I am not new to the board I am on and off at times depending on if I am in or out of the hobby at the moment. Having read some of the threads and looking at reviews as I am back and paying for full access to the reviews. I am wondering why providers can not at least up date the services offered. Since at times I am looking for specific things an example might be I am looking for rimming. It is hard to figure out who might offer but its not listed as yes. I might be missing it but as a part time user of this site, what is best way to find the services and have idea that its correct. I see it list but never mentioned in any reviews so I assume its not on the menu and move on.
If it is not listed in her profile as yes or YMMV then it is her loss (in terms of business).
Sorry to hear it is a point of frustration for you.
Even if it is something that is only done for extra $$$, or at a certain “type” of session (e.g. I am okay with giving/receiving rimming during PSE appointments), the appropriate way to list that is by making a profile say YMMV. So you as a client should be searching for YES or YMMV when you search (since you are a paid TER member); if the profile says YMMV then you should look at reviews to see if they mention it or you can look at her website to see if there is any mention of different offerings
You are right not to send an email to inquire as it can be perceived as being explicit in your messages or insinuating that you are paying for sex which, as we know, is not legal 
I have been wondering if there isn't a better way as well. I don't have time to read all the reviews and some are just pointless. A review should bring up specific acts. I feel too many rely only on emotional feelings without ever getting to what is taking place. These vanilla reviews are often led off with a 10-10 or other high score. Maybe a check list that is more indepth about activities. The providers can't mention somethings on the website but they might like us to know what they can offer. I have seen many girls from the old touring companions without much to go on, only to find out later they were really into pse. I will never know what trouble i could have gotten myself into? maybe the providers could edit their activities list on their reviews?
Um good luck on that. Them updating their profile list of services and claiming their profile in the process . That would require them to admit they really are Ho's.
Like everything else they want you to do the work for them and shower them with gifts in process. Hence more twatter time on your dime.
I think that my memory might be fading, but back in the early days the providers did provide a menu, but this is when there was NO review part in any of the escort sites…we just use to post reviews on the board…online escort info was just a virgin. You know, it would be nice to know more about a menu that is offered, but this business has always been YMMV. Christ in the old agency days there were escorts that were seeing 15 guys a day…wow
There is another item that I thought of, so if somebody wants to correct me…go ahead. Since, this lifestyle is not legal (don’t get me started on why not) escorts probably will not put anything about sex or what they offer in terms of sex on their website.
The advance search-You can search who offers what, find which ethnicity you want, if they do duos etc etc etc its great!!! Providers do need to update!!
Good luck!!!
So what is in their profile is determined by the initial review and any approved problem reports submitted by other reviewers later on.