I was just considering adding your city to my tour...
Ouch. Just think of it this way, It is this week only. Maybe next week will be different. We all literally have the BS moments and it seems to come all at once. There are far better great days than horrid days. Your situation happens in all cities. I try to only see regulars so I don't have to deal with that, but even they can have real issues with emergencies etc....game players, question asking, no reference having, no call/no show, cancel 20 minutes before our appointment, clients in MN this week?!?! I'm floored with the amount of bs this week and I've never had any experience like this in MN. Ladies, are you having the same problem? Guys, is it something in the air? I mean, I'm just stumped with this. Not to mention losing money on hotel costs. Wow, just wow!
I was just considering adding your city to my tour...
Ouch.
Just think of it this way, It is this week only. Maybe next week will be different. We all literally have the BS moments and it seems to come all at once. There are far better great days than horrid days.
Your situation happens in all cities. I try to only see regulars so I don't have to deal with that, but even they can have real issues with emergencies etc.
Sorry you are having a bad experience, but please don't let it sour you on Minnesota -- there are lots of good clients here, I promise. I obviously have no idea why this streak of bad luck is happening to you, but one thing that could be contributing to it is the backpage effect, as a result of which more providers and clients are migrating to TER without experience and some existing clients may be feeling more unsure or overly cautious about situations. But like I said, who knows? Hope your luck turns soon.
I never said I was having bad experiences, I am not even in MN. The OP said she was.
Sometimes you have really good weeks and sometimes you have really bad ones.
Ha. That does seem like a pretty petty complaint.
... pretending to be Minnesota hobbyists, not the real thing as real Minnesota men would never act that way.
At least I'd hope not!
Sadly many of them do.
P.S. Are you breadmaker?
At least I'd hope not!
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Maybe it's out-of-towners. Or maybe there's a flood of new, inexperienced clients showing up on the scene.
I've been hobbying on TER for 12+ years - I've never canceled on anyone on short notice.
Maybe I'm naive - do guys schedule and cancel for-fun?
I just had a NCNS. Yes, he was screened...it's infuriating! And I've also been encountering, what seems to be Newbies with no clue, or just a bunch of guys unwilling to provide screening info. I feel like I'm "preaching to the choir" here though...most people understand at least basic etiquette and common knowledge. If you have the ability to find a provider and contact her, you certainly are capable of googling proper etiquette, etc....so, yes...I feel your pain and frustration! Since BP censored their page, it's been a little weird, to say the least! On a GOOD note, these jerks make me appreciate...I mean really appreciate my regulars and new friends who follow directions! Haha
But I just make a mental note and try someone else. I made an appointment 4 days in advance and confirmed before I left home. Parked when I arrive to have her tell me she needed 10 minutes. I wait 25 minutes and text her...she was almost ready needed a couple minutes. I left after 35 more minutes and the lady texted me 90 minutes after I got home and said she was ready I could come up. From the time I confirmed until the time she said I could come on up was 6 1/2 hours. So 5 hours from the time I left home until I returned home. She was a well reviewed lady....100+ When all was said and done she asked why I did not keep my appointment after all the prep she did. Next day I made a same day appointment through a scheduler and got let into the building and when I knocked on the door got no answer. Not sure how that happens but it did. That lady never responded to an inquiry as to what happened. Next day she says I NCNS her So in a weekend I spent 10 1/2 hours between driving and waiting and had to accept blue balls as my fine reward. Couple weeks later I scheduled through a scheduler at same building as the one that said I went to the wrong place or NCNS and saw a lady that said it happens all the time and she gets business seeing other ladies clients when they don't show up for appointments.
No rants just moved on. I hope everyone better luck the NEXT time....some very nice people in the hobby, one just needs to find them! I have found a handful that I will see until they retire/move on to other things. To those ladies I say HELL YEAH!
Chalk it up to the forces that be are messing with the energy. Everyone goes through a little slump and some areas tend to have a slow moment. Just go and dust your shoulders off and let it ride.
Cum for my set time. I don't get to do it as often as I want to but I would never NCNS. HOWEVER I have had ladies pull this shit on me a few times. I once chased a lady for 3 separate appointments. She bailed every time. So I get it. There are a few dickheads in every city I'm sure!