… was that this provider doesn’t think there’s any difference between losers and winners.  🤓

your post assumes that SHE reached out to you, which to me means you had either seen her in the past or she was randomly messaging......... and my question then is,  how did she have your address to even reach you ?  
Her statement obviously worked cuz you are spreading the word of her message and she obviously got your attention. For the rest of us though if we do not have any more info then she will look at you as the loser cuz the message stopped with you since the rest of us have nothing to go on. Those kind of messages are  intriguing to me at least to send back a quick response and see where it goes .....but maybe I just have more time on my hands