Providers, ladies/gentleman,
Which do you prefer and why? I prefer prebooked encounters because I can prepare for our meeting, schedule my day/week ahead of time, and it allows more time for screening.
I usually can't plan out my free time that much so I usually have to do last minute
only booked a same-day appointment three times, although I have tried more times than that unsuccessfully. My usual practice is to book one to three days before the day I want, depending on how busy and popular the girl is. I can usually get the time I want by pre-booking, and the one to three day window is close enough to the session date that its rare for either the provider or me to cancel. If you try to book farther out, there are more things that can happen.
I usually book either the night before if I know my schedule for the next day, or more often I book in the morning for a session later on that same day or evening.
A combination of P 411, agencies and knowing a lot of providers who I've already gone through screening with makes booking strictly short notice not as difficult as a lot of people seem to think. Yes, there are some ladies who I will never be able to see who ONLY book with advance notice, but everything in life is a trade off. My schedule is so unpredictable that if I were making appointments even 3-4 days out, I would end up having to cancel at least 25% of them. I don't want to be "that guy" so I've figured out efficient ways of making short notice appointments.
Between work and my personal life i am pretty busy. I also tend to alternate between a short list of favorites. So booking 3-4 days ahead is a good way to ensure that I have an appointment with the girl I want to see at a time that works with my schedule.
I've never had much success with same day bookings. Likewise, booking a week out or more is likely to lead to scheduling issues on one end or the other. So for me 3-4 days ahead is perfect.
and since I hobby far from home - most of the time it's same day...
I realise that this is a pain for most providers so I just work my way down my bucket list and if I can't find a quality
candidate - I write it off...
Even though my expectations are very low, some providers get really annoyed when I ask (despite the fact that I'm easily
verified). If my life allowed for long lead times, I would do that, it just does not...
... and besides it gives me time to think of a good excuse to leave work early on that day 
I try to prebook (2-3 days out) when I am sure of a time I can make the appointment but 90% of the time Im met with silence until the day of and then when I try to make the appointment same day I get an immediate response. I would prefer to prebook to know I have the date and time. Then I do not have to worry if the girl is already booked by the time I contact her but it almost never happens for me.
Great to schedule it but just as good to have a spontaneous rendezvous.
I wish I could pre book a minimum of 3-5 days out. With work and my personal life I never know when I have free time except twice a year when the cats away.
Once I've met someone who's company I enjoy and understand my limitations she will usually work with me on short notice appointments.
...Contrary to popular belief, they're not sitting around waiting for the phone to ring. I don't have to get my rocks off so badly that I'd want them to disrupt their lives to accommodate me.
If it's someone I've seen before, I'll contact them a day before. If it's someone new, I'll email them about three days before. If I don't hear from them within 24 hours, I'll email them that I'm no longer interested in meeting them. That leaves me two days to either find someone new or someone I've seen before.
...after you've told her that you were no longer interested in seeing her?
I'm curious if anyone replied and did not take it very well.
...I don't blame them; I'm nice about it - I just say since I didn't hear from them, I had to make other arrangements. I tell them I will try them again another time. They know it's their fault; they're running a business - if I can't get the product I want in a timely fashion, I'll contact another supplier. It may sound cold but when I wants it, I gots to get it.
You have to take the initiative and let them know you're cancelling. Some won't contact you until the day of the appointment and expect it to go forward. Then they really are pissed if you haven't told them you moved on.
I live a very busy life-style. Book in advance at least 48 hours notice. I require a deposit to book because I have to reserve child & dog care. The more advanced notice the better, so I can make arrangements. I recently saw on a NYC providers site a rush delivery option that I decided to copy/remix. No last-minute dates unless you provide a $500 Rush Delivery Convenience Fee.
I would not be upset if I had a last minute call who accommodated my time for their "Rush Delivery Request."
Time is valuable & you never get it back.
LOL rush delivery
Sometimes a window of opportunity opens up unexpectedly or I'm feeling particularly randy after a good workout. My success rate is probably 30% within 8 hours of the requested time. I never presume any lady is sitting around waiting for my call but it has happened that a lady finds herself with some open time due to a cancellation, etc.