I advertise on Eros only and I got a text message from a guy who asked me to come over to his place in LA. He was okay with my price and so I went over after getting his basic information. He paid me in a check which I took hesitantly. After our time spent together, I deposited the check. It went through and the money was in my account two days later. On the same day the check cleared, he asked me over again. So I went because now I knew he was good for it. He gave me another check. I went to deposit that one as well after our SECOND interaction. Two days later, I got a notification from my bank saying his account was closed and both checks had bounced!
I tried to reach out to him and he never responded. Now I am getting weird calls, emails and fraudulent alerts from my bank and I can't help but think it has something to do with him and whatever scam he is doing. A fellow Eros girl tried contacted me asking if he was okay to see and i told her what I'm telling you -- NO! HE IS FRAUD! He used me, lied to me, took back the money I had worked for and was rightfully mine and now I am at a financial loss of well over $1,000. I have his phone, name and address if anyone gets a message from him DO NOT GO. Trying to help my fellow girls not become a victim like I was. Feel free to contact me for more details.Please send his info in a private email. I am in LA as well.
Always stick to your guns! Accepting the check the first time is understandable as things may get lost in communication or he just didn't know. The following time, you should have told him to please have cash available (sometimes because of law enforcement. it can get a little tricky) or leave the incall. Im sorry this happened to you.
Accepting a check is NOT understandable, nor should you or any other lady here take a check from anyone you don't already know VERY well.
There is nothing at all tricky about this, if a guy shows up at your incall without the proper donation in a form that you have AGREED is acceptable, then that "gentleman" should politely be shown the door. I can not think of any acceptable reason that a first time client would show up at a lady's door without the proper donation in cash, unless of course they have AGREED on an alternative form of payment, such as a CC or even bitcoin.
BTW Cashiers checks are even riskier than "soft checks" as they are so easy to forge and it could be as long as several weeks before your bank informs you that the check is a forgery. Passing forged cashiers checks is a very common scam in this age of laser printers and even some rather astute businesspeople have fallen for this scam or some variation of it.
I lost money with a guy in LA area also. Similar situation, he even had a reference who vouched for him. This was earlier this year. I never take checks, big learning lesson from when I first started.
Time and experience has taught me quite a bit.
Who in this business does that?
NEVER TAKE CHECKS!!! Once you put the check into your account he will have your account number. From there he can get your name and all your other personal info. This is one of the primary ways ID theft
Be safe and CHANGE YOUR ACCOUNT NUMBER RIGHT AWAY. Being out the money is one thing but once you become a victim of identity theft the nightmare is just beginning.
And taking a check? I'm sorry but that is a risk you take by accepting forms of payment that can be "undone".
Cash
Amazon gift card (physical or emailed)
Cash
Cash
More cash
Some credit (not AmEx, they do chargebacks readily and protect the cardholder almost w/o question)
Cash
Cash
No offense but really? A check? Come on. How badly can someone need the income and what's wrong with the guy to be unable to withdraw the money if he can use a check? It's also a good way to possibly find you through a routing number if you put it into your own account even the recipient is blank. It will show on his account (an image of the check) and then he could know EXACTLY who you are which can then be used to leverage the money back from you or extort you for more...
Seriously. A check. And you're surprised? I'm not. Wow. Sorry to be a jerk but this is called a lesson and hope you learned.
I only use cash. No paper trail and the provider gets immediate compensation without hassle. Credit card & checks leave too much personal info exposed IMO.
How does one contact you for the info?
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I’m in la girl as well, please send me his info privately. Thank you for sharing so appreciated! I’m sorry for your loss at least your okay and lesson learned! It happens to the best of us! 
and a few site for blacklisting .. yes I like his info as well
please Pm
Thanks Gina