First time poster, long time post reader 
. I had a new experience today. A well-regarded lady here replied to my appointment request by essentially saying "no thanks, I see that you score low and I'm not interested in lowering my average". I told her that I understood and obviously she can see/not see whoever she chooses. But this was a new one for me. I'm honest in every review, and try to be fair. Is this a normal practice? Should I only post glowing reviews?
I think there could have been a nicer way for her to say she is not interested. If every single review or more than half of your reviews are super negative, then I feel most likely it wouldn’t be the women who are the issue and I would feel the same as her.Same goes for looking for a provider. If all of her reviews are negative except one or two then you might consider looking for someone else because it raises a red flag. I don’t think I would ever turn someone down based on how they review unless all of their written reviews are just plain mean and that provider had all great reviews except yours. If that makes sense.Honesty is appreciated because if I were to get a bad review I could try and figure out how I could make it a better experience.This is just my personal opinion of course. Xoxo
If you have a higher then average raitng score
with your reviews , why take a chance for a lower rating, when its obvious your worth more.. 😙 So Some Principles are worth more then money.
It worked, she saw me and we had a great. I mean, you don't have to review everyone one meet.
I just read several of your reviews, they are all very pleasant and appear honest, they are exactly what is requested. Your scores seem to be very close to the low side of their averages, for example if their average is 7.53, your score is a 7. I think I found one where your score was higher, in this example it would an 8. You are the classic fair reviewer.
I on the other hand am the classic grade inflator. My reviews are crazy over the top stories, I don’t have the heart to score lower than an 8. The two 7s I’ve given caused me regret. I have been criticized several times for it. Even from my friends and some providers. We need guys like you to balance out guys like me.
Her on the other hand is just plain wrong, and what she is doing compromises what we are trying to do here. She didn’t read your reviews or “investigate” the scores. She just looked at your scores and said no. Bad attitude IMO.
For you, it appears you see a lot of girls that only offer a “massage” or covered service, and appear very reasonably priced. This seems to be the reason you score low, you see girls that typically have a 7 or 8 average. Nothing wrong with that. I have a few favorites that are 7s and 8s. I also noticed you are a frequent flyer. Maybe one month fly only once, and grab your self a full service higher ranked lady that has higher average scores, a way of demonstrating you can review in the higher ranges.
I’ll send you a PM, maybe we can swap recommendations.
Most people know me here, and I think over the years I have built a pretty good reputation of being honest. Yes, I did turn him down. I could have lied to him and came up with another reason, but that would not have served one of the reasons I did it. I feel he needed to know, and maybe that would help other ladies going forward.
But the main reason is more selfish than that. I had just received another review from a crackpot who gave me a 7-8 rating, and I was still pretty upset when bigjerm101 contacted me. That 7-8 is totally fake! I do not live in an apartment complex and have never seen anyone in an apartment complex. I do not do p2p, and he could not have contacted me via texting. Plus referring to me as "tits on a stick" was insulting and demeaning. I contacted TER several times and they are jerking me around and not taking my word for it (they could look at other reviews). I get really mad when the guys word is taken over the ladies word!! They want to "see what he has to say first". What a bunch of BS.
Here's the main reason I turned him down. That one bad review took me from a 30 ranking in LV all the way down to a 39 ranking (because of chemistry and location score). How much did that cost me?
So if TER will not protect me, then I need to protect myself! This is my life. This is how I live and pay my bills.
"Bigjerm101" I'm sorry you caught me at a moment when I was pissed. I'm sure you are a nice guy. I have never done that before. But at the same time, I don't regret it. It felt kind of good to be in control. Will I do it again? Maybe, depends on the circumstances
Damn. Sorry that happened to you. Thanks for sharing and being honest. I really hope TER takes the review down.
My input very simple.
I know SweetMay and her showing it was her that said reply shows just how serious she is and real. She is not tits on stick and I would play with her anytime. She is Beautiful woman. I appreciate her for the courage to say she do what many of us do.
Guys get to look at all aspects of our provider side. We have websites, we have reviews, we communicate with them. If they want give low score because they not do their own research and not be lazy, then why would we want take chance to see them. If the website lies, if the pictures not real, if the services offered different from profile sure. But if all is real, and the chemistry not perfect, if we cant figure out what you really want and make you happy, no need to write a review that says so. We are good, some of us very good at try figure out what makes it hot for you. But we are not mind readers into your dark desires.
I dont care where my LV or Phoenix ranking is. But I do care that my reviews are honest and fair. I think many are just like that. If guy is giving super sexy girls shitty score on looks yet her photos were accurate then guy is moron. Simple. If I dont stick half my hand up guys ass as he cums because he did not tell me thats what he likes, how do I know that. Simple. If you give out bullshit reviews, why would someone who has good reviews want see you. It does have impact on business and that is another simple truth. Say nice things when all is real, or dont say anything at all. When we look at a guys reviews and see nothing makes him totally happy, no need try to please him.
Take care
Christine
It can run both ways, but regardless, making stuff up sucks and dishonestly shouldn't be allowed. With that said, the one thing on the client side that bugs the hell out of me is TER not allowing no-shows to be posted in the review section (an equally problematic issue for clients...we really need to know that one).
I would not opposed to no shows able to post in review, as long as can prove they no show. Just how do you propose you can prove a provider no show. And of course it would need to apply to clients as well.
Should apply equal to all. Same burden proof to all. And that burden of proof need be perfect solid. I dont think there is a way to do that.
Christine
So what would you constitute as proof? Texts/emails? I certainly could have provided those on any of the situations I've experienced. Even have the phone records showing the numbers the texts were sent from. But I imagine someone could still say, the actual text was fake. I think at some point it gets down to the integrity of the clients and providers. The biggest red flag for me has been multiple reports of activity (but you can't see that if none are allowed). I personally think too much is being made here of the one-and-done post. In the situation described above, I wouldn't be overally concerned or give a lot of credibility of a single post that was fake or low, provided there was a history of solid reviews (I would just treat it as an outlier). But it's the provider's business, so she can run it anyway she wants. With that said, couldn't someone that doesn't have any history at all of posting reviews still give her a bad review? How would she prevent that? Now we're getting into mind reading.
So bigjerm101 just contacted me and told me that is was not him...and yes, now I feel like I have egg on my face :/
I just checked my email and sure enough it was someone named Fadwatcher2. This just happened a few days ago, and I just assumed without looking first. Sorry for my confusion. I thought I better post this before the real girls see's this.
Yikes!!!
(but still glad I made my point)
Poor guy now won't get a date now in Pittsburgh, Cincinnati of where ever he farts around. Poor guy to be told basically that "You score too low to see me". I get it, you need to keep a certain profile. But maybe it's me, but it doesn't seem cool to post his name here.
Reach out to TER, pull this response....if you want. Or reword it.
I know Sweet May and I would trust her completely in any situation.
Class Act all the way!
We all do. But doing all you can to make it right is what is most important. I would hope that as you say the "real girls " who now know the real story would support you and spread the word that this was a mistaken identity.
Thanks for having and showing the integrity to say yes I was the offender and it's my responsibility to set it straight.
You have so many great reviews that an individual average or even below average wouldn’t matter. I would assume it’s an outlier. I have seen you and you live up to the hype.
Sorry you got slammed by a "Slobiest", couldn't you try to get the fake review removed? I'm not sure how to do it, but it is possible. My ATF was slammed w/ a crappy TER review and she was able to get it deleted.
Most everyone, guys and girls, totally missed the point of my reply to this post. It's not about the review, and I DO KNOW how to get fake reviews removed. I don't whine on this board about fake reviews...never have and never will. And I get my fair share.
I was making a statement (when I thought is was someone else) that I will pick and choose to protect myself. I was trying to be honest. I was also upset with TER for not doing a little more to protect us, so we have to find ways to protect ourselves.
Choice is what I was mostly getting at.
human and take that kind of thing personally. But your logical self looks at this "fake" review in contrast with all of your other reviews and deep down, you know THAT review says more about the reviewer than it could ever say about YOU!
We hobbyists are not stupid. We take reviews like that with a grain of salt. If you look closer at the OP's reviews, there is one in particular where his numeric ratings are not even close to the narrative and others where he rated providers, significantly lower than their composite/average scores. If I was a provider, I would have passed as well, and NOT because I was having a bad day over a "fake" review.
You can be sure anyone with half a brain can scan your TER profile very briefly and know how AMAZING you ARE!
When I look at the cost of services & read the reviews I see the score is very low because the providers tend to be not as attractive as the higher end escorts who charge more. Please let me know if I am wrong. I am not trying to be rude, but honest yes indeed always. You either respect my candor, or you don't.
I have attended many M&G's over my years in this wonderful industry, and when I meet some of the providers I am surprised to say the least. Many can not hold a conversation to save their life, which is perfectly fine if your paying them to come & leave. Some are missing teeth, or have tooth decay & to me taking care of yourself is a priority.
$200/hr compared to $500/hr is a huge difference, but if I want to be seen with an escort in public I choose model material, or at least 8+ when it comes to an overall appearance score.
To be honest, I wish we as entertainers could rate & review clients. I am sure many gents would get a discount for having great hygiene, being attractive, respectful, generous, dressing nice, athletic body, &/or their ability to please a woman. I prefer men who love DATY, but it is not a deal breaker. lol
Smile for me. Sharing is caring. we are all mature adults, so we can agree to disagree.
You are far from wrong and I would agree with your response.
Hobbyists should be rated maybe on a separate section of TER. It would be a very interesting section to read. And my guess is that if hobbyists were to be rated, we all would improve our performance in your presence! Nothing like tear and compare - just like there is nothing like competition. We should all be trying to be better in our attitudes and our dealings with our providers. We're lucky to have each and everyone of you!
This topic brings up the concern of writing a review that might be critical of a provider.
I want to be honest and provide info for fellow hobbiests, but by doing so, do I mark myself as a potential 'low-grader' and risk not seeing someone in the future?
Xoxo Sheila
Hobbyists give low scores at times and others give high ones.
Also some low scoring hobbyists, give other providers high scores after their dates at times too.
It should be the providers overall body of reviews, that says everything about her business.
We can see the difference, between the good and bad providers.
Also the people posting real and fake reviews.
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This thread caught my eye because I'm finding myself impacted in a different way than mentioned here.
As a "seasoned" age gentleman with long-term physical/medical challenges, I seek occasional interludes where my primary desires are a). polite/respectful GFE provider b). intimate caressing c). DFK d). decent massage and, if I "feel up to it," a basic HJ (I'm also a sucker for big breasts!).
Any lady that provides me with this I want to award a 9 or 10 review rating.
However, my reviews get rejected because they do not specially describe full-service intercourse, bbbj, cim, etc. were included.
I was informed by the "TER police" they would only publish my reviews if I lowered my ratings to a "7" (even though I felt I received service deserving of a 9 or 10).
Luckily, I have seen a few ladies on my Vegas visits who treated me fantastic (Kellie Sinz, Brianna Wildman, her friend Darla and Teedra Diora) & truly deserve a 9 or 10 and I refuse to lower my scores to a 7..
But I've stopped doing reviews because I couldn't give them the 9 or 10 ratings they made the effort to deserve.
Just this week, I have reached out to a couple of new ladies about a GFE outcall to the hotel I plan to be staying and they initially responded they are available to see me. But then I received a follow-up message that they read my past reviews and now refuse to see me due to my "low scores." No need to name them as I would be the first one to remind ladies to "protect their brand." But it sure hurts and puts a crimp in my visits to Vegas !! Thank you for letting me vent, VR
You should never be pressured into giving high scores.
It should be based on a provider earning it.
So all businesses get reviews based on there customer service.
If she has high scores, then why can't she back up those scores with you?
This town has some of the best providers.
It sounds like more upfront communication might help you in the future.
Just explain your situation, before she even checks out your reviews.
I am sorry that happened to you.
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I think you missed his point. He actually wanted to give higher scores (no pressure to give them). He was not allowed to give them by TER, which ended up screwing him over by providers not wanting to see him. In essense, TER was responsible for him being blacklisted.
I did not miss the point and agree with you.
So to avoid this in the future.
He should mention this, in the beginning.
Then the provider, can know the issue with his reviews upfront.
She can make a decision on all the facts and not just low scores.
It's always two sides to a story.
OK, then strange wording on your initial reply. In particular, the part about pressuring into giving higher scores. And he could have simply replied back to the provider who explained why she didn't want to see him. The fact that you're saying he has to explain his scores every time he contacts a provider is really no different than "pressuring into giving higher scores" since you're implying he's being pressured to explain his scores. Do you understand that?
You need to read the whole thread again.
So do you understand that yourself??
My responses was about him being upfront and honest about his low scores.
Then the provider can make her own decision on everything.
This had nothing to due with pressure for high review scores on either side.
Also it was nothing confusing about that point or wording.
Some times it's other reasons for low scores, that has nothing to do with hurting her business!
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