K-girls

While I don't really expect it
team_rocket_qwerty 2920 reads
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1 / 68

...helps your fellow mongers to save money and time and is one of the main purposes of review sites such as this one.

 

Withholding information or keeping it to a very small group of people, does NOT help and in fact HURTS your fellow mongers. It also may hurt your business if a large portion of positive reviews is considered fake.  

 
Also, from the link below:

 

 
"A 2017 study by Power Reviews once again confirms the growing consumer dependence on ratings and reviews.

Today, 97% of consumers read product reviews before making a purchase decision. 89% of them consider online reviews to be an essential resource in the process.

On the flip side, 85% of consumers look for negative reviews in order to make informed purchase decisions. And this number skyrockets to 91% among consumers from the ages of 18-29.

Why?

Because bad reviews give customers a sense of the worst-case scenario. They want to know what can go wrong to understand just how much it will matter to them.

Too many positive reviews can seem fake to some shoppers, so you have to watch out."

 

85% of people look for negative reviews to make a more informed decision. This is quite opposite to what some of people on here keep saying about mongers who don't read negative reviews. Bu bu but this is different...no, it isn't. TER and review sites are exactly consumer reviews.

ShorelineAmpVIP 168 reads
posted
2 / 68

Understand where you're coming from... I'm all for giving candid reviews covering the good, bad, ugly etc. of an experience with a provider. One of the problems with an open board is with providers with big egos who have personal vendettas against those who do not reward them with stellar reviews. Thankfully this is less prevalent in the K-girl world than it is in dealing with the overblown egos of your typical American provider, but due to previous unsettling experiences I no longer post reviews on open boards (i.e. where providers have ready access). However I'm happy to exchange 411 in PMs with those able and willing to reciprocate.

SLAmpVIP

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 166 reads
posted
3 / 68

reliable information is MORE important, and the place to exchange that info is by way of writing a comprehensive review.  Most reviews just list the services the guy got.  The menu is already in the profile, so why regurgitate the menu.  What I want to know (and very few reviews provide) is what is the girl LIKE, not what she did.  When you did something, or said something, what was HER reaction.  Was she mostly submissive, mostly aggressive, or a combination?  Does she have a sense of humor?  Was she playful?  What is her personality like?  Was she engaging or did you have to pull the conversation out of her?  These are all ingredients in evaluating GFE service.  Its supposed to be "how much did she react like a real life girlfriend would in creating your GFE fantasy session?"  Her kissing style?  Blow job style? Otherwise, just cut and paste this generic review . . . . .

 
Opened door, she's hot, LFK, DFK, took off clothes, mouthwash, shower, preview, back to bedroom, BBBJ, DATY, more BBBJ, CG, RCG, ACG, mish, DG, shower, dressed, left.             (Cut and past this in the juicy details section and it will save a couple of minutes over typing it out yourself - Lol)

 
A kgirl GFE session involves both physics (sex) and chemistry (social connection).   Most reviews talk about the physics, but not the chemistry.  I would love it if TER had a one-click response (similar to the "like" button, that specifically asks, "Was this review helpful in choosing a provider to see?"  When it comes to Kgirl reviews, the scant info provided in many reviews does nothing to help me or any other monger make a decision up or down on seeing a girl.

team_rocket_qwerty 144 reads
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4 / 68

I agree about details, although I see nothing wrong with listing what you liked and what you didn't like. Listing which services you got is largely redundant, agreed. The reviews that describe step by step routines are also largely redundant. We know blue toast and shower routines, etc. Unless there's something special or something bad about shower (killer preview routine or stalling prolonged shower) I rarely mention it.  

 

With that said, my initial post was mostly about posting average/below average reviews in particular. I even brought up an article talking about negative reviews and how 85% of people look at them to understand the worst case scenario.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 149 reads
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5 / 68

...They deflected and distracted from it by changing the subject and going off on a tangent.  At least they haven't personally attacked you yet.  Oh wait, CDL HAS attacked you personally when you dared challenge his authority:

 
"This is typical millennial hubris"
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/k-girl-113/this-is-typical-millennial-hubris----18368?frmSearch=1#18368

 
"You have successfully made the transition from naivete to ignorance."
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/k-girl-113/you-have-successfully-made-----18688?frmSearch=1#18688

 
Here's CDL when someone dares challenge the K-groupthink of this board:

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 157 reads
posted
6 / 68

...together as if they had the same trait.  Gee, what if someone lumped ALL K-girls together as all being the same?

 
TER has been around for 20+ years, 350,000+ provider profiles, 1,500,000 reviews.  Where are all these "'American' providers with big egos who have personal vendettas against those who do not reward them with stellar reviews?"

 
Why don't you do what CDL does?  He says no one can connect his handle to his reviews.  Maybe he can mentor you on how to do that.  Then you will be able to write "candid reviews covering the good, bad, ugly etc. of an experience with a provider" without fear of personal vendettas.

 
Here's a better idea - get yourself a TER alias.  Then write all your reviews under that alias.  Then "American" providers with big egos won't be able to have personal vendetta against you.  Don't know how to do it?  Ask this alias:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/searchbyreviewerResults.asp?MemberName=team%5Frocket%5Fqwerty

 
Your excuse for not writing candid reviews is bullshit.  Your trashing of "American" providers is bullshit.

team_rocket_qwerty 220 reads
posted
7 / 68

Well, while I understand your sentiment, I'm not sure I agree with the conclusion.

 

TER, in particular, provides one with an alias and ways to circumvent the issue. Yes, it doesn't fully solve the issue, and this means in cases of non-kgirl biz and low-volume providers, it means you have to omit details to 'hide' from providers with vendettas...I  do sympathize a lot, but for me, it just gives me more motivation for sharing with others. Bad OR good. Going private is exactly what the providers or agencies want. Create an illusion of higher quality than the reality would indicate. And for kgirls, with how many reviews they get and the amount of volumes they handle and the language barrier, it's going to be extremely difficult for them to connect you to the review. Serving 50-70 customers a week, cant remember most of them.

 

The reason why I say negative reviews are more important is that while potentially missing out on a great girl because of lack of good intel about her strong point is ALSO certainly frustrating, there's not a guarantee you'd have a great experience.

Having a bad or barely average experience that could've been prevented with a detailed review from someone else, is always worse IMO.

team_rocket_qwerty 156 reads
posted
8 / 68

Come on now, are you really gonna act like indie providers don't do this shit ? The amount of stories I heard on this board alone, let alone some other boards, and from some fellow mongers who see non-asian providers...

Hell, I was on NS (a big nor cal site), it was more provider-oriented because they were the paying sector. I've seen how providers would lose their shit over an average (not even BAD) review. A lot of indy providers wouldn't even verify those, because it would be convenient. They'd just verify the good ones.

 

Don't make it an american vs kgirl thing. A ton of providers of ALL kinds are extremely touchy when it comes to less than stellar review. While I understand - their business directly depends on them - reviews are a binary thing. Either they exist for evaluation or they should be abolished altogether. In a state when they are only accepted when glowing, they are useless. Vouches that say the provider isnt a ROB or stings or pure scams, aren't really reviews. They're vouches.

team_rocket_qwerty 117 reads
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9 / 68

And now your post is very likely to attract an endless flaming war and will further detract from my point...neither CDL nor Slam have personally attacked me here yet. CDLs post did stray off the initial topic, but other than that we were having a civil discussion. Let's try to keep it this way.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 146 reads
posted
10 / 68

Of course it does.  But SLAMP made it sound like ALL "indie" providers have "personal vendettas" if they get a bad review when he referred to them as "typical American providers."

 
Trashing of "indie" providers is a longstanding practice on this board.  It isn't enough for K-fanboys to rave about K-girls, they also have to trash "indies."  It started with Harpman and his minions who called indies: "...overage, overpriced, overweight , bad attitude second rate so called home grown indies."  And CDL is proudly carrying on Harpman's tradition of attacking "indies."  Just ask him - I'm sure he'll be glad to post the pic of an "indie" I complimented.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 166 reads
posted
12 / 68

before mine in his first post on that thread, and I responded to him,  then he doubled down without a link  to a single  post of mine that supported his attack.  As one of those named in his attack, don't you find it ironic that he comes on the GD board to complain about political feuds on the P & R board.  I have no idea why he included me.  I doubt he's going to find ANY posts of mine where I make a political comment on a board other than P & R to back up his spurious claim.  

 
I must have bitch-slapped him over something and didn't realize it, so he makes a false claim about me with no links.  At least you take links out of context like you did  on this thread and try  to make them fit your false narrative.  Sometimes I'm too lazy to call you out on them.  Most of them fail and don't need a response.  

 
At least you, Laffy and I all use our real usernames and don't hide behind an alias like this worm to mount an attack.   That's total lack of integrity not to mention not having a pair of  balls.  From now on, he'll be Pink-Panther to me.  it's more fitting to his delicate sensibilities. TER is no place for sissies.

-- Modified on 8/21/2020 4:59:38 PM

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 210 reads
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13 / 68

...to attack him.  I merely posted a link from another thread, yet you decided to attack Black-Panther: "I must have bitch-slapped him;" "this worm;" "lack of integrity;" "not having a pair of balls;" "Pink-Panther;" "delicate sensibilities;" "sissies."

 
Look how you characterize his post in response to yours - you say he "doubled down" and you twice call his post an "attack."  Doubled down on what - his advice to you?  And he didn't attack you in any way at all.  Did he call you any names like you did in your post?  He was advising you to be the bigger man - to not fling poo like the other monkeys who carry their feuds from P&R to the other boards.

 
Even if you DID bitch slap him at some point, he wasn't attacking you when he gave you that excellent advice.  The worst thing he said was that you exhibited "grade school behavior."  Big fucking deal.  There was no call to attack him and call him all those names here on the K-girl board.  If it bothered you so much, you should have replied to his advice when he posted it.  

 
You have done exactly what you were NOT supposed to do, even though your vitriol was directed at Black-Panther and not me.  What's the point?  If you don't agree with his advice, simply say so and state your reasons why - don't attack him personally.  You didn't reply to Black-Panther in the thread on the General board where he gave you that advice, but you respond to him here?  And you go on a personal rant against him on THIS board?  Makes no sense.  

 
And if you think Black-Panther and I are friends, you're very much mistaken.  About 7 months ago, I can modestly say I gave him one of the worst ass-kickings in the history of P&R.  It's near the bottom of this thread:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/politics-and-religion-39/trump-hates-windmills-because-among-other-reasons-347915?page=

 
It starts with my post: "Thank you conservatives!! You've proved once and for all..."
After he took that beating, Black-Panther has only posted 8 times in the last 7 months on TER.  There's no love lost between us.  I just recognized the good advice he gave you.  You should have taken it in the manner in which it was offered instead of attacking him with personal insults.  You think anyone who disagrees with you and offers some constructive criticism is "attacking" you.  SMH.  All you have succeeded in doing is showing the K-girl board who you really are.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 173 reads
posted
14 / 68

Reviews can be (and usually are) gamed.  This applies to all review for everything from Amazon merchandise to escorts.  
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A negative review might be honest, or it might be from a competitor, or it might be from someone with a revenge motive.
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Similarly a positive review might be honest, might be a fake from the provider or a fanboi, or in TER's case someone just trying to scam free VIP days.
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The disincentive to post negative reviews is discussed by others above.  But are they essential?  I think probably not.  Even if there are only positive reviews you can judge by the number of positive reviews versus their time in service and also by their general content.  Consistently poor performers are not going to generate lots of positive reviews.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 166 reads
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15 / 68

I do think a relatively good "Hounds of Baskerville" type argument could be made that makes a similar case. A bad provider just not getting reviews will always be seen as questionable and the longs she stays around without reviews the stronger the signal "look elsewhere for better" gets.

Going a long with that, I suggest everyone (and most do) treat any given review as some small size sample in the statistical sense and so place a lot of skepticism on it's validity. You want to see a relatively large set of reviews and then look both as who is reviewing and the overall rating average from all the reviews.  

But, as with the reviews themselves (two honest reviews can diverge significantly for the same provider due to a number of factors even when the "performance" was identical from the providers honest perspective) what people want from other reviewers is also a range. For me, the critical reviews are rip-off/robbery, up sell is the norm and excessive bait-and-switch/completely unrepresentative pics. Other than that, reviews from reviewers who have enough reviews of girls I've also seen so I can assess their reviews in an informed way no matter what the reviews say I assuming any new girl I schedule with is a risk, is YMMV and is a case that is not far off TOFTT.

team_rocket_qwerty 196 reads
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16 / 68

I'm not sure what is meant by 'essential'. A negative review is very different from a general lack of reviews. There are people who will take a shot at someone with very few reviews, but many of the same people probably will not take this shot if there are 2-3 negative reviews that detail why they're negative. Yes, a kgirl provider whos been around for a few months and has very few reviews is sometimes a tell by itself, but not necessarily. I've met providers with few reviews who were great. Also met providers with few review who were not great.

 
Let's put it another way. If you had an average or subpar or outright bad session, what reason is there to not write a review about it ? If you ignore things such as making the provider 'feel bad' or potential BL, what is the reason to not do so on a review site ?

 
I'm a simple man, I receive and experience X, I go and put it up on the review site, talking about it. If it's good, it's a good review, if it's bad, it's a bad review.

Here, let me ask you a question. Are positive reviews 'essential' and how are they structurally different from negative ones ?

team_rocket_qwerty 155 reads
posted
17 / 68

I think my main issue with this approach is that you're looking more for a vouch and not detailed review of the girl. That is fine, but I would think a review site such as this one is more than a vouch collection... some details such as implants or tats or piercing is a instant no-go for some mongers, and it's also something that they are looking at in reviews. Vouches aren't enough for htat.

 
Yes, I agree - with escorts you find on backpage, you want to have vouches that she isnt just going to take your money and run. Or have her accomplice treat you with a pump to your head.

 
But in context of kgirls, you know you aren't going to be robbed. Bait and switch happens, especially in shittier orgs, but not too often- doesn't happen almost ever in known orgs or when you're a regular.

I'd argue vouching is near useless for kgirls. But the looks quality (subjective ofc) and service quality as well as details are important and different for kgirls. This is where differentiation happens. If you put all similar scores for all kgirls, it really helps no one. imo.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 160 reads
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18 / 68

Detailed reviews, especially as described by CDL, as opposed to simple menu lists are valuable. I have been unable to find any real value in negative reviews.

 

In my experience, and I’ve been doing this for a very long time, negative kgirl reviews have one outcome. The girl simply disappears very quickly. She or the org will change her name and she’ll be back with no reviews.

 

I quit posting negative reviews long ago because of their simple lack of utility. IMO, they are a waste of time and a pointless exercise in negativity that I just don’t need in my life.  It’s easier and just as quick to wait and let her lack of business or lack of positive reviews to do the job for you.  

 

If the girl actually has issues, I will typically tell her. And, if I think it’s necessary, I’ll also tell the org. I’ve found that both orgs and girls accept the constructive feedback and do their best to improve. Or, big surprise, the girl either disappears or they change her name and maybe even location and you’re back at square one.

team_rocket_qwerty 179 reads
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19 / 68

" The girl simply disappears very quickly. She or the org will change her name and she’ll be back with no reviews."

How is this bad ? In fact, this goes against your topic title, which is "bad kgirl reviews are useless". If bad reviews cause the girl to change her name, this means the bad reviews are doing the job they are supposed to be doing - preventing people from wasting money and time on subpar product.

Your post title kinda contradicts your content.

 

And we can report girls under new names so they are merged (at least, here on TER) and speak about them being rebrands freely.  And honestly, the whole process of rebranding after negative review(s), is basically trying to game the system and a dishonest practice.

 
"I’ve found that both orgs and girls accept the constructive feedback and do their best to improve. "

This is not the case from what everything I've seen. Most orgs don't care about criticism from majority of mongers, and most girls don't alter their service. The girl that was my WOAT experience is still giving out the same WOAT service and experiences according to the reviews. She doesn't care a single bit. Nor do the orgs care.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 175 reads
posted
20 / 68

Umm. Did you even read past the headline?

 
Please reread and try again.

team_rocket_qwerty 167 reads
posted
21 / 68

Here's a good example.

A relatively new girl has 3 reviews over 14 days of working so far. They are positive, but generic. One of them reads like an ad and is likely from a shill/org affiliate ad attempt.  

Let us also assume I don't have access to private forums or vip bros pms and make decisions solely on reviews.  

Does this tell me that the girl is not good? Not really. It tells me there isn't a critical review and I can't make out how she is without sampling myself.  

 

Let's now say there is a critical review, that tells me she's chubby, older looking with implants but is a dt champ.  

It's neither a laundry list nor is it super long penthouse novel. However, the amount of information here is large enough to make more informed decisions for many mongers. Those who don't like implants won't see her. Those who don't like milfs won't see her. Those who don't like chubbier bodies won't see her. Those who like service or dt will see her. Even though it might be a critical or negative review, it helps a lot of people here.  

 

Thus, I don't see how a negative or average review is "useless". Useless for orgs? Probably. Since some of them offer discounts for keeping mouths shut, a bad review is not good for them. It's the way its supposed to work. Useless for mongers? Lol, no way.  

 

Sure, she can change her name but you're hardly ever starting from step one. Over 90% of girls use same pics after rebranding. And friendly people will point out rebrands on forum and review sites such as this one. And once you get who she was before, you can actually go back and read the negative review - it will still be there!

GaGambler 142 reads
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22 / 68

You say that most of the time bad reviews usually result in the girl disappearing immediately thereafter, if that is the case than I have to conclude it means that the review system actually works. I WANT bad providers to either up their game or get out of the business and if they reappear under a new name, I would hope that they would be immediately outed the moment the first guy who recognizes her from her previous name.

 
Personally, especially where it comes to K-Girls, negative reviews are really the only ones that I consider of much value, but where I live at least it's rare that a K-Girl gives bad service and in the looks department, except for the AMPs of course even the "older" ones are still in their 30's and while I don't see many (or any) 9-10's in the looks department, I haven't found many homely ones either. Now where it comes to Thai providers, there are a LOT of "Butterfaces" , but I suppose that's a topic for another thread.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 152 reads
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23 / 68

You are misquoting. For example, try to find the way I described the comparative time frames to bad reviews and lack thereof.

 
But you don’t have a pattern of only reading what you want to see. So, you’re entitled to a good bit of slack.  

 
Still, you are free to believe whatever you wish.

GaGambler 134 reads
posted
24 / 68

Please don't answer that question, first off it's a rhetorical question and secondly your answer itself is sure to be a lie as well.

 
Not only did you NOT kick Black-Panthers ass, he most certainly has a LOT more than 8 posts in the last seven months.

 
Can't you please go to the Porn Star board where you claim they like you, NOBODY wants you here.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 190 reads
posted
25 / 68

Now you want to define “bad review” just to fit your purposes.

 
If you want to actually discuss this instead of soapboxing, provide a single definition of a bad review that isn’t so general that it is meaningless.  

 
I was talking about an actual career killing bad review. Because that’s what I think of when someone says “that’s a bad review”. Sounds like you want to talk about anything that’s not a glowing review as if that is a bad review. It’s cool if that’s how you want to define it.  

 
But, please, put up the goal posts clearly so we all know exactly what you’re targeting. You seem to be claiming a lot of territory under the term “bad review” that not everyone would agree qualifies as such.

 
And, yes, you started this thread talking about average and bad experiences. But you’re responding to my post that is only about bad reviews and trying to extend it to something other than what I was talking about. So, maybe you still haven’t actually read my actual response and are just soapboxing again?

-- Modified on 8/22/2020 8:29:15 PM

team_rocket_qwerty 186 reads
posted
26 / 68

I literally quoted your sentences that were well past the "headline".  

I don't need to try again - I asked the questions I wanted to ask and made points I wanted made.

If your argument is that bad reviews are bad because the girl simply re-brands, I believe I addressed this in my post.

team_rocket_qwerty 155 reads
posted
27 / 68

Posted By: GaGambler
Re: I just read the your entire post and I have to agree with Rocket
You say that most of the time bad reviews usually result in the girl disappearing immediately thereafter, if that is the case than I have to conclude it means that the review system actually works. I WANT bad providers to either up their game or get out of the business and if they reappear under a new name, I would hope that they would be immediately outed the moment the first guy who recognizes her from her previous name.  
 
Exactly. You read it just like I did. But watch the accusations fly instead of actually discussing the point being made.

 

The concept of "bad reviews are useless because the girl will re-brand and come back with new profile" is paradoxical and self-contradicting, because this means the review did its job and then some. Once the girl is identified as re-brand, and then she is traced to her past handles, people will trust that review even more. Over 90% of girls use the same pics and it's trivial in many cases to identify such re-brands.

 

And "negative review" doesn't have to be a scathing review either, could just be a critical review that concludes that something was mediocre. I will challenge the whole "one outcome" statement too, because I haven't seen many girls leave or rebrand right after some lower reviews. In fact, in the bay there are plenty of kgirls who hover around or below 7, and while some of them might re-brand sometimes, many of them don't. Jenna in SJ, for example, is averaging 6.5/6.4, she hasn't re-branded once in years.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 125 reads
posted
28 / 68

respond on the GD board.  The truth is that I COULDN'T respond because Admin closed the thread.   Once again, you  pull words out of context to make them seem ominous.  Still as intellectually dishonest as ever, aren't you?  

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 160 reads
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29 / 68

That's what MediaAdmin and Black-Panther were talking about in that thread on the General Board.  But you are such a butt-hurt hateful asshole that you carry it over to every other board on TER (except the Newbie board).

 
Your hatred is such that you look for the tiniest thing to call me out over.  What I posted was:
"After he took that beating, Black-Panther has only posted 8 times in the last 7 months on TER."  

 
It was clearly a typo.  It was supposed to say: "After he took that beating, Black-Panther has only posted 8 times in the last 7 months on P&R."  You found that Black-Panther has posted 254 times on ALL OF TER since I kicked his ass.  Do you really think I would lie about the difference between 8 and 254?  I'm not CDL - I don't lie about something that is so easily disprovable.

 
What is your major malfunction, numbnuts?  Why can't you keep you hatred confined to the Politics board?  Is it because you are admittedly "...both a high school and college dropout?"  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/dont-feel-alone-in-your-lack-of-formal-education-600984?frmSearch=1#600984

 
Or is it because you are "both a binge and a functional (sic) alcoholic?"
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/ok-in-that-case-substitute-me-everywhere-i-said-you-970125?frmSearch=1#970125
BTW, the word is "functioning," not "functional."  You might have known that if you weren't a high school dropout and/or an alcoholic.

 
In he future, please try to confine your vitriolic comments towards me to the Politics board.
Thank you in advance for your anticipated cooperation.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 181 reads
posted
30 / 68

The failure of the thought experiment here is that simply changing the the "critical" to "non-critical" in your description of the review produced the exact same results. So the value is not about critical or non-critical -- by which I think everyone is reading you as saying low scoring review is the critical one -- but really about neutral informational content rather than the assessment of positive or negative by the review.

So you don't really make any argument about negative, critical (in the sense you seem to be using that term) or average (again, apparently in a scoring sense) reviews but about what information is provide that can clearly be presented as purely neutral and informational.  

So the question really comes down to how much is this about the information and informed selection based on reviews and how much about fitting with your scoring system?

MauiDiver 45 Reviews 175 reads
posted
31 / 68

"Product" ...  Really?

You would have been a very happy slave owner I think.  Cruel but happy.

GaGambler 145 reads
posted
32 / 68

When someone else does it, they are uneducated, a liar, a moron, or all of the above. What a lying fucking hypocrite you are.

 
and the only thing you "beat" is your meat, and I doubt your old fat ass is even capable of that simple feat. No wonder you hang around a board where EVERYONE dislikes you, it's the only entertainment you can still get on a board devoted to something you aren't physically capable of doing any more. Why don't you just take up a new hobby like the rest of the Geritol crowd? I bet you would be great at stamp collecting.

 
OH BTW, yes I do think you would lie about something so easily disproved, you do so all the fucking time. Why should I think otherwise?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 183 reads
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33 / 68

the irony in HIM telling YOU to keep your hatred on the politics board.  He is exempt from the rules he wants to impose on every one else.  I'm surprised being a board Nazi comes so easily to him.  Maybe he's descended from a long line of snitches?  BLPOS meltdown in 3 . . . .2 . . . .1 . . . .

GaGambler 171 reads
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34 / 68

Leave it to a lying POS like him to link a thread where it was HE who got his ass kicked and proved how it's him that can't stand civil conversation.  

 
The thread he links has 2 dozen civil comments between people that almost never get along until he got all butt hurt that we weren't talking about what HE wanted to talk about, as if anyone owns a thread and can DEMAND where it leads to. Once he started whining it was BP who put him in his place, not the other way around. Once again proving not only what a liar he is, but just how inept he is at lying despite all the practice he gets.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 176 reads
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35 / 68

I don't think most providers think mentioning their implants, tats or piercings regard that as a negative.  Most of them are rather proud of their enhancements.  

team_rocket_qwerty 177 reads
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36 / 68

I'm buying a service that is sold and reviewing the said service as a product, yes. I also review the services of pro CMTs, auto mechanics, doctors, and so on . Services they all sell as a product. Imagine that.

LOL at you comparing this to slavery, the gall is hilarious. I am not reviewing a person, and I never review any person. I'm reviewing the service they're selling, willfully selling. And if they're not selling it willfully, perhaps you should address your slave tag to orgs ?

 

And wait, I thought you were avoiding me ? Hard to do so, huh ?

team_rocket_qwerty 161 reads
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My initial post talks about negative reviews, like you've noted " you started this thread talking about average and bad experiences". I consider a "negative" review anything that is non-glowing generic reviews that are abundant here on donkey and elsewhere.

 

I already defined what a bad review means in my book - in context of TER, it would be any review under rating of 7. In context of donkey, it would be 3 stars or under. Negative or bad reviews don't mean one star reviews on yelp.

 

Now that I said my criteria, the burden is on you to define what a "bad review" means in your book. I don't know what a "career killing bad review" is, but if such review is honest, then - again - it does its job if the girl rebrands quickly, as you claim.  

The worse such review is, the more important it is for mongers to know about it, so as to waste money and time, don't you think ?

MauiDiver 45 Reviews 180 reads
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Hard to avoid, admittedly yes.

I have the same problem with shit on the bottom of my shoe when walking through the barn.

team_rocket_qwerty 180 reads
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This is a very good question and point, Jensen. Thanks for addressing the actual point here.  This is a GREAT post.  

There are really two parts to this though.

One - information. This is what CDL talked about and I think this is what you are talking about. I wouldnt say 'neutral', but 'objective' instead. Objective or close to objective information. However, most glowing reviews simply don't include this information, many of them read like ads.  

 
Two - the part of negative/average/whatever that interprets such information. For example, I dont assign much weight to implants or not. However, there are mongers for whom its a make or break thing. In reviews, people compare kgirls to other kgirls, so the more a kgirl review will stray off the average, the assumption is the worse the grade will get. An older girl who's not in shape, with implants, with bad attitude and bad service is pretty much the worst case scenario the way I see it.

 

 I don't say you must score negative experiences. I'm simply saying that if you do get negative or average experiences, it's important to note them and not withhold this info, as they will help others. Others will interpret this info, maybe differently from you. But the info must get out. Especially if they're really bad, ie, the more mongers you think will dislike it along with you, the more important it is to share. The actual framing of the review and grade isn't that important (to me) - I think people who research and make decisions based on reviews, actually read reviews. The less redeeming qualities you list, the more likely that people will agree with your assessment.

 
So, to sum it up - my postulate is, the more that one feels they have a bad or average session, the more they should share the information with mongers about this session, publicly. A glowing review for a girl who is universally popular and loved with few outliers, isn't as important as a review for a girl who you felt might not be liked by many. But yes, getting information out there is more important than actual grade or whatever. However, if you just get information out there that this girl is old, bad shape, bad attitude and bad service and give a girl a glowing grade and recommendation, it would be weird for others.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 192 reads
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So, by your own admission, you weren’t responding to my post. You were just continuing your soapbox.

 
I appreciate your honesty.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 191 reads
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I'll start with the nice. Basically you're saying RTFM, or in other words read and follow the TER Review Guidelines. However you're including the keep the emotional response "If you feel" which then easily leads to a non-objective and somewhat biased report of the event. This is why the guideline suggest waiting a day or two before writing the review.

 
What I would add is that everyone should also go back and to a pluses and minuses mental exercise. However, when people focus on either the good or the bad the flip side of that coin seldom gets shared -- so that information you rightly point out is what people want shared ends up NOT being shared. So you end up a misleading review by stressing that "negative" or "average". Basically what you are really saying is report disappointed expectations without ever suggesting first critically evaluating the source of those expectations and how reasonable they were to begin with.

 
So my bitch here is probably best seen as a disagreement on your messaging regarding sharing information in reviews and not with than the fundamental goal: useful and as unbiased information as we can hope to get.

 
Now the "not nice" bit. I'm going to ask you why I should not see you as a bit hypocritical here with that last statement. Some guy acknowledges the provider is heavier and older than the ad and profile state; that she seems to be annoyed or not happy with something and did not give the level of service expected but still gives a "glowing" score. That you claim should be seen as weird. However a while back when we were discussing these issues I pointed to a review of a girl you had previously taken issue with a "shill" review for her.

 
The review I called to your attention was a 6/5 (IIRC). However, reading the review the guy repeatedly described the provider as gorgeous and drop dead gorgeous. Several times indicating that the services was good. However you did not see this as a problematic review. That certainly strikes me at least as weird and is actually a real case not some hypothetical one for the sake of argument. Do you still hold that someone describing the girl as DDG and giving a 6 for looks and the text implying he enjoyed the session and hand nothing to complain about offering up a 5 (or maybe 6) is really justified or even helpful to anyone?

team_rocket_qwerty 173 reads
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Well, let's see. I made a thread talking about negative reviews, citing an article that talked in-depth about negative reviews and how consumers approach them.

You replied to my thread talking about negative reviews.
I replied directly to your post, which in turn, again, was a direct response to my post.

 
If you were talking about something different than I was, it'd be up to you to specify this, don't you think ?

So no, I did respond DIRECTLY to your post.

team_rocket_qwerty 165 reads
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As you would say, *yawn*. I lost interest in ad hominem insults sometime in middle school.

What do you have left in your arsenal ? Calling me a woman-hater, just like you did to interval when he'd complain about quality ? LOL.  

Were you a slave owner in this review ? Did you "throw this girl under the bus"? Sounds exactly like a review I'm talking about, that warns people about wasting money.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/detail/whitney-review-by-mauidiver-1205264

 

What happened to this, maui ? What happened to actually providing information and not generic bullshit in you reviews ?

If that was actually you writing these lines, what happened ? You became VIP and sold out for perks and bells and whistles offered by orgs ?  

"To keep this short and to the point, I couldn't get out fast enough and wish I'd stayed home."
^^^^^
This is EXACTLY the type of reviews that are helpful to mongers and the type I'm talking about in my initial post.

team_rocket_qwerty 171 reads
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First, I thank you for avoiding needless hostility, unlike some others in this thread. I know it might be hard to do, but I applaud you for restraining yourself.

 
About first point- not sure I fully understand what you're talking about, but let me try to tackle this.

First, its not RTFM, because no one cares about the M here, as evidenced about our discussion of TER review grading system. If people don't respect that, then the manual is useless and might as well be used as TP.

Information as a whole is important, but Id argue information that denotes negative connection as opposed as positive, is more critical. That is not to say one should rush and pen a TER review right in the car after an average or below average session, but priority-wise, negative reviews should be higher up. They are less numerous and usually they correlate to others also not liking the particular provider. Therefore, they serve as good cautionary tales to others.

 
Obviously, orgs hate negative reviews. But this isnt about making them or girls feeling good, is it ? We are strictly discussing this from a monger's perspective.

 
Again, going to a girl with few reviews, including positive ones and being pleasantly surprised, is a lot better than going to a girl with few reviews, including no negative reviews, and being surprised by a bad session.

 
My whole initial post is how negative reviews are sometimes good for business, because many look at worst reviews first. This coincides with how I myself do research on anything. I usually won't see a girl who has low attention span or indifferent attitude (unless she has fantastic service), or has below average service. Now, the old IMDB site, IIRC filtered out 10s and 1s as 'extreme' grades. Either fanboys or haters would use those scores. But anyway, usually researching providers, I'll start with lowest reviews, and they are usually more informative than most positive reviews, as to WHAT went wrong and how can it impact ME. Sometimes they are also generic and useless. Which segues nicely into your 'not nice' part ;)

 

---------------------------------------

 
Now, the second point. I admitted multiple times to you that I DID see that review as problematic. At the point where content of review and grade are the opposite of each other, there are 4 logical conclusion can make:

1. content is false, grade is true
2. content is true, grade is false
3. content is false, grade is false => review is full of shit in general
4. the review is meant to be read between the lines

 

Option 4 isn't helpful to majority of mongers,and is rarely used (used only on specific sites by certain mongers- mainly R_M site). Putting that option away, we conclude that a monger who's doing research, now must decide which option (1-3) he will pick. Personally I go with content of review over grade, BUT if it sounds iffy I wont consider such review at all.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 175 reads
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Please explain what value you are actually adding here? If you could stick to actually helping other mongers - which I’ve actually seen you do on occasion - rather than all this posturing and soapboxing, I think you’d be much more effective at making the positive difference you claim to be striving for.

 
Failing that, you could at least try to be more entertaining.

 
I’m just trying to help you here. Do with it however and whatever you please.

team_rocket_qwerty 170 reads
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I believe I was talking to maui here. Your post is neither on topic nor addresses the questions I asked maui. If you actually want to help me like you claim, let's take it to pm. Otherwise it's just what you're accusing me of - posturing.  

 

Friendly reminder- this topic is about negative reviews and their value to customers and sellers. Maui's review from 8 years ago is exactly the type of review I'm talking about. A fat 3 for service and 'shouldve stayed home' as actual bottom line, and explaining WHY he rated her the same way he did. If, of course, this was indeed maui writing that review.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 169 reads
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...what you really think or are you just lying your ass off?  Yes, you're lying your ass off because you're GaGoebbels, purveyor of the Big Lie.  You lie and lie and hope people will believe it.

 
You do know the thread is there for anyone to read, don't you?  Black-Panther's LAST post in that thread said in part:
"You're such a pussy you can't even write "God", you have to write "Gawd". This is a fuck board, and your Christian guilt shines through. That is beyond a spelling mistake, its a basic philosophical failing that you can't write "God", because you're so scared shitless of your Christian upbringing and fear of hell."
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/politics-and-religion-39/the-whole-point-348018?page=

 
I replied:
"Writing "Gawd" = Christian guilt? Dumbest...Post...Ever...
As if your "posts to reviews ratio theory" wasn't stupid enough, you came up with a theory that's a million times more stupid - that someone who spells God "Gawd" has Christian guilt, is scared shitless of his Christian upbringing and has a fear of Hell.
The spelling "Gawd" has been used in over 200 posts on P&R by posters such as JackDunphy, GaG, inicky AKA The World's Worst Jew and DoctorGonzo.  Do you know who DoctorGonzo is?  He's only the Jewiest Jew on this board.  Do you think he has Christian guilt too?
You are a moron!  God is spelled Gawd when the writer wants to use it for effect.  Gawd you're dumb!!"
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/politics-and-religion-39/writing-gawd--christian-guilt--dumbestpostever-348025?page=

 
After my post, Black-Panther DID NOT POST AGAIN in the thread.  He tucked his tail between his legs and ran away like a little bitch.  In fact, YOU, GaGAMBLER, put the "coup de grâce" on Black-Panther's ass-kicking when you posted this:
"I HATE butting into private fights, especially since you two seem to be having so much fun
But since my name has been brought up so many times in this thread,  BPS, why don't you tell BP the REAL reason his last accusation makes so little sense?  
I'll give BP a hint, BPS is not the "worst" nor is he the 'Jewiest', but..."
(You posted that before you let your full racist come out and you started calling me "Kike.")
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/politics-and-religion-39/i-hate-butting-into-private-fights-especially-since-you-two-seem-to-be-having-so-much-fun-348029?page=

 
Again, Black-Panther was so fucking embarrassed by the ass-kicking I gave him and YOUR piling on that he didn't post in that thread again.  So why don't you explain how I got my ass kicked by Black-Panther other than simply lying and saying that I got my ass kicked?  My opinion - alcohol has destroyed so many of your brain cells that you can't remember 7 months back.  People can read it for themselves and decide.  But you don't want them to do that - you just want them to believe your Big Lie.

 
"What happens on P&R, stays on P&R."  I posted that over two months ago and I asked you in this thread to confine your P&R bullshit to the P&R board.  Yet you keep posting your P&R bullshit on other boards.  Why?  Don't you get your ass kicked enough on P&R?  Are you that much of a masochist?  SMH  

-- Modified on 8/24/2020 3:20:25 AM

GaGambler 158 reads
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Dude, don't you have a fucking life? Can't you think of ANYTHING better to do than bring P&R drama to a board that clearly doesn't want you here?

 
PLEASE have the last word. I am going to do the board a favor and just quit "feeding the troll" on this thread at least.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 175 reads
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Except I clearly described a bad review as one that would end a girl’s career. Then, in my later post I clearly named it as a career ending review.

You didn’t bother to respond to that in either post.

The most obvious conclusion is that you want to define your “bad review” your way and only your way.  

The trouble is that, using your definition, what do we call an actual bad, career ending review?

team_rocket_qwerty 161 reads
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In a later post, after you accused me of not reading ?

I dont know what you mean by "career ending review", to be honest. How bad does the review have to be ?
If you can specify what it means or show me an example here on TER, it would be helpful for me. If you have read the article, the article does not refer to merely one-star reviews as negative reviews.

 
Is Maui's review I referenced yesterday an example of career-ending review?  
I genuinely don't know, so I'm asking you now. I'm willing to continue this discussion in a civil manner, too, if you're willing.

 (And personally,  I've yet to see a girl leave due to a review in the last two years or so.  
But it's anecdotal evidence and maybe I'm wrong. I've heard many times also, that once a girl is established, she is impervious to any reviews, bad or good.)

 

But why don't we call "negative" reviews those that are not positive/glowing, and "career ending" those that fit your definition ? You had to put the "career ending" qualifier yourself there, didnt you ? ;)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 194 reads
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One of his biggest meltdowns on this board.  He is so predictable.  

useyrhead 4 Reviews 163 reads
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Your methodology is forcing people to come up with some other way to describe a review that is actually bad. Because you keep using the term for reviews that are simply less than glowing. So, I just added “career ending” because there are reviews that end careers. I just haven’t seen them on TER yet. Back in the MRB days they were not uncommon.  

 
In most other forum threads, “bad review” means one of two things:
 1) Description of the session and/or provider is so unsavory/unpleasant/dangerous/whatever that it is unlikely that anyone would ever book an appointment after reading the review  
 2) The review itself is so poorly written that it is useless

 
In my experience, kgirl sessions like #1 above are quite rare. They are far more common with the independent providers.  

 
And, yes, it is quite true that there are providers who are completely review proof. Back when Leah was working she was a perfect example of this. Comments about the days when she was so strung out that she had to be picked up off the floor and have the day’s appointments cancelled simply got deleted and never discussed except in private.  

 
Your topic, in my opinion, requires:
 * Much more structured list of terms and definitions — what is “bad”, what details are useful, some standardized set of appearance and experience descriptors with associated meanings, etc
 * More detailed descriptions of rating values, for example —  5 in appearance means you might be able to go through the session, but you wouldn’t be proud of it; 1 in appearance means you can barely even look at the provider without wanting to walk away.  

 
There’s probably more. Sure, if we go over to the site from which you are a recent refugee, there is so much room for improvement that it is easy to find ways reviews could be improved. So, without much effort other than bringing up the topic for discussion,  awareness can be raised and things can theoretically be improved.

 
TER, however, is a vastly more mature site than the one which shall not be named.  So, if we’re going to actually improve things here, it will require a much more disciplined framework than has been put together so far.

 
Since this is a topic so dear to your heart, it seems only fair to ask you to establish a clear framework within which a meaningful discussion can be held.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 134 reads
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I would love it if the current TER initiative on Best Reviews resulted in everyone getting on train 2 -- bad review is about a poorly written, uninformative review.  

I would also think it might be a both a good practice for reviewers, and perhaps a good change in the TER Review UI to provide two sections: What I liked, What I didn't like. I think making reviewers think about both the positives and the negatives would tend to produce a more balances and therefore more informative report.

useyrhead 4 Reviews 135 reads
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coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 150 reads
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"This is quite opposite to what some of people on here keep saying about mongers who don't read negative reviews . . . .",  I don't believe I ever said mongers don't read negative reviews.  What I said is that most mongers I know don't USUALLY read reviews with scores that are 6 and below.    The exception for me is a provider who has an equal number of review scores below 7 as they do 7 and above, but this is not all that common.  If a girl has 20 reviews and they are all 7 and up except for two or three,  which is the usual scenario, I won't bother to read those that are below 7.  Its because after 800+ Kgirls, I'm confident that I know how to engage a girl in a playful way to get her best performance MOST of the time.  It may still end up being average or below average, but 15% of her reviews being below seven would not have dissuaded me from seeing her if the other 85% is 7 or above.  I'm an odds guy, so I like it when the odds are heavily in my favor, and I've doing this long enough to know there is no way to get the risk to zero.

team_rocket_qwerty 183 reads
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I am all for better terminology.  

 
However, I cannot help but think in this case, terminology is just a reason to take away from my initial point. Let me plead my case one last time - I outlined what I'm talking about with 'negative' reviews. I use the article in the link, which clearly talks about non-positive reviews. Then you respond to it with a quip that negative/bad reviews make girls re-brand. Your response to my fairly big post was that I couldn't read. It wasn't just me who read it this way, so did GaGambler.

 

Now you're saying you're talking about some atomic bomb-like destructive super bad reviews, examples of which you can't even find on TER. Who was talking about such reviews ? I certainly wasn't. I am not a fan of extremes. I am suspicious of super glowing reviews, and I am suspicious of fully destructive reviews (1 star or zero star reviews).

 

So again, it makes me think you know exactly what you're doing here by switching the focus from the main point of the topics. But OK. It doesn't matter what I think.

 

To make the terminology straight, may I use "below 7 on TER" quantifier as an indication to what I mean by average and below reviews ? GaGambler and CDL were saying that anything below like 6 is basically really bad, according to scale everyone uses on here. I don't really agree with them, but so that everyone is on the same page I will use this.

 

The main point of my post was really simple. People look at lowest reviews to understand what was bad and whether they would be affected by it. This was the main point, and there was a link included, for a reason. The reason I even made this post is because I've witnessed many mongers, including those I trust, withhold information when they encounter what they consider as subpar sessions. I am not going to rub it in their faces, after all, it's up to them to write whatever they feel like; I just want to show why is it helpful for others to get this, publicly. We all (well, non-VIP mongers and non-org affiliates) play on the same field. I like info being available in public. This causes suppliers to step up their game.

 

OK, let us establish a meaningful, clear framework of terminology. I'm all for it. You can start and provide your example of review that can be considered career-ruining, because I still don't know what defines such a review. You give some broad generalization, but its still up to interpretation - I think, for example, some may interpret Mauidiver's review I posted as fitting your criteria in a way. Can you find such a bad review on TER ? If not for a kgirl, maybe for an indie provider ? Just so I understand how bad this review has to be.

 

However, there is one thing that we need to make clear. There won't be a meaningful discussion if there will be a side who will claim 'negativity' as any reasoning. This is a review site; if there is an inherent inability to accept that some sessions can and will be reviewed "negatively", there is no need to even start such discussion. This is a review site, not a second grade badminton game where the goal is to make everyone feel like a winner and make everyone feel good. If one can't make an argument for evaluation of a service sold without being likened to a slave owner and whatever other foolishness, then what's the point of even having such a discussion ?

 

If this is the case, let's save everyone time and just outright say you don't think a non-positive review is right and you wont ever do it.  
I will respect that a lot more than trying to wheeze out through some logical reasoning, which such people tend to lose in the long run anyway.I will, of course, then make a point that perhaps a review site is not a good place for such person to be on, because then it just turns reviews into ads. A review place allows for both negative and positive reviews without extra feelings attached.

team_rocket_qwerty 155 reads
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Take a look at my reviews. Even when reviewing an experience I did not overall enjoy very much, I still seek out positives which others may like, and vice versa - a girl who is my ATF, I will note that some may not like her appearance as much (I know one review back on the donkey said that he walked once seeing her).

 
I really don't understand why the semantics are so important to you guys. Poorly written/uninformative reviews is not what this thread was *EVER* about, and isn't "poorly written" reviews clear enough terminology-wise ?

 

The thread was clearly about reviews that were not all glowing, both in content and grade-wise. The article even expanded on how yelp is considered a more trustworthy grading system with average of 3 something than other systems where average is 4 something.

team_rocket_qwerty 139 reads
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Yes, you are one of those people. OK, they don't "usually" read negative reviews, fine. The article says that 85% of people read negative reviews and 91% of younger people read negative reviews. That was my point.

" The exception for me is a provider who has an equal number of review scores below 7 as they do 7 and above, but this is not all that common.  If a girl has 20 reviews and they are all 7 and up except for two or three,  which is the usual scenario,"

I don't know who taught you statistics and probability theory, but if a girl has 20 reviews, and "all of them are 7 and up except 2 or 3", the average is extremely likely to be above 7 - the situation where the total score is below 7 would be very rare. That is NOT the usual scenario.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 148 reads
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You're giving me the last word because you got nuttin' left - I exposed you for the liar you are.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 173 reads
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My point was not about terminology per se but about objective and impartial reviews with a suggestion that might help more reviews actually get there.

 
I would also say you might want to hold off pushing your support survey too much as it meets all the same requirements of reviews you consider deserving of banning (person/entity providing the stated information having a direct financial interest) and, at least that I saw, was more about creating a sense of trust rather that being truthful and actually trustworthy.

 
This is not to say the basic point is not accepted -- overly perfect/glowing reviews are not too credible -- that has been a known case as discussed to the point on TER it is largely considered beating a long dead horse by all be the newbies here. (I would also note, your source is subject to the same criticisms you have of agency/shill reviews -- the people who wrote the report have a financial interest in that area. They also did not seem to be concerned with the factual aspect of the reviews but rather the creating of credibility and trust from the customers buying whatever was being reviewed. In short the "study" was largely a marketing piece so has very limited relevance to what I take as the substantive aspect of the discussion: accurate information in reviews and informed choice of who to see.)

 
The point about terminology, if you have to put things in that light, would be focusing on the negative type of review is inherently biasing the review lens. Just say provide an objective review that is presented in a fair, even toned voice seeking to communicate clearly the relevant events as accurately as possible. The reviewer should be considering both the positives and negatives and neutrals. That is a good review that will help everyone reading the review.

 
If the reviews start with a stated goal of negative how likely is it that the writer is going to even be considering any things that actually were done well or efforts made but perhaps not of interest to that particular client -- but likely would have been very important to some others?

useyrhead 4 Reviews 189 reads
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OK. 7 is “average and below”. So, what do you call “bad”? 4?

 
You seem to have problems reading details. I already said that I haven’t seen a career ending kgirl review on TER. Sounds like you’re just trying to shift the burden of proof here.

 
You are making a claim that TER reviews are badly in need of improvement. But your descriptions of what is wrong with the current reviews and exactly what needs to be done to improve them are vague and shift more than a little.  

 
You don’t have to do a lot. Just clearly and concisely define the problem. Examples would be nice. But not essential. You can just as readily create your own models to represent each category and we’ll work with those.  

 
Just please stop with all the walls of text and get to the point.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 173 reads
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average overall scores, because some reviewers grade differently than others.  For instance, my seven means the girl was below average, where another 7 may accompany a glowing review, but 7 is the highest score the guy has ever given, so to try to average two scores that mean something entirely different is a fools errand, but I will still make my cutoff for reading them at 7, because I have learned over the 12 years I have been here, and after reading over 100,000 TER reviews, that most guys give an average score of about 8.0-8.2, not 5, to a girl who gave them decent service.  

 
To answer your question, I learned statistics in grad school at Claremont Men's College (Now Claremont McKenna).

team_rocket_qwerty 171 reads
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Posted By: useyrhead
Re: At least you admit it
OK. 7 is “average and below”. So, what do you call “bad”? 4?
It's a bit more complicated than that. There is a scale accepted here (on TER), and there's my scale. For sake of clarity, I'll just call anything lower than 7 "non-positive". I consider 5 an average, 4 below average and 1-3 is bad territory.  
   
 

 You seem to have problems reading details. I already said that I haven’t seen a career ending kgirl review on TER. Sounds like you’re just trying to shift the burden of proof here.
 No, I have read it-  you said you haven't seen on this site. Can you show me one on any other site or at least give me an example of how would such review read ?  I'm not shifting anything, you claim there are such reviews that end careers, so I would like to see examples of them. Is it about the grade, content, both ? And if you can't find any on any other sites either, why are you talking about them ? That's MY point. I can find many reviews I'm talking here or on  other sites.
 

 You are making a claim that TER reviews are badly in need of improvement
.
I did not make such claim in this particular thread. This thread was not even about TER. It was about writing reviews *in general*, that talking about negative experiences instead of only sharing it in private channels or not sharing at all, helps others immensely. TER so far is a lot better than most other sites in the regard of TER reviews, at least for bay area.
 
 
 Just please stop with all the walls of text and get to the point.
When I discuss, I like to write a lot. I just highlighted that it is imperative to agree not to get into your feelings mixed with objective evaluation of services . There is no arguing with "I dont want negativity in my life" - it's useless. So I want to make sure we don't bring useless fluff like that into discussion that will involve concrete terminology and concrete evaluation.

team_rocket_qwerty 158 reads
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Yes, the article was from a viewpoint of "how shall I appeal better to a customer to make more money".

But that's fine. I think I told you about an org here that had 1000+ reviews on another platform for a girl who was here for only a year. The result of this was lost of trust in the org. Mongers stopped figuring out which reviews were not fake, and that likely affected that org in the long run, even though the owner was likely enjoying the short-term money that was pouring from noobs.

 

The main point I tried to resonate here, from this article you are now dismissing,  is that CONSUMERS READ NEGATIVE REVIEWS TO UNDERSTAND THE WORST CASE SCENARIO.

 
Yes, like we discussed, part of it is just providing objective fair review. HOWEVER, you cannot ignore that a lot of people don't write reviews of bad experiences, as opposed to having no problem documenting positive experiences. Even on this forum, we had people who flat out stated that.
If the reviews start with a stated goal of negative how likely is it that the writer is going to even be considering any things that actually were done well
This is a weird question. If you were objective to start with, why wouldn't he be considering them ? Once again, read my reviews. Even with experiences I won't be repeating, I will note things that were good.

Even asking that questions is weird - why would someone start a review with goal of "negative" ? The goal is to inform others, not some abstract goal of being negative - it's just information about negative things is more valuable than information about positive things given all other things being equal.

So no, its actually about describing negative experiences and not being afraid to do so. And helping mongers to save money and time.

 
However, you COULD make a point that objectively and fully describing EVERY SINGLE encounter in a timely manner is the same thing - this way, yes, it encompasses both 'good' and 'bad'. But how many mongers review every single experience they've had ? It's not too realistic. And many, like I've said, won't list average or bad reviews, for one reason or another.

 
The difference between review point of view and private channels is striking too. If you read public forums and reviews, youd think every single experience is amazing, but people tend to be a lot more critical in private, such as pms.

If everyone would at least pick out the worst experience theyve had in a month and actually wrote reviews about them, it would already be a big step forward. But most mongers don't do that.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 204 reads
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65 / 68

For me, a bad review is the fault of the reviewer, not the girl.  I have read thousands of reviews that were 8's and 9's but still gave very little information to help me make an informed decision about whether to see a particular girl or not. If there were likes or dislikes I had with a girl, I will usually put them in the last paragraph of my review.   If they are only about her looks, I might put them in the first paragraph.  For those that haven't noticed, I will discuss my impressions of her appearance  and personality first.  Then a summary of the session, including her reactions along the way, and they my final paragraph is a short summary of her strengths (and weaknesses, if any).  

 
However, I don't think reviewers in general are going to start writing better reviews without some feedback from readers, so as I have mentioned before, I would like to see a feedback button that is a little more explicit than the "like" button at the end of the reviews.  If you had to answer a yes or no question  something like, "Was this review instrumental in your deciding whether to see this provider?", followed by clicking a yes or no button, I think reviewers getting a lot of "no's" might be encouraged to add more to their reviews, while those getting a lot of Yes's know that they are doing it right.  The question not whether you ARE going to see her, but whether this review significantly influenced your decision WHETHER to see her or not.  

36363jensen 4 Reviews 211 reads
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66 / 68

The ones that I have paid any attention to seems more like the liker was rating the story rather than a review.

BTW, was that there for a long time. I don't really recall it in the pre-2018 years but largely stopped paying any attention here, or even seeing providers between mid-2017 and earlier this year. Maybe just did not register but seemed like it was something that was there when I got my new account.

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team_rocket_qwerty 150 reads
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67 / 68

I thought you were talking about not reading a review of girls with average scores below 7. Turns out you were talking about not reading individual reviews below 7. Sorry, I misread it.

team_rocket_qwerty 177 reads
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68 / 68

One more time, the gist of my gripe is simple.

 

Guy has a session he generally likes - a review or mini is posted with no issues.  

 
Guys has a session that he generally did not enjoy enough - he often withholds a review or a public post. He may even complain about it publicly but doesn't post a name. He may tell some folks privately but not publicly.

 

THIS is an issue, and the article cited is there to support the fact that people do, in fact, read reviews that are non-positive, and in fact, seek them out. There are already not that many non-positive reviews, and withholding them hurts the mongers who do like to do their research and don't have the luxury of private channel connections.  

 

Every review will have a good amount of subjectivity to it even when attempting to be objective. And that's OK. It's the same for a positive review as it is for a non-positive review. People don't have a problem with relative subjectivity on a positive review, so there shouldn't be any on a non-positive one.

 
ALL I'm ASKING IS For IS TO NOT OMIT NON  POSITIVE EXPERIENCES IF YOU HAD ANY.  

It doesn't matter who is at the root of this bad experience. I know org and girl apologists love to blame mongers for it. All it takes is to tell your experience as is. But do tell it. Selectively posting only positive experiences and pretending the non-positive ones don't happen is silly and it does hurt fellow mongers.

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