To me, the ideal sexual experience involves two (could be more) people who are tuned into each other's needs, desires, and preferences. They know each other well enough to completely trust each other and be extremely comfortable with each other. Each person wants his/her partner to have a great time, but they understand that means they can't focus on only pleasing their partner--they need to let their partner please THEM too. Each person needs to be able to give themselves to the other as well as give OF themselves.
The underlying current is, "Let's have fun!" because each person thinks sex is tons o' fun. There's a playful (maybe even silly? 😏) vibe. They're open to exploring together, within their comfort zones. This exploration is without risk because of the trust between them; each person knows their partner would never do anything to hurt them. There may be feelings of love between them... maybe not romantic love (especially in p4p), but maybe just the love between people who like and respect each other. With that foundation, I know I'm going to have a really, really great--perhaps ideal--time. 😄Can it be accomplished with just one partner or does it require more than 2 people?
Is it more about what is offered or how/where it is performed?
At different times, what I would most like will be different.
I believe we all have a perfect match just some settle for less and never truly experience ultimate sexual satisfaction and there are some people who just crave new encounters And some people will never experience how amazing sex really is mostly because we live in a society that is ashamed of a natural healthy part of life we all crave this a very good topic I could seriously go on but I'll stop but I think everyone in life should experience any sexual fantasy they have in life sex is healthy and natural if only the world felt the same lol
...I have had the good fortune over the years to experience a great number of fantasy sensual encounters, however none of which included Depends.
Ideally, it includes flirting and laughing a lot. Good conversation. Makes me want to devour the intelligent speaker. Ask all my nerdy smart dudes!
I don't have specific THINGS that make for a good experience. It's the PERSON I'm with that satisfies me. As for cumming, you get me this far, the cumming will happen with little effort.
I just like good, fun, laughter-filled sex. Silly sex. I like silly sex.
Trin
I pick up what I like and don't like along the way. And as it turns out aggressive/rough sex is my thing. I've been in this for 4 years and finally met someone who showed me this path. I rarely do repeats more than 2 times, or the rare 3 with providers, but she has me crawling back to her every time she is in town.
She didn't explicitly state she was into it when I first met her, I was actually shocked/excited of what went down during that session. We started out gentle until she tugged me in full force, clawed my back, and gagged me with a DFK. Before I realized it she was wheezing with my hands clenched around her neck; watched her beautiful o-face grasping for air. She didn't even complain, even told me to squeeze her tits as hard as I can. I think this will be as ideal as it gets for me.
Nothing has felt the same since then. Everyone I've seen after her has been a disappointment after another. There's nothing worse than giving it to someone who wants to do nothing more than lay back quietly until it's over.
Fuck, I'm going to miss her dearly when she moves on.
*I could never do a threesome. Too introverted to survive it, can barely handle a 3-way conversation without being mentally zapped.
To me, the ideal sexual experience involves two (could be more) people who are tuned into each other's needs, desires, and preferences. They know each other well enough to completely trust each other and be extremely comfortable with each other. Each person wants his/her partner to have a great time, but they understand that means they can't focus on only pleasing their partner--they need to let their partner please THEM too. Each person needs to be able to give themselves to the other as well as give OF themselves.
The underlying current is, "Let's have fun!" because each person thinks sex is tons o' fun. There's a playful (maybe even silly? 😏) vibe. They're open to exploring together, within their comfort zones. This exploration is without risk because of the trust between them; each person knows their partner would never do anything to hurt them.
There may be feelings of love between them... maybe not romantic love (especially in p4p), but maybe just the love between people who like and respect each other.
With that foundation, I know I'm going to have a really, really great--perhaps ideal--time. 😄