"Gonorrhea is transmitted by oral, vaginal, or anal sex." "Gonorrhea can be passed even if the penis or tongue does not go all the way into the vagina, mouth or rectum, and even if body fluids are not exchanged. If penetration or body fluids are exchanged, the risk of infection may increase."  http://www.ashastd.org/stdfaqs/gonorrhea.html#how ----------------------------------------------------------------"Chlamydia can be passed even if the penis or tongue does not go all the way into the vagina, mouth or rectum, and even if body fluids are not exchanged." "Eye infections in adults may result when discharge caries the disease into the eye during sex or hand-to-eye contact." http://www.ashastd.org/stdfaqs/chlamydia.html -------------------------------------------------------------"Hepatitis A (HAV) is transmitted primarily through oral contact with feces (oral-fecal contact). This includes contaminated food or water sources and sexual contact, especially oral-anal sex." http://www.ashastd.org/stdfaqs/hepa.html ----------------------------------------------------------------"HBV (Hep B)may also be transmitted in rare cases: Horizontally (oral exposure to infected secretions such as saliva). Saliva can be a means of transmission through bites; however, other types of exposure to saliva, including kissing, are unlikely ways of transmission." http://www.ashastd.org/stdfaqs/hepb.html ----------------------------------------------------------------"Herpes is transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact. this occurs when a contagious area comes into contact with a mucous membrane, primarily the mouth and genitals" http://www.ashastd.org/hrc/educate.html ----------------------------------------------------------------Most germs that cause NGU can be passed during sex (vaginal, anal or oral) that involves direct mucous membrane contact with an infected person. These germs can be passed even if the penis or tongue does not go all the way into the vagina, mouth or rectum, and even if body fluids are not exchanged. http://www.ashastd.org/stdfaqs/ngu.html ----------------------------------------------------------------Syphilis is passed during vaginal, oral and anal sex, even if there is no sexual penetration.  http://www.ashastd.org/stdfaqs/syphilis.html ----------------------------------------------------------------Sorry to have been the bearer of bad news...XOXOOctapussy