Just wondering if anybody has recommendation on providers that are good at calming nerves, etc. I'm a little shy with new people, making seeing providers a little nerve wracking at times!
Well my first escort was Pretty Penny. I wasn't particularly nervous (too old for that anymore) but she was really helpful getting me started in this endeavor. There are no recent TER reviews but she is active on P411 -- checks in every day.
Just reach out to a lady who suits your fancy!
May I recommend London James? She’s got a great, easy going, and relaxed personality that will put you at ease. A very interesting lady with a wide range of interests- so she’ll pull you into a conversation easily. And she’s also beautiful and sexy... which means you’ll definitely have fun. http://thelondonjames.com
Best of luck!
Priya - Thank you! You have me over here blushing! I also hope you're having a fabulous visit here in the Twin Cities. If time makes itself available for us to see one another before you head back to DC (I know we both are always on the go), you know how to reach me! If not, we'll cross paths soon.
ShyGuy39 - While I recognize some see this world as only a physical one, I think it's pretty courageous to own up that you want to see someone you're compatible with. I'll be honest with you, to this day, I still get nervous meeting a new friend! Regardless of how confidant any of us are, I think we still want others to have a good time with us; it's human nature is it not? Anywho, take a peek at my website and my social media if you'd like - you'll be able to tell I can easily transition from outgoing jokester to laid-back deep thinker. If you decide that in the end you're feeling the vibe, I would be happy to guide you through my booking process as well to make you more comfortable. My Assistant, Cynthia, can sit this one out. I got you. *smiles* Best of luck, darlin'! - LJ,xx
I know that for me, sensing a clients mood is important because I can figure out how slow or fast to move, how long to talk before the real fun begins, etc. Being an empath helps in this line of work.
My point is that if you were to see me, I’d probably notice your shyness/anxiety. When this happens it’s best IMO to vocalize how you’re feeling. That way I don’t misread the situation and think maybe there’s something wrong with me.
So when you meet up with a wonderful lady, just be honest about how you feel and hopefully she will take the lead, do what feels good and you both will have an awesome time.
If you like gorgeous MILF’s, in a relaxing environment, she’s the one. Very easygoing and I was a bit nervous my first time. She made it comfortable.
She’s very good at making you feel relaxed.
If you find a reputable provider with good reviews, website, P411, good communication, etc..don’t feel shy or awkward. Mention to them when booking you are a bit shy or nervous, (I have), they know how to prepare and adapt to all types.
The good ones have seen and heard ALL kinds of crazy shit. So I highly doubt you being shy would even phase them. Just be respectful and have good hygiene! (Most providers have showers, towels, and everything else you need in their bathroom. They like when you do that, even if you showered before you came)
In my experience, the seasoned and well respected ladies know how to make it comfortable and fun for BOTH you and her during the ENTIRE date, not just between the sheets!
Just my $0.02
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There are a number of great ladies here accommodating shy guys. Typically more established (50+ reviews) and mature (35+). Read the non-juicy reviews and board posts and you’ll know if they are caring and humble. Becareful of some of the young or pro bump and run types - they’ll take advantage of you. Nice thing about this experience is you’ll be less shy the next time or in your civic life. Have fun!
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And am positive I can put your mind and nerves at ease. I'll send you a pm and feel free to reach out any time sweetie! Have a phenomenal day!
Xoxo Dani
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I suggest you keep an eye out for that.
... that the provider was willing to see clients who didn't have references, P411 OKs, white lists etc because they were new or pretty new to p4p, and the provider would accept other methods for screening.
And the OP didn't say how new he is at this, just that he's shy so seeing providers is nerve wracking at times.
But who knows, maybe "newbie friendly" providers are also good at those kinds of situations. 
(As for recommendations, PM sent to the OP.)
Newbie's are more likely to be nervous so I figure newbie friendly providers do have more experience with nervous clients.
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...a very long time & I still feel nervous when I am meeting a provider for the first time.
Whitney Cohen was one of my first meetings ever, along with a friend of hers.. and I was pretty shy.. they were great at easing the shyness in me. They have always been a couple of my favorites.
Awwwwwh!!! Thank you Feetlover!
I don't mind shy men! I prefer to know ahead of time so I can be prepared. An extended date is suggested, but not required, so we can have enough time. Let's shake the shyness out, share a few laughs and have some fun!
XOXO,
Whitney Cohen
We can take it nice and slow.......
lol don't be shy
Well unless that's what your into
Xoxo
Kyla