First, let me say Welcome.  Second, you are already taking the first step by joining the sites you have listed. Third, don't worry about your appearance.  Most of the people you will encounter act professional, as long as you do your homework (i.e.-Try to avoid bp).  You've join these sites, now use them and see what appeals to you.  Look thru the providers profiles and see if you their menu caters to you.  You can find out a lot of information just doing this part of the homework.  I am like you and a bit shy and a majority of my life I was overweight (Pretty close to your build but +15lbs, now I'm under 200).  Make contact with some of the providers and see if they appeal to you.  Don't be shy and not make contact, you can always use email if you like (I see a lot of providers going this route).  My first time with a provider, they can tell I was nervous in my voice.  Once she got there, she took it from there.  The provider will cater to you (within their boundaries) and take it from there once the doors are closed.  And this is the most important rule I suggest to you. RELAX AND ENJOY YOURSELF!  Now, I'm sure some of the fine providers are going to give you their special welcome as the only way they can on this thread and leave you some messages.  In closing I will tell you Good Luck and have Fun!

Most ladies are not going to be all that concerned about your weight or how good looking you are.  As long as you are clean, polite, and a gentlemen, you should be fine.  Do your research and try and pick out a few that you think would be a good "fit" with you and then contact them a week or two out and get something set up with one of them.  

If you are timid or nervous, just be honest and tell them.  It's ok to tell them this is your first time "doing this."  Most of these ladies have seen it all already anyway, and they know EXACTLY how to make you feel VERY comfortable around them.    

Once they get in the room with you, just relax and have great time.

Good luck!!

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Char xo

Posted By: shayera

Well not quite..  
I'm coming to Vegas at around the 24-30 of May, and I'm assembling my courage and wits to the point of actually thinking about doing something about my fantasies

I figure you guys and gals on this board might be the best to consult for possible providers catering to my particulars.. It's not that I'm (too) strange.. It's just that I'm very new at this..
I've prepared well already, signing up for this site and P411, so that part is done.

Thing is I'm overweight (125 Kg/275 pounds) on a 186cm /6 feet frame.. so I'm not Jabba the hut.. but an athlete.. I'm not..

Also I'm kinda timid around women, until I get to know them, at which point I'm usually well into the 'friend zone' making my experience slight, thus my almost cherry

Ideally I'll find a nice gfe provider that'll turn tigress on the sheets and leave me like a horse that's been rode hard to the ground '

Of course I also have some ideas about appearance, costuming and what I hope to experience..
But I figure that the novella of text above is enough for starters.

So what do y'all think, which directions would you point a newbie towards ?

Im not sure if its Leopard or Cheetah.!! I Do Love Makin You Pop( pun intended) NEW PICTURE

I have a few Pictures of me Poppin cherries (lollipops) from November 2011
the picture below is Me.. A few weeks ago and I can assure you I enjoy the company of strong men.. I can make anyone feel comfortable from the minute I arrive..

I will back on the Saddle that week..Early bookings appreciated and receivea an incentive for VIP TER gentlemen and couples..

If you find Im not your cup of tea..I DO understand..
I have many sexy friends and I can help you via PM or Email..
for now..Ill say "here kitty kitty
sensually yours
Lorena De Leon aka Lovely Lorena

I'm no pro but as others have mentioned, your appearance isn't going to be a huge issue. I've only met one lady but will be in LV at the end of May and am certainly looking to meet another.

My suggestion is what I did. Once I found a lady I was interested in meeting, I did mention in my email to her that I am a big dude (about your weight and a few inches taller). I didn't really think this would be a big deal at all but I did it to give her an out if it was something she was uncomfortable with. (It also made me a little less nervous)

Thankfully, she wasn't and a great time was had.

Email me: [email protected]

I too am actually on the timid side in my personal life, so i can understand this. But I found I tend to bring out the smile in other timid people.

I invite you to come visit my site and take a roll of the dice with this Vegas Pin Up

always,
LaRue McCay

Awww

You are all are so kind.
Good advice, friendly (and yummy) repliers

I'll be be checking profiles and reviews, and those tasty erhm informative websites

meoww

Heavy-duty therapy, both BEFORE and AFTER your visit!
ENJOY LOL!

Make sure you are a TER VIP and read the reviews of the ladies that catch your eye to see if they would be somebody you would be comfortable with to get you past the:

"Also I'm kinda timid around women, until I get to know them, at which point I'm usually well into the 'friend zone' making my experience slight, thus my almost cherry "

And what I mean by that is paying attention to the little details you can pick up in the reviews such as what they like to wear, drink, their demeanor, etc... You can also pull a search on the threads using their handle to get a hint of personality from various correspondence on TER. There has been more then a couple of times that some really cool answers from some fantastic ladies participating on these boards were the main reason I wanted to meet up with them.

Personally.. for me... I've found these details to be some of the most important parts so that I feel absolutely comfortable in a new encounter which is so important to having an overall fantastic time.

There have been times when I met up with some of the fantastic ladies in this town after doing the above and I felt like I already knew them.... and ended up having an absolutely fantastic time.

Best Wishes!

Posted By: shayera

Well not quite..  
I'm coming to Vegas at around the 24-30 of May, and I'm assembling my courage and wits to the point of actually thinking about doing something about my fantasies

I figure you guys and gals on this board might be the best to consult for possible providers catering to my particulars.. It's not that I'm (too) strange.. It's just that I'm very new at this..
I've prepared well already, signing up for this site and P411, so that part is done.

Thing is I'm overweight (125 Kg/275 pounds) on a 186cm /6 feet frame.. so I'm not Jabba the hut.. but an athlete.. I'm not..

Also I'm kinda timid around women, until I get to know them, at which point I'm usually well into the 'friend zone' making my experience slight, thus my almost cherry

Ideally I'll find a nice gfe provider that'll turn tigress on the sheets and leave me like a horse that's been rode hard to the ground '

Of course I also have some ideas about appearance, costuming and what I hope to experience..
But I figure that the novella of text above is enough for starters.

So what do y'all think, which directions would you point a newbie towards ?