For everyone from disbanded Michigan sites that still pretend those sites were safe despite all of the evidence against, and get their 'gossip' from the private boards that are dying...  

...all I have to say is, "huh?"

Welcome to a 'more' neutral place. Maybe not perfect, but more neutral than what you've had, based on your interactions, not 'some dude' and what he or she decides to delete, change, or post.  

Introduce yourself