I am relatively new the the massage parlor scene. Is there an acceptable way to ask what is allowed?
I was at a massage parlor a month ago and it seemed very little was off the table and it was great fun. I went to a different one, (because the other one was to far away), and almost nothing was suggested or encouraged. Am I missing something as to a sign to look for?You may learn by asking on your local board if anyone has experience with the MP in question, but then you could find a lot of variation from gal to gal, or even day to day if say, there was a recent bust in town, and the gals are cooling their jets for a while.
In any case, the best line once you're in the room is to wait until after the flip, and try to make eye contact while you smile at them. If they smile back, say something like: Do you do extras for generous gentlemen? All it takes is a nod from her, then the next step is negotiating.
I find a Happy Ending is most common but anything beyond that is unkniown. And some places will lead you to believe it'll be naughty & then go legit on you.
A few times I've had had a gal ask what I want... I regained my composure & said everything. Other places offer little the first few times... once a gal gets to know you... that you are safe... she might give more. Some places have a hard limit how far they'll go.
In one case, I've started exporing with my hand. She smiled & more was allowed. I think she was waiting for me to make the first move.
....so what I do to try and stack the deck in my favor by doing little things to increase the odds of her understanding what i want. But even monger joints have clean girls and legit places have dirty girls. Unless it's an AAMP type deal it's a total crapshoot until you are established as a good customer.
Not really to be honest. There are a things you can do to improve your odds. Probably the best I've found is to be casual with the drape. Have it halfway down your butt, often by doing this a lot of girls will strip it of your butt and put it around your feet. Also hang your arms off the table and if she gets close to your arms casually caress her calves and compliment them. Make appreciative noises/comments when she gets close to places you want touched. Make sure when you flip to fumble with the drape (assuming it's still on) to leave yourself fully exposed (and hopefully erect) for a bit. Adjust the drape to leave yourself nearly exposed. If all this fails, lay back and enjoy the massage.
Other points be nice and respectful. Don't paw the girl. Don't start pulling off her pants (I had a provider complain about guys who do that to her) . Ask her about herself. Never forget you aren't owed any sexual favors.
A couple of days ago at a AMP. It's a Happy Endings place & I've been a regular there, probably 3 years. Previously, on the flip, I'd carress her skin above her waist, under her top... I'd say "you feel nice" & she'd guide my hand to her breast. Only recently, the girls have begun going topless.
My last time there, I tried going exploring further: I carressed her legs & slid my hands under her short shorts to her butt. She didn't say anything but her body language was unmistakeable. She moved out of reach & continued with the HE. By moving, her upper body was out of reach, as well.
She gave me a good ending... nothing was said. As far as I know, I left on good terms. But I know not to push her limits again.
It is very relaxing and it will tell you a lot about the girl right up front. If she scrubs your goods with her bare hands, and isn't too shy about it, then usually its a green light.
I've been going to the same place for a few years, and once they know you, it's definitely more comfortable.
If I do venture out to a new spot, I always get totally naked and act relaxed and play it cool untill they make the first move.
It is always a little scary going to a new place, and I try to be prepared to leave after only the massage with no extras. No big deal, just move on.
get naked, talk sexy, brush your hands on her legs, up and up and up...
she will know or move away
Do some research and see if the AMP is reviewed and what the comments are. I usually wait until they start massaging my legs and as they get up on my thighs I open my legs very wide and if she is good with it normally will casually let her hand stray. If that happens I then rub her legs or butt and it is then usually off to the races.
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