I'm a relative old newbie who has been enjoying hour & plus massages emendation. Is it acceptable to ask my lady for an overnighter and generally what should I expect to pay for an overnighter?
Thanks for your info
She may decline your invitation, but you'll never know unless you ask her.
I'd hope that you'd only ask a provider you know pretty well. Overnight is a really long time if you aren't sure you'll enjoy each other's company that long.
If she has no published rate for overnight, ask her what she thinks is fair. If that number is ok for you, great. If not, talk it over.
Be sure to agree up front on expectations for how the night will go, including whether there will be dinner, details on sleeping arrangements, venue etc.
Have fun!
To tell you the truth, I would never ask an escort for an overnight/weekend if you have been only seeing her for an hour at a time before…but that is just me. If you think that you are going to be going at it overnight…that will never happen…if a guy could anyway LOL. There are a lot of escorts that will state that she needs her beauty sleep, so X amount of hours she will be sleeping.
I’d rather start with 2 hours then move up, to see if you like her or she likes you. I think that there are a number escorts around that no matter how much she makes on the night, if she does not like the guy, she will not do the date. I know my way will cost more from 2 hours on up, but in the end it pays off.
Such as including a meal or some sort of event (movie, concert, etc.). That should give you a better idea how well you can get along for a while when not doing something erotic.
... like a weekend?
That's the way I did it... leaped from 1-2 hour sessions to asking the provider if she'd spend a weekend with me. It was one of the best weekends of my life. It worked out because we'd both gotten to know each other pretty well and thus I knew we'd have a good time even when not doing "erotic" stuff.
I was a little surprised that she accepted. I found out she'd never before spent a weekend with a client, just as I'd never done a weekend or even an overnight with a provider. But we're both mature, sensible people, I know myself and believed I knew her, so I thought it was very low risk.
But as was mentioned, don't go into an overnight and for sure a longer date like a weekend thinking it will be nonstop sex (or even nonstop massage 😉 ). You're going to be doing a lot of other stuff together, like talking (and listening), eating, sleeping, etc.
This is awesome!!!!
Thanks much to everyone
You gave me some real good food for thought before I jump in
Here is something else to consider, I don’t know your personal life, but you do have to think about if your date is going to be in public…here is my example.
A few years ago, it was New Year’s Eve and a group of us were celebrating at this large Hotel in the area. After a while I look around the bar and I notice somebody that I known for years. The person is one of my friend’s father sitting there and the woman is not his wife. This friend of mine’s family does not even live in this state, but his dad was here with company. So, you could get “caught” in public and be in another state
I don’t know if there is an easy/good answer if somebody sees you, but maybe rehearse one…maybe somebody else has the answer?
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