What the title says. If you had to distill it down into one single thing, what makes your ATF, your ATF?

One single thing? Incredibly difficult.

She's always psyched up to see me and at the top of her game for me.  Even if she's tired or having a bad day, she would never let me know it.

Chemistry, with a capital C! Everything just comes together !

This is the woman who sees me frequently sometimes and infrequently other times. Makes room in her schedule for a quickie if that’s all the time I have or as long as I want. Every time and all the time gives me the feeling that she’s delighted to be my girl.  

She only has to hold out 15 minutes and then you are out the door.

This loser has been stalking me around the various boards.  He's Big-Piece-of-shit's dumber brother.  Rocket already observed on the GD board that he has some mental issues, and Rocket bro is known for his generosity in giving people the benefit of the doubt.  If Rocket thinks he's crazy, then he really is.  Lol

I NEVER EVER said anything racist, period.  This clown posts these absolute positions as "Mr. All-World TER" because he has more reviews than anyone else.  Upon scan of his reviews, it is apparent that he bottom fishes in the pond, which in itself is no problem.  However don't insult providers or hobbyists that choose higher price brackets with statements that are just plain dumb.

This is completely off topic.

It is more than off topic. It is useless drivel adding nothing to the board. It is a case where TER moderators should be stepping in and suggesting the poster tone down the interactions. He doesn't seem to have had a meaningful post for the past week at least.

Thanks for the heads up. I just put him on ignore.  

I blocked him yesterday. I hate that this nonsense distracts from our sharing of information.  

Conversely, people could stop engaging in off-topic discussions. I think you'll find that this forum lacks a lot of activity when people stay on-topic.

I've got to give you a "Like" on this one.  LOL

Why do you doubt that I'll do it? I'm almost disappointed, I figured you would think differently after we have conversed before.  

And, you were right. He still didn’t make it possible to block him.  

How one wants to define drivel, your take might mean no posts.

Dude been attacking cdl personally, nonstop, in every thread  

Sooji is my atf, from a lot of great ones too. Full package, real deal, I doubt I'll meet anyone better.

What nonsense. He asked me to disclose my ter handle. I have. Stop being a clown.

She buys me dinner.

I prefer to refer to my “current ATF”, not all time favorite. Just like great meals stand out as the best at a moment in time, so do women! At different times in my life I met a woman with over the top skills in one area or another that kept me coming back often for some limited period of time.  At that moment they were my atf just like that great meal I had in New York or Paris in times past. It really doesn’t do the ladies justice to pick one who excelled over another!

Only the older veteran mongers would remember Seeya and her fire and ice bj.  

about ten years ago that used Listerine for the "fire" and, or course, ice for the contrast.  After a couple of visits, I was ready to move on.  Lol

If you’re talking about the Sooji who was here in Silicon Valley, you are not alone. I heard from multiple people that she was a one of a kind.

My issue isn't with you directly, and I've appreciated that you and I have shared information both on the boards and through PM. My issue is with the flame-outs, name calling, and repeated droning amongst guys (and occasionally gals) that detracts from the purpose of the boards, which is for us to cooperatively share information. Thankfully, the worst guys when it comes to the name-calling, BLPOS and HH69, post under their handles, and we can block them which I've done, and which makes the boards more fun and useful not to have to read their hate and division.  

Reminds me of my youth getting blowjobs with PopRocks. Was ok once or twice, but then not so much.

"Current ATF" is an odd way to refer to your current favorite, as has been pointed out already.  
And uncalled-for, as there is a stock phrase and well-known wabbreviations for that:  "CF" for "Current Favorite".  
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Causality requires that "ATF" can only really mean All Time-Past Favorite *, but that's so obvious that we need not say it, except when some [person] gets it loudly wrong.  It is possible to get a new ATF, when someone surpasses the favor of your ATF-up-until-then and replaces her in your estimation.   But still, only one at a time.  Or you can just choose not to choose an ATF if you prefer.
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You can have a Current Favorite who is not your ATF, only if the ATF is not "current" -- presently active and available.  
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And savoring the recollections of those who excelled seems to me an excellent way to do the ladies justice in our minds.  But that's just my way of thinking.  
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* She becomes irreplaceable and truly All-Time once you are dead.  Not a very useful concept around here, though.  
** Well, not even then -- when you are dead you don't have a favorite.  Isn't logic fun?

If you're talking about the same Seeya aka Kimchi who was in the SM area, she was my first K-girl.  I didn't get the fire and ice treatment.  I'm sure that I would have recalled that!  Sounds like it was great!

I believe they came out either my senior year of high school or my first year of college.  I  remember being surprised that so many girls were game to try this and just did it without warning you first.  I felt the same the same as you, it was not  something that appealed for long term for me.  LOL

ATF

For me, the main thing would be if she trusts you and actually shows that she does. All of my ATFs have been that way.

She was easy to make appointments with   . Anyway, I wish her well.  For me she beat out Adele/Cari, Suvini, Pinky, Bijou, Cindy, Jennifer, Fanta, Yuka and two of these women I dated who legit fell in love with me.  

Ceroni (long gone) and Honii both from the BA.... Passionate, great oral skills and truly excited to see you and to be with you! Mechanical is a deal breaker for me. Looking for some new recommendations since relocating to So Cal