I don't think any kgirl in their right mind would work while high. Edibles I give them are mainly used to help them relax after work and to help them sleep. I know some girls drink alcohol after a long day, but they hate the weight gain from it so they would rather try something else. Munchies don't help, but they usually knockout before they have time to satisfy those munchies lol.
Back in the day, I would invite kgirls to come with my friends and I to an EDM festival or rave and they would try E for the first time and have a blast. I know some girls just have that curiosity much like any other human being. And considering that drugs are HIGHLY illegal with serious convictions in Korea, they never really had the opportunity to try it to even know if they would like it or not.
Anyone know of any Kgirls in Los Angeles that are 420 friendly.
Just wondering.
I wouldnt recommend 420 at the girls place in the bya area. I think most orgs frown upon that. Most org girls need to be alert to work, and 420 screws it up. And it's not that popular among them anyway. If you want to get stoned before, you can. I often carry a vape pen with me and sometimes will take a few hits when I'm on my way after parking.
I think if there any 420 friendly kgirls who aren't independent, no one will mention them publicly and it will be very ymmv, like after the last appointment or something like that, with someone they know.
But this is just my guess. Maybe there are 420 friendly kgirls who blaze it during their work, who knows lol. I doubt it, but life is a funny thing.
You'd be surprised...
Back at Nuerotic Donkey I started a thread about RAs who enjoy La Hierba Mala. And thus I began another quest...wasn't long before I had 5 + RAs who'd fire up my home grown Train Wreck with me during a session...
I no longer pursue getting high before or during sessions. Been there, done that. Plus, the orgs are not cool with it and I'm on my best behavior.
YMMV
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Wait, you got 5+ kgirls smoking weed with you? In the middle of the day?
Holy shit I'd be as proud of that as of the 2x2 tag session.
is that it could negatively impact the next customer if the girl is not her normal self. Same thing with alcohol. The only time its cool is if you're the last customer of the day. I've smoked week with indies, because they will usually have more break time between customers, and sometimes, I'm the last customer of the day even when starting at 3 o'clock, but Kgirls have such a short time between customers, I just feel I'm disrespecting the next monger after me by leaving him a Kgirl that is high and therefore not at her best.
I completely agree.
Honestly, I don’t even understand the thinking here. What kind of person wants their bartender to get drunk in the middle of his/her shift? Nobody would even blink an eye over said bartender getting fired for that. Why would anyone think it would be different for a sex worker?
With independents it is quite different, as you mentioned. They can and have in my experience, just decide to cancel the rest of their day depending on their own judgement. It’s their business to run as they see fit. This is one of the reasons I enjoy seeing independents when I find them. That said, most (not all) of the independent girls I’ve known have been sufficiently mature to handle this in ways that avoids significant negative impact on their business. Though I also well remember one quite notorious exception. She was a blast. But far too often sessions would get canceled because she over indulged one way or another. She was one lovely mess.
Still, even with a girl that you know is independent, I think it is inconsiderate to the girl and to her subsequent customers that day to try to get her high before the end of her shift. She’s got a job to do. If she can’t do that job properly she risks losing customers. Why would anyone try to hurt the business of a girl that they liked enough to pay for a session?
You're being overly dramatic.
Some kgirls like to drink. Some kgirls like to smoke. I found me a few 420 friendly ones who were game to share a joint and I left two with homegirls to share with other regulars later or whatever. Girls just wanna have fun!!!!
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Is anything I said not true?
I’ve simply said I don’t understand why anyone does this. It makes no sense to me. And evidence seems to exist that I’m not the only one who thinks this way.
Unlike a certain troll who hides behind an alias so no one can block him, I won’t attack you for disagreeing with me. You have to decide what’s important to you and act accordingly while accepting whatever consequences occur because of your actions.
I’ve said what I think about it. Everything I’ve said is completely true. If you think this truth is dramatic, you can choose to ignore it. We can simply agree to disagree. No big deal.
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What you’ve stated is anecdotally true. Not “completely true”. No one’s talking about forcing these girls to get high. Some can function just fine, maybe even better, if they’ve partaken a little bit. There are thousands of reviews on this site that open with “she offered me a glass of wine”. All you’ve expressed in your post is a cultural stigma against marijuana.
I find myself agreeing with CDL’s take (OK for the last appointment of the day) with one caveat. It’s OK for later appointments in the day. If she’s had a long day and really isn’t hyped about seeing that last guy, a little bit of weed might make for a better session. In that case, you’re doing both the girl and the monger a nice favor.
The first few girls were definitely fuckable, but only maybe two of the last ten girls or so was even so much as average looking, with a couple of them being downright homely, not to mention FAT. "Fat Asians" are supposed to be an oxymoron. lol
For $220, the kgirls I sessioned with were way HOTTER than these stoner girls. And the fiery spirited kgirls I sessioned with had no rules and GFE MSOG on the menu. YAHOO!!!!
I really didn't consider that the kgirls might not feel like working after my session. I really didn't consider the mongers who followed after me. I will be more thoughtful when I embark on my next quest.
I'm a spoiled and privileged monger!
YMMV
about the 4-minute mark, only wearing glasses. She actually looked better to me with the glasses on. There were about 8-10 interspersed in the last two-thirds that were fat or ugly, or both!! Lol
GaG, I don’t know if it makes you feel any better, but the fatties in that compilation:
1. Are Asian Pacific Islanders
2. Take it up the ass
big enough to have a tattoo like yours!!!! Mine just says "Welcome Aboard" in 28 pt. Arial. (Well, except when its flaccid, its 18 pt.)
If you have the opportunity, take a Black Sharpie and mark his limp dick up with nasty comments. If he complains, you can tell him that his buddy Donald Trump uses a Black Sharpie all the time.
You must be responding to someone else’s post. Because you are talking about things I didn’t say or intend.
I don’t care if it’s alcohol, weed, crack or anything else. The substance being used is irrelevant. It’s putting a girl whose livelihood depends on keeping her customers happy in the position of having to say no to something she might have a problem with. If it’s last appointment of the day, she is doing the offering, or the monger in question has a significantly deep relationship with her where he knows this is something she is entirely OK about, then that’s not what I’m talking about.
As a matter of fact the kgirl I was talking about had a bit of a cocaine habit, if I recall correctly. Though she seemed fond of getting high with other things, too. Someone I knew pretty well was her boyfriend. I actually lost count of the times he had to go find out why she wasn’t responding to the PO and found her passed out in her in-call. Or hiding in her closet because whatever she’d taken (and, seriously, you just never knew with this girl) had caused some bad hallucinations.
Still, she was a Bay Area Legend and could get away with it.
As I said above, my point had nothing to do with situations where the provider did the offering. I was specifically talking about mongers who think it’s fun to get a girl high. Substance being used is irrelevant. If she’s initiating it, it’s her choice and the consequences, if there are any, are hers to own. If it’s the monger trying to convince her to do it, that is an entirely different thing.
All that said, we’re all consenting adults here. If we’re not, that is an entirely different problem and discussion.
Again, we each have to be willing to accept the consequences of our actions.
Thank you Userbro for that share and my apologies if I offended you.
I love to party. I am an enabler. I am very charming. A few of the kgirls comment that I'm handsome.
That being said, I didn't really think through getting any of the many working girls high in the middle of the day; and there were alot.
I'm not proud of myself when it comes to that. And in hindsight, it was a reckless quest to re-live the fantasy of my beloved Suzi from more than a decade earlier.
Just because I can pull off the quest doesn't mean I have to go through with it.
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While you concluded with a polite agree to disagree sentiment, I think you could have pumped the brakes in your lead up to that.
Second, you concede that there are independents who gladly partake. Agency girls aren’t robots (cue the snark about K-Girl routines), and it follows that some of them would enjoy a blunt as well.
Finally, no one is saying girls should be forced to partake, but you imply that merely offering is an act of force. If that’s the case, then bringing a bottle of wine to an appointment becomes a grave sin. Let’s not forget that this biz is transactional not only financially, but also socially and intimately. Does it become wrong to ask a girl for Greek because it puts her in the position of having to say yes or no? Is the girl a “bad” provider because she happens to drink a glass of wine, hit a blunt, or pop a Xanny before she meets a client?
Certainly there are a multitude of negative scenarios regarding substance use that are true. But that doesn’t make it completely true. We all have our own autonomy. If I bring a bottle of wine to appointment and we share a glass, I’m in no way responsible if the girl chugs the rest of the bottle the moment I walk out and misses her next appointment. I’m also not thinking she’s under any obligation to share even one glass with me, and then takes the unopened bottle back to you, her boyfriend. Good for her, and I hope you both enjoy it.
Like I said, I pretty much agree with CDL’s take, with the caveat that the marijuana use need not be limited to the last appointment of the day.
Tangentially, I’ve attached a research article from the American Economic Association regarding the positive results of reducing social taboos and legal impediments to casual drug use and prostitution. An interesting read.
Not sure what’s triggering you, dude. I very clearly described the exceptions. Yet you seem obsessed over the “completely true” part. You are responding as if I said “completely true in all cases and without exception”.
Something can be - and I explain this very clearly in both posts - completely true and yet still also only be conditionally true. In other words, it is completely true. When the stated conditions are met. Or, in this case, when the stated exceptions do not exist.
You really are reacting to something that I neither believe or said. So read both posts again. You’ll see that I deliberately left room for there to be times when it’s OK.
I’m advocating for considerate responsibility. Not abstinence.
Or maybe there’s some objection buried in your post that covers something I didn’t address. If so, could you be just a bit more clear as to what it is exactly that I said to which you object?
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Somewhat offtopic, but this is the first time I've ever heard someone use "completely true" and not mean it to be "universally true" in conversational language.
In math, it's quite easy. You have universal qualification and have existential qualification.
I believe the colloquial way of saying "completely true" in this case, in a normal conversation, is simply stating "mostly true". But I might be wrong.
Either way, I think stating something is universally or completely true in context of something that has a lot (or any) of opinion attached to it, is a bit of a stretch. But that's me just nitpicking.
You didn’t read the whole thread.
The poor guy who replied the first time just quickly scanned my post and saw “completely true” and missed the exceptions listed.
In other words, I was saying my post was completely true, including the exceptions. But this was too confusing for him. So I clarified that the statement without the exceptions, while true, could not be “universally” true in the absence of said exceptions.
I simply used a different word because he was already confused and I did not want to confuse him further.
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Fair enough. I admit I kinda lost it at the point when it came to threading the needle between universally and completely. All good.
To get the conversation going another way, I wonder what kgirls think of clients who do offer them the doja. As far as I know, it's not viewed as a simple light recreational drug in Korea.
You said joints, you share anything else ? Blunts, Glass, Edibles, Vapes ?
I offered my vape pen to a few girls as a last customer, and they all politely declined.
I think language barrier makes it more difficult too, you need good English girls to offer them weed or there might be misunderstanding. LOL. I've smoked out a few storefront AMP Chinese girls back in the day no problem. Back before vape pens, lol.
I used to home grow Train Wreck from seed. And then I'd show home girls my pics of my plants. And then they'd say 'I like.'. Next time I'd bring three hand rolled doobies of my prized La Hierba Mala to the one hour session. We'd have fun but didn't get smashed. I'd leave two for her. When that quest was completed, I don't feel the need anymore.
YMMV
personally I wouldn't bring weed anywhere in or near a KGirl incall but I've heard one or two girls mention it. Get high in your car or something like a normal person. Not worth the risk for you or the girl.
Happy Friday Sunnybro!
I am of the opinion that we mongers are pariahs in our 'merican culture; we are outcasts who would be publicly humiliated and shunned if our covert actions were brought to light. Normal? Nothing normal about our cult.
Fucking hookers is hardly something I do in a "covert" manner, EVERYBODY in my life knows I fuck hookers and nobody has shunned me or tried to humiliate me, and if they did I would simply tell them to, wait for it "GO FUCK YOURSELF!!!" lol
I know most hookers and whore mongers hide in the shadows for fear of public humiliation, but I am not even the least bit ashamed about what I do and except for the fact it's illegal I don't make even the slightest effort to hide the fact that I not only frequent hookers, but that I do so frequently. lol
Happy Friday GaGbro!
The city of San Ho has a 'report a John program' in effect whose purpose is to publicly humiliate mongers. It's real.
Even though I'm a full disclosure monger, I am covert as fuck in my work / public life. If my employer found out about my mongering on my time off, I would be fired faster than Trump would an intern on The Apprentice.
It's like providing screening information to hookers looking to have a little "blackmail information" to hold over your head if you get out of line. Too bad for them I am Blackmail Proof. lol
That sucks that so many people are in the same situation as yourself, where even the hint of whore mongering by you could cost you your career. I am lucky that not only am I in business for myself, but I am a "Texas Oilman" People EXPECT me to be a whore mongering pig and who am I to disappoint? lol
Well said! Very cool! That was mentioned to me in a PM and I'm of the same mind as you!
a crime anymore in CA, but eating at a restaurant indoors is. Lol
Smoking dope with her is just fine, taking her out to dinner if we get the munchies is NOT.
Gotcha. lol
Consuming dope in public places is technically still illegal.
Although a few of them have enough traffic to be considered public places I am sure. lol
He meant to say "pubic" place the way some of the Tijuana girls "smoke" during shows. That's illegal in CA. 8-)
AAMPs are most definitely "pubic" places. lol
From my experience, some kgirls were very curious about it. Others were a strict no. Almost ALL girls hated the smell of it though... that was a strict pass. However, the girls that were curious about it really liked the edibles I had and they would use it to help get a good night's sleep.
This isn't in LA btw... this is from my experience with East Coast kgirls.
Not a huge fan of edibles. Take too long to activate and can hit like a truck. Never want to lose control when I'm out about whoring. Lol.
And edibles for a girl who's still working sounds awful.
I don't think any kgirl in their right mind would work while high. Edibles I give them are mainly used to help them relax after work and to help them sleep. I know some girls drink alcohol after a long day, but they hate the weight gain from it so they would rather try something else. Munchies don't help, but they usually knockout before they have time to satisfy those munchies lol.
Back in the day, I would invite kgirls to come with my friends and I to an EDM festival or rave and they would try E for the first time and have a blast. I know some girls just have that curiosity much like any other human being. And considering that drugs are HIGHLY illegal with serious convictions in Korea, they never really had the opportunity to try it to even know if they would like it or not.
A 30-something kgirl rolling on e and raving? Whoa.
Most girls who roll fuck like goddesses, because it gives them so much pleasure. I'm talking pure e.
I haven't been to a rave since high school. Not my type of scene really. But I do remember it used to be a very young people scene. Kgirls enjoy it?