always interesting when i meet them on the streets.  

sort of funny where i met them.  and awkward when everyone realized i banged two of them.  actually embarrasing.  wonder what the girls think when they realize they both had my penis in their mouth??  damn...surreal.

just chatted for few minutes about what theyve been upto etc asked if both wanted get coffee but turned me down.  anyway said bye and i said ill see both later in the week...LOL!!!

wondering how some of you other guys experiences have been when you bump into one?  get ignored or actually grab a coffee or movie

it's better when both parties understands that outside that bedroom we don't know each other.  

Granted in your case probably after that both of them where discussing how good you are in bed LOL

hey Bobabear,

I live in LA now and some kgirls I run into but I keep it separate. I just ignore them for their privacy, unless I am friends with them or they chat first. What they do in incall or outcall is fantasy or session. Do you say hi to  your postman at Chilli's? Plus I have gf so she would kill me for talking to them

aloted

It would be like throwing your arm around an actor you've never met simply because you've watched them on TV at home in just your underwear.  They would rightly be offended at your unfair sense of familiarity.  In this case it's even worse because of the cultural stigma attached to what they do.  This isn't just any job.  Besides, how would you feel if your boss sat down next to you are a bar and started riding our ass about something at work you would rather not think about in your off time?

These ladies provide a performance in an environment that heavily stigmatizes how they make their living.  The result is often feelings of depression and doubts about self worth they must struggle through in their time off.  I can't imagine anything more crass that walking up these ladies in public and acting as if your old buddies?  A coffee with you in public?  There's a reason they don't offer outcalls.  If they want to have coffee with you, they'll let you know.

If any of you here have similar stories about bumping into a girl in public , I really don't want to hear or read about it, especially on a public hobby board.  We owe them a minimum level of respect and privacy.  Let's show them at least that much

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a figment of your imagination that you have previously posted under a different alias on the LA Board. With posts like these , even when they are fiction , is it any wonder the some KDs refuse to see Korean men. Fortunately Korean men are not a crass or depraved as you are.  

It seems odd for someone who claims  to have KDs for girl friends to find it embarrassing to meet a KD in public. One would have thought it's a normal occurrence that you would be used to . I guess in the absence of the real thing figments boba's imagination is old he has to share. -- Modified on 9/23/2014 10:54:37 AM

first your arrogant to assume that all kgirls think what they are doing is offensive or they are ashamed of it or they are offended or shy when clients meet them on their days off.   and i have had coffee or grabbed a bite of food with other kgirls ive met on their days off.    

and unless your korean from korea you know nothing about their culture.  so if your not korean don't state something you know nothing about.

 
the girls dont want or need your sympathy.  they know what they are doing and they do it willingly.  its all business to them and they do treat it as a job as you call it.  which some of you don't seem to understand when you confuse fantasy of their job to reality and think theirs something more then there is and harras the girl.

theres is no depression.  all the kgirls ive known are happy making all the money and meeting clients who are nice to them.  you do realize some of the kgirls have boyfriends right? or they go out on dates with some of their clients?   i have had several and did not care when some of you guys called or texted when we were at home.  i only cared when girls got silly and asked me to marry them. screw that.

by the way, they do do outcalls.  either with their vip clients or korean clients.

hope this help you a little.  dont say things you have no idea what your talking about.  check with me first. you annoy me but you're lack of knowledge excuses you somewhat..

 

 

 

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I have gotten to know many personally - and the Very Last Thing they would want would be for a client to acknowledge them in public in any way.  You sir, are nothing but an indiscreet, classless, clueless ass who should grow up & get a new hobby.

Let me take this point by point.  

No doubt K girls are human and maintain real relationships outside the hobby, which makes your intrusion into their personal life all the more offensive.  How do you think an SO and a Provider feel when some ass walks up to her in a public place and invites her out for a bite simply because he had a session with her?  

How do you know that when I said culture I was talking about Korean culture (not American) and that I'm not Korean?  Who is making the assumptions?  That aside, you do not need to be an expert on Korean (or American) cultural to know this is a stigmatized line of work.  Grow up and stop hiding behind your race.

I'm not asking you to extend them sympathy, but I am asking you to show common decency and respect.  We all have a choice and they have chosen their path.  Let's not make it any harder for them than it already is.  Respect their privacy just as you expect them to respect yours.  If you're in a serious relationship, how would you feel if a Provider walked up to you and your SO in a public place and invited you out?  Show them the same courtesy.

There's no depression and all the girls you know are happy?  All that tells me is that you know very, very few girls.  The truth  is that there's range of emotions and feelings about the work they do and since you have no way to know on an individual level how a particular girl feels about it, better to just stay out of her personal space unless she invites you in.  

All the guys I know who talk about spending off session time with K Girls are just like those high school kids who said they didn't have a date because they were only interested in girls from other schools.  By definition, K girl tend to date guys who have the discretion to not flaunt such things.  The guys who do, to put it kindly, are full of it.  

You missed the point (again) about this being an incall business.  The standard for K girl is incall specifically because they would not be caught dead walking around K town with someone like you.  If they choose to do an outcall or anything else that's not included in the standard of service, that's there business and between them and that client.  Don't call them, they'll call you (not).  

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if it helps you go ahead..

based on your post let me guess...your white over 60 with daddy symdrome.  thats fine...be protective if you want but doesn't change the fact you don't know what your talking about.

go ahead and explain all the guys out there dating and chatting and saying hi when they bump into kgirls on their off days.  im not the only one.

explain that to yourself.

my god man.

look at your counter points.  doesn't even make any sense.  all your reasoning is based on your assumptions of whats right.  what arrogance.

kgirls don't like to be acknoweldged, the girls are not happy, yadda yadda.. who made you the master of whats right and how girls feel?  so there are no kgirls who are happy or not ashamed of doing this work?  and how would a provider and SO feel if someone said hi?  why would that situation even happen?  who wants to say hi to the kgirl with her bf?  

even look at this, i call you out on "no outcalls" being incorrect and then you come up with an excuse on no what you meant to say not standard kgirl service.  who says outcalls to korean clients or vip isn't standard?  if you can't get it that makes it not standard?  

and guys who date kgirls are full of it?  well tell that to all the other guys out there dating and married to some of the kgirls.  i guess both the girl and guy are full of it.

and if no kgirl wants to be caught dead with their bf or date outside of work then sorry to break the news to you that would mean some of your ATFs would be dead and 1/3 of the current girls gone.

man...i thought you just lacked some knowledge but now i realize you just don't get it.  sheesh....can't help you there buddy..

No provider of any race wants to be acknowledged by a client in public.  Since K-girls don't read this board, why don't you ask that question on the General Discussion Board, before you cause any more harm to these ladies than you already have?

And then find a hobby that you are emotionally equipped to handle.

 
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They go further and further off topic.  This OP was a dumb idea and you've been roundly and correctly criticized for it.  Have you noticed that not a single poster has agree with you?  If you're in a room and 5 people tell you you're drunk, it's time to fall now.

Pay attention and focus now...

Yes, these girls don't want there work discussed in public places so keep your mouth shut.  Neither of us have met every K girl, but yes, those I do know struggle internally with this line of work (I can't believe I need to tell you that) and I doubt any of them will be putting this on their resume in civilian life some day.  Just assume they don't want idiots walking up to them and saying "hey, you're that K girl I know!"

If you're stupid enough to walk up to a K girl in public and start a conversation simply because you met them in a session (which I really doubt you would have the balls to do despite your claims to the contrary), you have no way to know what her circumstances are.  I used the SO in the same room example in hopes of eliciting an ounce to empathy from you, but I see you have none so it was a wasted effort.  

Read their ads again.  There is nothing on them about out calls  That makes it off menu.  That means if they do this, it's none of your damn business.  Leave them alone.

No, guys who brag about dating girls on a public board (you) are full of it.  Many Providers do have SO's, but their not losers who hang out on public boards chatting about it the way you do precisely because it violates the privacy guys like you have no respect for. The more you talk about that, the less credible you seem.  

I didn't say they would not be caught dead with an SO, I said they would not be caught dead with a loser like you.  If you have the time for an inane conversion like this, my guess is you're dating your computer porn collection and calling it a K girl.  More power to you and they should count themselves lucky.

The problem with troll conversations is that trolls are unable to process information, so you wast all your time correcting what they fail to understand, so there's little time to move the conversation forward.   Work on your reading comprehension and post comments that are based in reality and connected to what you respond to. You'll still be crass and uninformed, but at least you'll be on topic.

My guess is that your expertise if confined to masturbation.  Perhaps you should just focus on the physical kind and not the mental masturbation you are performing for us here.

 

 

 

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"theres is no depression." What a declaration. You, speaking in such absolute terms, makes me question your credibility. My experience with K-girls is not extensive, but I've already met several who would rebut your statement. And yes, when one, like yourself, talks about meeting them, and approaching them, it sounds way too much like the guy in high school, who claimed to have sex with a cheerleader, but never really got to first base. One's attempt at bolstering up a weak ego is a dangerous thing when it comes to community depending on the need for anonymity, and discretion.

"...proved my point..."  well what point did you make other then you dont know what your talking about, and you like to call me names since it makes you feel better about yourself..

thanks for proving that..

oh since the kgirls dont read this board how about you giving the girls you saw some 6 on this board and description of your session so booker know its you but we wont since to keep your privacy.  lets see if your "..point is proven"

To suggest that any other action is acceptable is ridiculous.
It should be obvious.

I frequent a place that is occasionally visited by our Kgirls, and the few times I've spotted them I have done as much as I could to avoid their even knowing I was there. Why would anyone want to put them (or one's self)  in an awkward situation?

ou realize your spewing gibberish like a crazy person.  cmon look  
at how much your typing..

man, must have hit a nerve on my last post.  hey if you dont get it you dont get it.  nothing wrong with that.

by the way, 5 people saying the sky is red means its true!  really!  so if i think its blue i must be the one who is telling a lie!  omg.  

you-re entertaining.  i look forward to your next response^

i said later..." none of the  girls i saw ..."  or maybe you think that means i saw none? well ive seen more then you if that clears it up..or wait maybe you saw none!  il say over 50 then as a start.  

but of course you found nothing in the posts by the other two attackers to suggest they speak in absolutes......hmmm....maybe you should read their posts again..

ego?  i date a few kgirls that makes me have an ego?  and you ever thought that some guy who claimed they slept with a cheerleader really did?  my man i cant help it if its true..  or i guess it could be lie to you and others.  ok believe that if it makes you happy

You post an ill advised OP and follow it up with a series of stupid comments and when I correct you, your only come back is that it took too many words to correct all your idiotic comments?

Let me offer the Cliff Note version for the reading challenged like yourself:

You're a worthless troll who adds nothing here.  Go away.