Paraphrasing Forrest Gump "AMPs are like a box of chocolate, you never know what you are going to get".
Was in a mood for a rub and a tug, so I went to an establishment that was new to me. Was asked the usual "you be here before?" (answer "yes"), and when I said yes to the shower got a big smile. Next thing I know, as she is drying my woodie, she asks me about "boom-boom last time". We go back to the massage room and she insists on knowing the desired service - without any prompt from me. FS is on the menu. Well, I never bring any extra cash, so we settle on the HJ. On the flip, she reminds me again and now FS is almost 1/2 the previous price (still higher than what I have and "no honey, I did not bring my CC"). At the end of the session, she reminded me of the reduced price "for next time". What would you do on the next visit? Walk in with just enough for house fee + reduced fee, or something more? How do you handle the negotiating when this happens? Initially, she looked irritated that I did not take her up on FS or BJ and I thought "crap, this is a bone killer..." but then she was a real pro, doing a great teasing job before the flip 😜😜Most gals are a bit more coy than the one you describe owing to the fact that they are cautious about LE with a first time customer.
So, after the flip, I try to make eye contact and give a big smile. If she returns it, you're usually golden. Then an innocently worded question like: Do you do favors for generous gentlemen? will often elicit a nod.
From there, I just offer what I feel is a fair market rate, usually something like $100 for a BJ and $200 for FS. Some will balk at the FS, but will go with the BJ. Sometimes after a few visits, they'll warm up to you and go for the FS.
Sometimes the gal will counter offer by raising a number of fingers, like raising three fingers to counter the offer of $$. You can just shake your head, and most of the time, she'll come around to your way of seeing things.
It's called "planning for success" and I rarely walk out of an AMP without getting laid, or at the very least "some kind" of release.
Unless you truly don't want any extra services and/or you are too cheap to give a tip in the case you get fantastic service, why wouldn't you bring extra money?
I NEVER go into a session without enough money on me to pay for anything "extra" I think I might be interested in, and I really don't know why anyone would not do so unless they are cheap or broke.
You are most likely correct about her being a bit irritated, AMP girls work on tips, most likely she didn't make a single cent from your visit. The forty to sixty bucks you pay at the beginning is the house fee. Can you really blame her for being a bit irritated that she ended up working for free?
Extra cash is like a condom: if you have it and don't need it, no problem, but if you need it and don't have it = problem!
One pocket has the typical house fee and whatever you expect to tip, such as what she had negotiated for "next time" if you get to see her again. You got her name, right? Go back within a week and hopefully she remembers you.
Another pocket has extra in case the menu suddenly opens up, or you decide on 4 hands, or you want more time. Having extra cash on hand ensures you will continue to get great treatment & options as a regular customer, or at least can confidently negotiate if it's your first visit there.
girl might be so hot that you want to fuck her
... so to speak ... on my first visit to an AMP.