Us hobbyists rely on provider reviews posted by fellow hobbyists to choose reputable providers to meet with. Most providers use " whitelisted" metric to verify / screen hobbyist. But why is it the some reputable providers don't bother white listing the hobbyists that they have seen?? If a hobbyist take time to write a review about the provider to benefit the provider, isn't it expected and the right thing to do for the provider to take just a second and white list the hobbyist for other providers to help with screening???? your thoughts please.
for verification purposes. Yes, some will accept it, some won't. I've read numerous times of guys receiving a Whitelist from a lady whom they never met. I've found that P411 OKs are much widely accepted.
Now as someone has already mentioned, if you want a Whitelist make your request known to the lady. If you don't ask, then she's not gonna know. It's not automatic.
When we write a review, its to let other hobbyists to know if a provider is real or fake and how the experience was. When a provider white lists a hobbyist, its to let other providers know that that guy is safe and not an LE, or a crazy person. when we write a good review, that provider gets a boost right away. every provider who uses TER knows about the rating and what they mean. So, my point is that if we take the time and write a review about a certain provider, a provider can show a little decency and appreciation for that hobbyist by giving a white list which only takes a second.
I only whitelist clients who I have seen at least twice and have written a review of me.
Whitelist recommendations are an honor and should not be expected or demanded from a client. I am very respectful of time and boundaries and expect the same from the wonderful people I choose to see. I also want to remember those I have whitelisted so I can give proper reference checks to other providers. We all have to look out for each other!!!
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Emily
Good to know your perspective Emily. The guy that pays that much money to see for an hour is " honored" to get a whitelist recommendations from you. Some people think of themselves as providers where some are just plain " hookers" .
...but you have only whitelisted ONE guy!! You said you only whitelist clients who have seen you twice. That means your other 22 reviewers only saw you once and didn't want to see you again.
Perhaps you need to study the Newbie board - whitelists are not supposed to be traded for reviews (or a second visit as an idiot said). Don't believe me - such esteemed TER members such as GaGambler, London Rayne and xyz23 say the same thing:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie-33/whitelist-134014?page=
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie-33/reviews-126078?page=
Only takes 1 visit to know if your a respectful individual. Sharing is caring. I always verify whitelists from reputable providers prior to booking. I wish more, providers would whitelist.
I totally agree with Emily. I like to give accurate and truthful reference checks and the only way to really remember a good client is to refer to the review he wrote about me which follows a whitelist referral. The upscale providers are busy with our own lives and this is a great way of remembering who's who at the ho down. 😂. I believe in being authentic about it. Safety first!!!
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Bella
1- If you are using this site, you should contribute to it for other providers information.
2- who is rating some one high end or low end????? your average service rate of 7 does not out you in High end in my opinion.
3- Only you providers have daily live?!!! don't we all have our daily lives??? and as ones that pay the tab, shouldn't our time and daily life to be first in line??? This is what I mean by saying self centered, over priced hookers.
I just whitelisted all of my regulars. 
Have a great Monday!!
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Emily
Thanks to all of my ATF's for whitelisting me! I appreciate each and every one of you for being top shelf providers who do this because they truly enjoy the lifestyle.
Looking forward to seeing you again and again!