besides all the obvious activities during a private encounter, for me,   one is hearing the sounds of a woman's pleasure.   not talking about dirty talk, although thats nice,  rather just the natural sounds that a woman can and hopefully does make when enjoying her partner.    i find that very erotic and truly helps with my performance.    

see video as an example.    so ....... whats something besides the obvious that's important you ?  guys and girls .. ok to the girls we know and its something in his wallet  LOL  teasing.