disrespectful when a NCNS happens... You don't think I or the person being NCNS-Ed has anything better to do? It's ridiculous!!! To both the clients & providers show some manners & fucking do not waste someone's time!!! My first NCNS in Mn SMFH!!! Gggrrrrrrrrrr......
Happy TGIF!!! I'm going to go lay out by the pool & HAVE a brewski to cool my annoyance... Ps I would rather be fucking & sucking!!! Ugh 😡😡😡😡
Xoxo
Gem
This is all interesting. I'd all but given up on TER due to the NCNS exp. and the fact that I tried to buy VIP using a giftcard back in April that never was carried through. I actually logged in to complain about that and suggest (I still feel this way) that no one use that option, if it's even still available. Even worse, a few weeks back I tried to use the giftcard at the place it was intended for and it was declined, they checked for me and suggested I had already used it (which I had not, with them at least).
Then when I logged in I saw I had VIP, and checking into it, it was finally granted a few days ago--more than a month after I tried to buy it.
In any case, a couple of things on this issue are worth noting....first a thanks to Gemma, and not just for your post here. She was in MN at the same time and actually did respond to the many attempts--including a contact to her--that I made to find an option to replace the NCNS--her response came in late and I didn't see it until the next morning.
Audrey's statement here matches her e-mail to me exactly---she did finally respond to me a few days after I posted this thread if I recall correctly. I did choose not to respond and not sure if I'll take her up on her offer to make it up. I have always treated such events as part of the business, everyone has things come up, I guess you just get weary of it when it happens enough times, especially if you try to take steps with well reviewed providers and contact well ahead of time and it still happens.
Oh--And I saw HH once, long ago. Had a good time!
I do ordinarily try to see a few ATF's but all were unavailable during my limited time in the area....
I always wondered why girls NCNS guys since it is basically like throwing away a very easy 200 - 400$ in the garbage (especially if they know and like the guy). Sadly NCNS happens way more than you think. Happens way more for outcalls than incalls too.